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New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 3:38:56 PM   
SilenceNYC


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Status: offline 		I am new here, and am interested in hearing if anyone wishes to share why they became a dom in the first place.

Thoughts, ideas, stories, and advice are all welcome and will be highly appreciated.

< Message edited by SilenceNYC -- 8/30/2007 3:39:10 PM >

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 3:54:24 PM   
KnightofMists


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Joined: 7/29/2005
Status: offline 		it was never a decision to be IT...

I was however a decision to be ME!

just turns out being me.. happens to cause some to see me as Dominant. 

Of course.. it also happens to cause some to see me as Asshole... and I am ok with that. after all.. I am still be true to my decision to be me.

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An Optimal relationship is achieved when the individuals do what is best for themselves and their relationship.

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 4:04:13 PM   
Estring


Posts: 3314
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Because being a Dom means I get to own a slave that will do anything I desire. Hell of a deal.

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 4:06:58 PM   
jaymckenas


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Status: offline 		It's not so much choosing to become a Dom, so much as it is discovering that you are a Dom.

-Jay

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 4:19:22 PM   
mmb1


Posts: 304
Joined: 8/3/2007
Status: offline 		because they are high!!!

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 4:38:28 PM   
SilenceNYC


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Status: offline 		i love that
"a descicion to be me"


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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 8:38:21 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		I'm a sadistic and kinky freak with loads of creativity. My creativity is best used when I'm in controll of it. I've always had kinky thoughts and desires which I've written down and contimplated. I've tried a little bit of everything. Let's just say the last first and last leash I wore broke and I use it as whip on the other half. I always knew who I was and I proved it by trying and finding what I really like. Being walked on has never been my cup of tea.

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/30/2007 10:08:52 PM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		It made my stiffy tingle.

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 5:34:52 AM   
Redoubt


Posts: 185
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Status: offline 		I liked the hours and the healthcare benefits. ;)

(KoM pretty much summed it up perfectly)

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 5:47:58 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I think KoM has done the definitive statement for alot of us.

Ron

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 6:58:23 AM   
SilenceNYC


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for sharing.  

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 7:56:55 AM   
Alumbrado


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ORIGINAL: RRafe

It made my stiffy tingle.


The built in kink meter.

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 11:57:24 AM   
clearshooter


Posts: 19
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Status: offline 		Well spoken KnightoMists!  Thank you

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RE: New Guy asking : Why did you become a dom? - 8/31/2007 11:32:43 PM   
obis


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From: Austin, TX, USA
Status: offline 		I was told there was insurance as well as a discount on some airlines.

Basically what happened was I realized through some experiences that the reason I'd been unsuccessful in my early relationships was because I was always holding back. I'd been told I was "too intense" by several women I dated, but eventually realized that living my life trying to tone down my passion to suit some sort of suburban PG-13 standard was silly.

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