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How long before you meet?

0-30 days 1 month

54% (24)

31-60 days 2 months

11% (5)

61-90 days 3 months

0% (0)

91-120 days 4 months

4% (2)

121-150 days 5 months

0% (0)

151-180 days 6 months

0% (0)

181 -365 1 year

0% (0)

366- 730 2 years

0% (0)

As long as it takes

29% (13)

Total Votes : 44

(last vote on : 9/10/2007 5:27:22 PM)
(Poll ended: 9/12/2007 11:05:00 PM)

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RE: How long before you meet? - 9/6/2007 4:45:44 PM

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I take it on a case by case basis depending on how far away the person is.

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RE: How long before you meet? - 9/6/2007 4:50:44 PM

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Normally, I'm all about as soon as possible.

This time, there's kids, husband, jobs, U Haul, real estate, mortgages and all involved. So we're taking time and getting things sorted first. Heading up for first meeting end of Sept, it looks like.

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RE: How long before you meet? - 9/6/2007 4:54:32 PM

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It took over 2 months for me to meet John. Hes 5 hours away though and had to wait til he had the weekend off once he decided he was ready to meet. I am all for meeting as soon as possible, but sometimes things are well worth the wait.

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RE: How long before you meet? - 9/6/2007 5:00:40 PM

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Whenever we are both comfortable with meeting.

One slave kept in touch w/ email, video & phone calls for 9 months before being ready for a meeting. Another I met after 6 emails, we met, and have been in touch for the 2 yrs since, but haven't had any urge to get back together. Another I met after 2 emails, we met that night, and it only lasted 3 nights. (She preferred to rush our meeting & get to know each other directly, rather than take it gradually.)

I'm in no hurry ... when we are ready and think we have enough in common, that's fine. And, there's no fault in trying & it not working out. Folks find out that they are, or aren't a match. It shouldn't be a crushing blow to the ego if you just don't work out.
But I'd hate to have a sub/slave move across the country only to find out we are a bad match, that's why I'm very big on lots of questions (both ways) and enough phone calls to give us an idea if we'll get along. And, there's a LOT of information that you can learn about each other before trading phone numbers, SSNs, addresses, mother's maiden names, & pictures of your last proctoscopy! But, after 2-3 meetings (of a few days each) we ought to know if we'd be compatible enough to try to make a relationship work.

OTOH, 1 who approached me this week, and I answered her w/ a polite, informative letter, with several questions ... she answered with 2 words (answering 1 of my questions). So, I informed her that such a feebly minimalist response was unacceptable & not to bother me again. I'm GLAD to have a prolonged communication, but I won't waste my time on folks that getting information out of requires a hammer, tongs & pulling of teeth.

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RE: How long before you meet? - 9/6/2007 5:49:27 PM

unsung

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In reply to the OP:

I find that I have little patience to wait to long to meet someone I am disclosing personal information to on the Internet. I want to know who this person is, body language speaks volumes that the Internet can not provide. I have met a fair number of Dominants within a week of our conversation start online, and I am glad that this occurred. Otherwise I would have been drained emotionally by someone that on the physical plane did nothing for me and probably never would. I think that when you're comfortable enough to meet, do so.. whether that a day, a month, a year. Heck what the hell did we do before the Internet, I know I certainly was not waiting for the pony express to deliver my mail, atleast not until after we established some sort of connection face to face first.

I lived in an isolated community, and took it upon myself to go to meet someone rather distant from me, because I was insistant on knowing whether I was wasting my time or not. It cost me a bit to travel there, but in the long run finding out he was undesireable paid off, as in real life he is not someone that I would have in my social circles. Ever since then, meetings are quickly determined and made. Its all dependant on the people involved, go with what you feel is right for you not what others think is right.

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