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RE: are they bi? - 10/5/2007 3:47:04 PM   
solvr70


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Status: offline 		i'm sure there are more possible variations to this then can be imagined.

but for me, it all centers around taking cock to please a Woman. not that it has happened yet, but that particular part of the variation is what does things impossible to describe to me.

it started with taking a finger from a Woman, then two, then three, then Her dildo, then a BIG step to a strapon. there was something very, very intense about having her cum from taking me that way. then adding verbal abuse (calling me Her bitch, Her slut, etc.) But never actually progressed to Her having me taking cock for Her except in my thoughts.

that seems to be a bit out-there for all the Ones i have met, and so the search continues.

but one day, perhaps...

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RE: are they bi? - 10/5/2007 5:46:38 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		i often tell myself i would try anything ( I`m speaking in general here ) for the right Mistress.... Then ask myself if it`s true. To be honest i don`t know.

Time will tell i guess......

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 12:10:23 AM   
GregariousGreta


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Status: offline 		A lot of subs enjoy receiving anal and blowing dildos... Does it mean they're bi?

A lot of lesbian couples enjoy giving/receiving sex with a dildo... Does it mean they're into dudes? Neh, I don't think so. If he says he's not, then I'd believe him. Although, I'm going to go out on a limb here and think you're not exactly opening the discussion from a non-judgemental standpoint. It's difficult when someone they love is about to pass judgement on them that could affect their relationship with said person just on what they say about their sexuality. If he's with you, then he's with you. If he's not polyamorous, then he won't want anything other than you unless the relationship doesn't work out. I'm not seeing a problem either way he answers the question. *shrug*

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 12:02:56 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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ORIGINAL: mistresszariah1

. I does seem that he gets really aroused at the when W/we talk about it and is hard to arrouse with just plain sex with Me ...


This would confuse me, too -- he verbalizes one thing but his body seems to be saying something else.  Does he have performance anxiety issues with you?  (That seems like a benign alternative to what you are afraid of)  As much feedback as you get here, you're going to have to communcate with him to see what he says.  It seems like a terrible bind to contemplate a relationship with someone whom you don't feel like you can trust.   What does your gut instinct say? 

As to wanting to be someone's one and only, it doesn't matter if he's bi or straight.

MSS

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 4:28:35 PM   
Switchsubcouple


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

i often tell myself i would try anything ( I`m speaking in general here ) for the right Mistress.... Then ask myself if it`s true. To be honest i don`t know.

Time will tell i guess......


i agree with Politesub.. i have said the same thing and i also wonder if i would..

i have come to believe that there are a quite a few Mistresses who would enjoy a bi sub so i ask myself if i met one that was good for me would i become bi for her happiness.. now i think why label it i will just try to keep her happy and leave the labels out of it.

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 4:34:21 PM   
dcnovice


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I personally see being forced bi is a away to justify playing with the same sex.


That's my suspicion at times too.

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 4:39:45 PM   
dcnovice


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If I'm all about God, Christ, and family values, but in Minneapolis bathrooms I play footsie with the guy in the next stall, I'm situationally ... a Senator?




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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 4:47:01 PM   
MissSCD


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Status: offline 		That was too funny.

Regards, MissSCD

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 5:02:19 PM   
needDomme


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Status: offline 		I'm convinced that the right Mistress could get me to do most anything. As a het male, I could probably be made to enjoy doing oral on another male. I don't know how I would feel afterwards, but maybe that doesn't matter.

need

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 5:15:29 PM   
Darkmike


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Status: offline 		I look at it as a graduated scale.
Everyone has a little yin in the yang, or vice versa.
Wheather its 5% or 95%

Stop labeling stuf and wake up.

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RE: are they bi? - 10/6/2007 10:16:28 PM   
AllforFun


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Status: offline 		You know, its Sh*t like this that makes me want to just "forget" I have an S&M fetsish in the first place. Why?

Because its a double edged sword. If you are a man, you are expected to be strong and all that, blah, blah. BUT even if you find a Domme who enjoys playing, there are times when she asks herself these things and alot of people do this and it drives me nuts!

1. Is he gay? (the answer varies, but if he isnt attracted to men, Id say no.) 
2. Is he a wimp? (No, I am serious. I dont know how many women & men think this but really.... think about it.)


I dont know.... Im about to give up.....too complicated.

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