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nonu -> RE: How to best address the response to a Mistress (10/20/2007 6:56:20 AM)
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
If someone states in their profile what they want to be addressed, I say go by that to make a good impression.
If they don't frankly you owe them nothing but common courtesy.
If they sign a reply to you, use that as how to address them. If they don't you might want to ask unless you, like me, consider not signing a name to be impolite.
And if you are 'damned' for either way consider that just a nice piece of information that says that is not the person for you and be glad you didn't spend more of your time and energy on them. Some people are too full of themselves to accept simple politeness in my opinion and their arrogance shouldn't make you feel bad about yourself.
What a response, Ma'am! It not only rightly answers the OP's question but also makes a very valid point - that if one encounters such arrogance in response to a polite greeting then one shouldn't take it upon oneself. I guess the trouble comes in when someone who we feel is 'The One' for us, ends up in that position and we are left thinking of how to prevent any further damage from happening.
To the OP:
I feel from reading your post that you are already aware of what is the right way, so maybe you could just keep in mind what Ms. TammyJo has pointed out and things shouldn't appear so difficult thereafter.
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