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RE: is it cheating? - 8/26/2007 5:06:19 PM

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Bob, while i'm sure thats true...i do indeed remember a very simular form of this saying from my mom or grandma years and years ago....

I've also heard something along those lines.

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/26/2007 5:07:16 PM

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In my divorce recovery group I was taught that "once a cheat, always a cheat." As far as I'm concerned, end of subject.

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/27/2007 7:08:52 AM

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In my divorce recovery group I was taught that "once a cheat, always a cheat." As far as I'm concerned, end of subject.

i have an uncle who is a serial monogamist....he sets up the next relationship while the previous one is starting to get a bit stale. or he did anyway. his current wife keeps him on such a short leash he doesnt have TIME to cheat.

could it be that she doesnt trust him because he cheated on his last wife to be with her? nahhh that couldnt be it at all....

kitten, who knows you could SMELL the sarcasm in that last statement.....

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/27/2007 9:12:10 AM

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Of course it's cheating unless you agreed to an open relationship ahead of time.

Do not trust that she's the only one because she probably isn't. And do go see your doctor and get a STD scan.

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/27/2007 8:18:21 PM

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ok, i just found out, and he confirmed it, that he met, played, and spent a weekend with a slave he was talking with last year at folsom. he never told me till i found her profile on here and read her journal. i asked him and admitted it but says its not cheating because hes a ''master'' and can talk/do what he wants and dosent need my permison. he said he didnt tell me cuz he knew id get mad and well... i did [duh].
my question is, can a dom cheat or is playing around behind my back with other G-I-R-L-S a masters privilage?

So because he is a "master", it isn't cheating? Really? And do you believe that bulls**t? I guess he must have gone to a different "Master's R' Us" training school, you know, the one where you can say anything, do anything, and make it up under the guise of being a "MASTER". Of course it only works if there is somone gullible enough to put up with that crap.

Maybe you need to stop wondering about whether this is some kind of "master's priviledge" and ask yourself if you deserve better?

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/27/2007 8:58:34 PM

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Fast reply:

Bottom line: If you feel it's cheating, then it's cheating.

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RE: is it cheating? - 8/28/2007 11:34:36 AM

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Tell him you feel as if it's cheating. If you can forgive this one time, then hash it out how it has to be going forward. If he can't accept that you need him to have your permission to play with others, then he can't accept you as his submissive.

Personally, that's our rule we live by. Play with another with permission, it's ok. Do it without, it's cheating. Period.

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