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RE: Watching others play- who do you fixate on? - 8/28/2007 6:46:09 PM

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I will watch a scene that is something new for me, or something that I would like to learn. Often after the scene is over and I would like to ask questions I will assist in cleanup during aftercare, and once everything is done, then speak to the involved parties. Technique is another attention grabber for me. I was DMing a party this weekend and one Top was florentining, he looked very relaxed, like it came natural to him. Unfortunatly, there were other scenes going on that needed attention and I could not keep my attention on him.

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RE: Watching others play- who do you fixate on? - 8/28/2007 6:47:42 PM

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I love to watch the interaction between dom and sub. I'll watch just about any scene just for that. I'll also watch the aftermath of the scene. I find a lot of BDSM oriented material frustrating because it doesn't show this.
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RE: Watching others play- who do you fixate on? - 8/28/2007 9:12:42 PM

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i tend to find D types absolutely fascinating. I tend to focus more on them and what they're doing. I will also watch the submissive to see how the D type is impacting her/him. One of the things i loved about going out into the local scene was to just sit back and quietly eye all the D types around. Fascinating creatures they are. That and of course how their s types respond to them.

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RE: Watching others play- who do you fixate on? - 8/28/2007 10:52:54 PM

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I don't watch people play very foten cuz I'ma mess and I tend to get way too into going "is it my turn yet?"

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RE: Watching others play- who do you fixate on? - 8/29/2007 5:31:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

Wouldn't what you found be true be because 'most' pervs (sadly) are men (at least that's to whom such videos are aimed)...so it would seem that if they're interested in selling to men, then the submissive on camera is gonna be female and if it's about FemDoms...that's who will be the main star. Always the female, in other words.

Somehow I doubt such vids are really educational, but more pornographic...though understand that may not necessairly be a bad thing!

i think that probably is the case, that things are geared towards men, who want to see women... it just made me wonder how unusual it is that a person would be more interested in what's happening to their peer than to what their complement is doing.

And by "educational", i did of course mean porn

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ORIGINAL: FyreAngel
i tend to find D types absolutely fascinating. I tend to focus more on them and what they're doing. I will also watch the submissive to see how the D type is impacting her/him. One of the things i loved about going out into the local scene was to just sit back and quietly eye all the D types around. Fascinating creatures they are. That and of course how their s types respond to them.

Ahh, that was something i'd intended to include in my first post, but i'm lucky to even find my keyboard some mornings... Aside from actual physical scenes, i also find that just watching the interactions between other couples at D/s events can be... Hm. Refreshing? Satisfying?

There are some subs/slaves i've encountered who just seem "right" when they're with their Dominants, in different ways... some give off a great sense of inner peace, or joy, or a very disciplined grace... Maybe validating is the word i'm looking for? This may just be something i feel because of all the Issues i have, tho...

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