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LadyIce -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/27/2007 7:49:54 PM)
It would not work for me at all. I can't even tolerate an intimate relationship with a switch, must less a Dominant male.

Griswold -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/27/2007 8:35:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustSomeDom What happens if two Dom(mes) fall in love? What a dumb question. The answer is obvious... They implode on contact.

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/27/2007 8:46:59 PM)
i have not seen alot of couples that were both dom domme i have more of late like a fashionable trend or something but everyone will try everything in every possible way. so i guess it comes down to do what ever people twist things worse then twizzlers candy never get the damn things pulled apart right

MisPandora -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/27/2007 9:40:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustSomeDom What happens if two Dom(mes) fall in love? Dom de dom dom DOMMMMM.

ExSteelAgain -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 1:06:36 AM)
Haha, to Griswold and MisPandora. I certainly see a lot of Dom couples looking for a sub to play with. Of course much of this may be the male Dom telling his submissive that he wants her to be Domme now and then so they can find a second sub who wants to experience the dynamic.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 3:24:25 AM)
Here's the thing that many people believe for some messed up reason! BSDM = D/s (wrong) Dom/me couples can be very BDSM in play. In terms of D/s, I came to the conclusion this. Dominance and Submission are two sperate things. Some people look at BDSM as such. It's not BD/SM. So, when submission is avoided, this is a focus on submission. To not submit. Really when you think about it, D/D relationships fall into BDSM. Some people try to think of DOM couples as just mere vanillas! Not really, all the other kinky letters of BDSM still apply. Took me a while to fully wrap my head around a past relationship and apply all the labels and terms. In the End, it is what it is...

chellekitty -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 4:04:44 AM)
i think its funny that once we get into this lifestyle we start looking at every relationship and wondering who's the Dom and who's the sub...or at least i do...and have been the peanut gallery with others on the subject.... i have seen lots of Dominant couples work... seen plenty of switch couples work... but have never, personally, seen a submissive couple work...i don't know if thats just me and my experience...or...?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 7:13:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile Some people try to think of DOM couples as just mere vanillas! Not really, all the other kinky letters of BDSM still apply. I don't consider them vanillas, and certainly nothing "mere." But their relationship dynamic together is a vanilla one. Just like my partner and I- neither of us are "vanilla" but the relationship we have together is based on love and compatibility- nothing with authority transfer.

Vigilantejustice -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 8:44:58 AM)
What happens when two dominant people fall in love? They can go out and make some insatiable little subbie(s) very very happy.<wicked grin> My hubby and I are both submissive. If we could find a dominant we could both agree on it would work the same way. Instant Harem! Maybe we just need to find a Dominant couple, one for each and a bit to share! <giggles> Feeling goofy, Justice

Vigilantejustice -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/28/2007 8:53:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MizzElle Strangely enough, we met online, but I intially thought he was submissive (think goth guy wearing a skirt and collar). Boy was I wrong! [;)] If I may... Me-YOW! I do love me some lovely lads... how rare a thing to find a man who can/will do that and is also dominant. Oh, if I could be so fortunate... then again, I have a tendency to want to top "pretty" guys. Now I'm sorely missing a very good (just) friend who fits that description. Can't always get what you want, Justice

LadyPact -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 8:27:18 AM)
Actually, 2X had the answer quite a while back, at least from My personal view. My husband has never been My submissive. Now that he's exploring the lifestyle, too, he identifies most as a Top. (Personally, I say he's a switch, but that's another debate.) In Our marriage, We're equals. We split different things as to who has the greater ability. I've had submissives during Our marriage, but that is something different all together. I guess what I'm trying to say is, I don't love My husband less because he's not a submissive. It can and does happen. What a person identifies as doesn't necessarily determine who you fall in love with.

MizzElle -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 8:39:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vigilantejustice If I may... Me-YOW! I do love me some lovely lads... how rare a thing to find a man who can/will do that and is also dominant. Oh, if I could be so fortunate... then again, I have a tendency to want to top "pretty" guys. Now I'm sorely missing a very good (just) friend who fits that description. Can't always get what you want, Justice I'll be sure to tell him that :) I didn't look at our relationship in BDSM terms in the beginning at all, just that he was the more interesting person I had discovered and wanted to be with him all the time. I fell in love with him, and screw the "terms" to define us, we just love each other. We have a one of those indescribable bonds, he is my soulmate, for lack of a better word. I wouldn't trade him for anything. Okay, now I'm getting all mushy...

Master96 -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 8:41:41 AM)
Marriage is all about compromises! If two Dom/mes get married... they become switches [8D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:13:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Master96 Marriage is all about compromises! If two Dom/mes get married... they become switches [8D] Says who? Personally I can imagine a very hot Domme/Domme couple tormenting some verrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyy lucky sub/slave type. fanning self..............oh myyyyyyyyy But in all honesty, all relationships are about compromise and working together. Regardless of the specific dynamic of each person. Sure, I am a dominant personality but I cannot realistically dominate every single person in my life! I have to work with them, accept, that in some ways, there will be people that are dominating me and sometimes in ways I don't particularly like ( like my electric company and the freakin Co-op that just filled my LP tank !@#$!@% $1.57 a @#$%#$^ gallon ) BUT if I want electricity and a few other modern day conveniences, I have to submit to their will OR come up with alternatives. I think a relationship with two dominants would be serious work and more than likely, not happy long term unless they had other play partners (who knows) BUT, it is very possible and probable, that it can work. It is one of those things I refuse to close my mind to.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:15:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Master96 Marriage is all about compromises! If two Dom/mes get married... they become switches [8D] Not in this house they don't. Ps, Beautiful, i am still waiting on that hot lesbian sex you promised.

Dnomyar -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:19:33 AM)
LA you sound like Match.Com commercial.

Master96 -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:28:09 AM)
I agree with you LaTigresse. I was more joking than being serious :)

LaTigresse -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:29:56 AM)
Ahhhh, my appologies for misunderstanding. It is a bugger that humour and sarcasm do not always translate well when written. I've been a victim of that far too many times.

Master96 -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 9:39:05 AM)
Oh... no need to that LaTigresse. My mistake. I didn't put it right as a joke. Edited for not putting it right again!

LaTigresse -> RE: Two Dom(mes) fall in love (8/29/2007 10:42:55 AM)
Pffft, and they say two dominant types can't get along. Now you must kneel and be my little bitch.........

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