YesMistressIrish
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ORIGINAL: forluvofmaria
Some very good insightful posts here. Having a sub "seduce" One with little kindnesses and acts of true giving do tend to inspire Dommes, lol. Life is busy and sometimes the littlest gesture or offer can start things We both crave. Topping from the bottom is when a subbie is like a child in a candy store..."i want this, i want that...please do this....me, me me" Not going to get him anything more than a spanking and sent to the corner...
What forloveofmaria said is true for me also. Knowing that someone has taken the time and energy to know what I like and need and then doing something without my asking for it really touches me. Also, what Boijen said was very sweet. When I hear the genuine and sincere words from a sub about what they appreciate about me and how they long to serve me in a non-pushy way, but is sincere, that gets my attention.
The 24 yr old mailman and I were chatting it up by the mailbox. He had on dark glasses and a hat so I couldn't see his eyes. Right when we were finished talking and I was about to walk away he said "Ma'am, is there any way you would ever allow me to take you out, anything you want, a nice dinner or a movie?"
I replied with, but you are so young, pull up your sunglasses so I can see your eyes please". He did and had the biggest, softest, most submissive looking big brown eyes. I melted and said "You know if you take me out, you'll have to be a veeeery good boy" while I whapped him twice on his arm with my rolled up mail.
He blushed and said: "Yes Ma'am, of course!" We talk on the phone regularly now, and will be going out soon.
What gets me the most? That submissive ENERGY. The attitude that come across clearly as open and willing. The word Ma'am said softly in public and someone acting in a continuous subbie manner trips my Domme trigger and my brain kicks into gear, imagining what I would do with this person, or ask of them, a scene, etc.
The 'do me subs' are very obvious and a real turn off. They try to push fantasies. They beg forcefully; not gentle requests. They give suggestions without being asked. They can come across as porny, needy, and single minded.
I really like smart people who have more of a ”B" type personality when they are around me, even if they are an 'A' in regular life. When I see that they really NEED to serve in ANY way because they make a real effort to connect with me as a person first, a domme second, and a sexy woman third.. Otherwise duct tape might be in order.
When a sub clearly cares enough about me to know me, stays close, persists, and makes themselves available for real service, that gets my attention, big time.
Dommes get so much mail, we just cannot keep up, and so persistence is a big attention grabber and makes that sub stick out way above the rest.
Irish
I forgot to say one of the most important things; They make me laugh! I can be so upset, moody, or just had a bad day and a simple show of understanding with humor injected will flip my mood in a second.
I love to laugh! Life is serious enough, and laughing is the best medicine/seduction.
< Message edited by YesMistressIrish -- 9/9/2007 6:42:50 PM >
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