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RE: warm ups - 8/29/2007 3:43:53 PM

Redoubt

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For me, my warm ups are 1/3 Physical, 2/3 Mental... from my experience with my partners, the long term ones, not play partners, once you get in their head and they know that playtime is starting, their body becomes accustomed to the enhanced demand you place upon it.

Eye contact, tone, physical proximity, my posture and body language all communicate to her that I'm ready to play. The actual physical elements are usually tactile play rather than percussive to start... stroking down the back of her thigh with the tip of a crop, cupping her face hard... pulling her hair back.. slowly stroking across breasts and butt with the palm of my hand, not gently but firmly... then a couple of light swats... more psych play, then a short burst of hard spanking, nipple twisting, thigh pinching. Then I'll either wait a moment to get her anticipation and adrenaline going, or play some mind games/humiliation if that's her thing. Then into the heavy percussive play with floggers, paddles, crops etc.

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RE: warm ups - 8/29/2007 3:56:57 PM

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No, that puts me into a place where it doesn't hurt as much and I start to enjoy some aspects of it. No warm-up, he ramps up to full right away so he gets maximum pain infliction and response from me, which gives him satisfaction, before any endorphins can kick in.

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Do your sessions include warm ups for the bottom?
If it does what does it involve and what is the benifit for you?

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RE: warm ups - 8/29/2007 6:02:27 PM

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Extremely variable. Mood, physical sensitivity, mindfuck before or during, and so on. My girl loves a warm up and if I want a long, hard scene that is the way to get her there. If I go at it heavy, she can freak herself out of her own submission, so I need to let her "sink" as she calls it into the scene. Once there, everrything seems to flow fine.

Now for punishment, all bets are off.

And for resistance play. And so on. That's fun, too. But the long, drawn out impact scene ... we like a warm up and a cool down and some after care. For us, the whole thing is erotic ... not so in the other kinds of play.

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RE: warm ups - 8/29/2007 6:26:40 PM

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Oh my dear, I always do warmups! It's a much more satisfactory experience with a warmup....but then, I do mostly Domestic Discipline type scenes and the warmup is a hand spanking on the bare prior to using an implement like a paddle or strap.

I like the feel of a good hand spanking, and giving a warmup allows me to spank with an implement for a good 15 or 20 minutes more before maxing out the bottom's capacity!

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RE: warm ups - 8/29/2007 8:18:03 PM

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To me as I get to know a partner (and they get to know me), we learn about likes and dislikes and places we may want to go ala Dr Seuss. When I think the energy is right the physical play happens. I don't start by doing things soft and slow just for warming one up, I expect our dynamic that we have to already be the warm up.

Well to each is own I always say. I do warm my slave first ( not always ) As those that preceeded this post have said," it does prepare the body for more harsh play." Even i f one does like it hard and is a masochist, there is some sanity in warming her/him up. In my opinion, to start with hard slaps and flogging is abuse. The only exception to this for me is for punishment.....then watch out.....

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