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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/29/2007 10:39:40 PM   
daddysliloneds


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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 12:00:24 AM   
Bobkgin


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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

morning cartoons and hormones


To which morning cartoons are you referring?

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 12:20:08 AM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		Kinky people inspired me.  No TV shows, no childhood games just good fun kinky folks.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 12:26:52 AM   
MadHatter


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Status: offline 		I'm new to the IRL aspect of BDSM, but I can say that Gaiaonline and chatting on chatrooms as a young teenager played a big part. That, and as I look back I never liked taking a side or sub role when my friends would play Power Rangers. I was the White or Green Ranger (Season pending) and I was in command.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 2:12:35 AM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Fantasies very young, reading as a teen and finally meeting a real life maso submissive as an adult. She said why don't you tie me up and spank me. I said...................ok. :)

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 6:36:59 AM   
slavebilly15


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From: Philadelphia
Status: offline 		When i was 16 years old my older brother had a Hustler magazine that i found in his room. there was an article about two slaves kneeling naked in front of their Mistress and ordered to worship Her thigh high boots and kiss every inch of Her boots and the slightly revealed thigh. As they worked their way up they made their way to Her thighs and as they approached Her shaven pussy she pissed on them making them lap it all up.
that made me extremely hard and i started my research in the lifestyle and now at the age of forty have been involved for over twenty years and have loved every aspect i have cum across.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 6:48:13 AM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		As a kid being exposed to movies, tv shows, porn magazines and reading articles about domination/spanking all were a great turn on for me.  i was perhaps 11 when it started to sink in that i was "different".  i also had some friends who lived upstairs from me and they were always being punished - beaten with a belt as their father was very strict. i was witness to many and it used to turn me on - only then i didn't really understand what was happening so i felt a lot of shame i suppose. As i got older i became more accepting. 

i didn't know officially about the lifestyle but in my early 20's i dated a dominant man.  He knew nothing about the lifestyle, probably never heard the terms dominant and submissive as they applied to bdsm but he was very controlling and firm. It lasted a year and ended up disasterous - he was what you would call :domineering" and became abusive. That turned me cold for years.  It wasn't till i explored on the internet in my mid thirties that i opened myself up again to experiences again. 

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 6:48:32 AM   
bound2obey


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Status: offline 		I see the resemblance to Larry Hagman (Maj. Nelson.)  Would love to see you in an Air Force officer's uniform.

What inspired me to get into BDSM was the feeling I got when my hair was pulled tightly while I was giving head.  I kept wanting more and more.....

Lori
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I'm Larry Hagman, Jr.
 
John
 
(Ok, I'm not.  But it sounds good).

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 9:22:09 AM   
kikinymph


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Status: offline 		I was inspired to investigate the world of BDSM because my step-brother handed me the "Beauty" Series when I was 16.  Now granted, I didn't actively start seeking this until I was in my mid 20's.. I was convinced for that long that it was all fiction and not at all possible to have "for real".

Kiki


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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 10:40:51 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		I didn't ever see Jeannie as a submissive at all.  She was a manipulative c*nt if she didn't get her way, with or without magic. A jealous maniac who had no common sense or forethought of any consequence. Thus, how every episode she had to be taught a lesson on how to behave 'human' and reasonable or you fuk up a guys mind and career.  Honestly, she was mere 'drama queen' in every act of magic-induced scene made to endorse a fictional power for herself via disruption her so called Master's preference to be a humble and undisturbed man of his given field of (lame) astro-physics.

Imagine the scoff of Armstrong's wife being so nasty.  

She wasn't passive because she wanted to, she was obligated since he opened the bottle. She even tells her evil sister (played by herself) that she is obligated to serve her Master, she is just lucky that he was handsome, educated and gulps, wise.  Her sister was stuck with old geezers and on the ready to cheat with any man, human or non-mortal as long as they were hot!  Figure it out, her alter ego was no different. 

