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heartcream -> RE: What do you think will be the kink of the future in BDSM? (9/3/2007 12:27:29 PM)
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from my pov, the vanilla world is not workin. i mean generally speakin i dont feel any one is overly fulfilled. especially women. the men here in the bdsm generally are more aware of how to make a woman really orgasm. from wut i read anyway. i feel there is a lack of balance btwn women and men and i feel in the future we will come more into balance wif each other.
i wonder at times if bdsm does hold a better grip on the direction to move toward to balance it out.
for me to surrender my control to a man may seem like a small thing to most folks here, but to me it is pretty large. to find a man who is trustworthy enuf, and desirable enuf too, is no easy task. i turn my bod over to a man who has plans for me, wut he's gon do to me. and i let him cuz i really really want to.
in the end of it i hope i open up like a liquid rainbow and eventually he pats my arse sendin me on my way. well, ideally he wouldnt wanta see me go and we would end up in love like i always dreamed of.
for me, i am sensin bdsm wont be considered perverted or wutever words/judgments folks throw at it.
i feel that in the future women's sexual gratification will take ever-increasin new importance. men will compete to make their women flourish in the light that orgasm brings. embracing the health of it, the way it can actually turn individuals and our world around. women havin orgasms, big fat multi-dimensional orgasms is gon affect all of us. the intensity and pleasure/beauty will increase for all concerned.
i imagine it bein like, 'how does your garden grow' and the man is the gardener. we will see women blossom like they have not ever had the collective chance to. i feel the guilt wrapped around our sexuality will loosen it's death grip and we will be more free wif eachother. people will glow in a really pretty way.
oh btw, whoa on da tailpipe link Rafters put in. hmmmm, puts a new spin on the phrase, 'i sure am exhausted.'
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