If you actually thought as a kid or young adult that Jeannie was 'your kind of submissive' it is because you are in need of a gal 'fixing you, or giving some sort of leadership qualities to your life'.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 10:45:17 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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quote:

What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM?


it was dark, I had a little too much to drink and the door looked friendly enough...LOL


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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 11:00:21 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		michael,..don't tell me,

you were lured in with the ol' 'help me find my kitten' trick  lol.

nice pic.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 11:04:13 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I already wrote my answer to this in his other thread here

ghita~

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 11:04:26 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Twas the complete surrender and obedience to the stern commands, requirements,
whiplash leather belt, precision knife throwing, and kinky, depraved, dark
hearts belonging to the acquaintances of a most powerful Woman, my Mother.

"And i say to myself, it's a Wonderful Worlllllllld"

chia* (the pet) 

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 11:24:19 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		Yes, GhitaAmati, I read:

quote:

I will describe J. He also knows full well that if I were to ever run into J again on the street, it would take a compleate and Direct Order from him to stop me from falling to the ground at his feet.   


It is something undescribable, beyond lust.

Been there.  A body-mind trip that you may never recover from. As long as in present journey you avoid comparing any one else since, you are and seem healthier for it.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/30/2007 8:59:18 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

michael,..don't tell me,

you were lured in with the ol' 'help me find my kitten' trick  lol.

nice pic.


welllllllllll...the litten might have been a relative of mine...I had to find out for sure...LOL


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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/31/2007 2:02:53 AM   
PNWDom


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Status: offline 		My introduction to BDSM type activities, came from the mens magazines way back in the early 60's.  They were full of stories about germans and japanese tortures. Or a story from someone in the past.  The fact that the women were usually killed never registered with me.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/31/2007 2:32:02 AM   
BeachMystress


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From: Naples Island- Long Beach CA - Southern California
Status: offline 		I was very young (low single digit age) when I first became interested in tying people up. Cowboys and Indians was one of my favorite games. I wanted to be spiderman so I could entangle people in my web. About 15, I became interested in seeing what a boy would do for me because he wanted to be with me and I started manipulating them.
 
 At 17 I took it a little bit further and convinced the boy I was dating to put on my lingerie. That was my jumping off point. After that, I controlled, manipulated, spanked, tied up, teased and denied and humiliated any man I dated longer than a month (other than one.)  I had no clue what I was doing was part of any "lifestyle" or Dominant activity until 2000. At that time I started dating a man and after about a month he mentioned bringing rope into the bedroom. I was delighted! No one had ever brought the rope up first before.. Then I realized he wanted to use it on ME! Wait one second! That isn't how the game is played! It turned out my new boyfriend was a Dom and after a long talk he told me I was a Dominatrix. I laughed at him at first. I'd seen the magazines in adult stores with those leather clad scowling women on them and didn't see how they related to me. He gave me some websites and more information. I was amazed to find out that I did have something in common with those women and set out to educate myself on every aspect of BDSM. I picked up my first "official" sub about a month later. So, I say I've been in the Lifestyle for 7 years and practicing BDSM for 22 years.


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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/31/2007 2:47:51 AM   
callistaIn


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Status: offline 		A couple who I met while in college inspired me.

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RE: What inspired you to enter the world of BDSM? - 8/31/2007 4:05:39 AM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		i was brought up as a sub.  oh, not so obviously, but mama taught me by word and by deed to wait on the men in the house, that my job was to keep them happy....which i suppose is why i didnt really buck when at age 9 i was raped by a cousin, and when my father started molesting me when i was 12.  they were males, therefore they were "right".

my ex thought it would be humiliating to me to tie me to the bed....then was really unhappy when it turned me on something fierce.  then about 7 years ago i met james, whose first gift to me was a set of wrist restraints, which he used to fasten me to the couch frame and then proceeded to spank me..... 

so....my whole life and about *thinks* 20 years ago for that first tying to the bed?

Sir makes me feel happier and more at home than i've felt in a very long time.

kitten

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