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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 10:08:39 AM

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while it's nice erotica, it's impractical. Not all womenl ike oral sex, nor do all women like the same tactics, so any man going in with a pre deamed script of how to do it for ALL women, regardless, would fail horrible, at pleasing an individual when he based his efforts off a script.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 10:43:28 AM

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it sounded good to me....LOL

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 10:53:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: Phin

I agree with a large majority of what he says, but women are different you might need to change up your technique for the woman you are with.

yep everyone woman is different. and understanding her mind and her body is the key like plains of white silk wrapped in chocolate fields echo delight

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 11:01:53 AM

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while that all sounded good, please, please remember we are all different. just ASK her what she likes. for example, if someone was going down on me and changed the pattern, I would lose it.

just because Sam Kinison recommended licking the alphabet, some of us like the rhythmic flick up/down scenario. if you change the pattern and start spelling, you will be O U T.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 11:03:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: Phin

I agree with a large majority of what he says, but women are different you might need to change up your technique for the woman you are with.

Exactly.. if you want to know how to eat a woman..ASK her!!!!

I agree!

The moment this guy would have Tongue Fucked Me without clitoral stimulation - I would have stopped and said, "Uh Hmm *cough - cough* excuse Me, you are now going to enter The Hime Pussy Eating Re-Education Program!!!"

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 11:11:15 AM

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He dips His lid to all,

Ok Ocilla, here's my post as a Dominant.
This is quite a good start for the person willing to give good to excellent cunnilingus to the supposed 'Average' female. It's quite enlightened. I like the bit about the reciprocation which is relevant in a nilla sense. But in a D/s sense this application is a whole different matter. (I need a Domiguy quote here!) Like what's that trancey song 'suck my lollipop Bitch!' A Dom doesn't yearn for reciprocation they just get it....

The author needs to add the Dom touch and the unusual touch.

An unusual touch for those that need reassurance in warming up is to lay on bed legs together hanging over the edge. The giver holds back the clitoral hood area and works around it, passing dirty but favourable comments that seek reply. The legs will generally relax and if they relax too much- compliment and tell the reciever to keep them together as you're not ready to finish the teasing thoughts of more extended stimulation. I have found playing this way will generally 'give' a lot of the wants of the receiver to embolden the giver to further aspects.

Yes, not all women think a direct tongue on an exposed clit is sandpaper. Neither do all women cringe and loose wetness if one spits loudly on the genitals with favourable re-assuring dirty thoughts.

Overall I thought the 'guide' was thoughtful.

Well that's my contribution that hopefully does not sound like wankfodder nor self trumpeting.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 11:33:30 AM

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Awwwwwwww... I would agree all things do not work for all women, AND the author coulda come up with more stuff, like using his teeth now and then (if she likes that sort of thing).

I don't know if the guy is into BDSM or not...it kinda sounded like not. And not because we all know the girl would be TOLD to give him a blow-job in return (real doms don't have to ask?)...but rather because he just didn't mention it.

It is my personal belief that even in a D/s relationship, men (even dominant men) LIKE to please their ladies...and not all know HOW. For that reason, I would be one of those women who (in spite of thinking penitration is overrated) didn't much care for oral sex on me. That would be because so many men act like it is a chore. Since discovering BDSM, I've had a boy beg me to let him please me...no strings attached. We are good friends, I'd just beat the crap outta him...and he just wanted to keep the subby-oriented head-space. So, I let him...............OMG..........OMFG!!! john, you were awesome!!!

Yeah, I don't care who says what...this little article seems to me a wonderful place to start! Of course, that people should TALK with each other...is always recomended.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 11:46:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: Driver1961

...Neither do all women cringe and loose wetness if one spits loudly on the genitals with favourable re-assuring dirty thoughts.

Overall I thought the 'guide' was thoughtful.
...

<cracks up> Heh, heh, heh...I just learned that little trick, too! I spit loudly on a boy's genitals as I leaned over his hand working his cock. He loved it; but I suppose that my hot breath was against him, as I watched intently, helped too. I didn't let him cum till I'd made him flip over...and spit loudly on his anus, while I lubed up my fingers. He continued with his own ministrations underneath while I did that male-G-spot (prostate) rub.

Yeah, I've discovered spitting (for me) has its place!

B
I hope that wasn't TMI...I really didn't mean it as wanking material. <sigh>

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 2:05:26 PM

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This did nothing for me.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 2:29:43 PM

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Mostly I do that when I want someone to stop doing something badly, and get into some sex I can enjoy.
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

The Op misses the point where a woman just grabs your ears and tells you to hurry the fuck up. If he is as good as he says he would know not every woman can stand prolonged teasing.

He seems to be getting things right though

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 2:42:31 PM

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Well, it made for interesting reading at least. In practice? I highly doubt it. I would have been asleep before the massage was over. Maybe I'm just an orderly type person but cunnilingus and G-spot stimulation each have their place and not necessarily together. Two very different orgasms and one can derail the other quite quickly if tried together. Only my opinion, but what works for some doesn't work for others.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 2:53:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

One thing for me... do NOT push the hood back and attack the exposed clitoris.. it's a sensation not unlike fingernails on a blackboard... ewwww.

Now, here is a great example of "all women are different". I insist that you pull the hood back and expose the clit. It's the only way I do cum!

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 3:05:44 PM

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ummm ya'll have to pull the hood back to expose your clit?

tries to come up with a new yoga position to make sure shes built right cause shes pretty sure her clit is exposed all the time...well...its covered by my labia...but..nope no hood covering it...its more like a ball cap sitting way back on things....hehe

edited to add: tries to imagine the guy following the script exactly then imagines smacking the fuck out of him for trying to pull back something thats not there.....

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 3:12:18 PM

ocilla

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Chellekitty making me laugh....nothing will make a woman smack a man quicker than when he is messing up down there.

But the enthusiasm and intention with which the kitty is being imbibed may very well be the most critical component. Until recently I had never taken a fella to bed that was not really eager and determined to please me - maybe I just know how to pick em or maybe I just got lucky but even if they were not the most skilled initially - as HIME mentioned their desire to please just meant that with a little direction they became quite skilled. I have found it interesting that I had not encountered the less enthusiastic male specimen until I wandered into the world of BDSM. Having been in exploration mode I've had a few more casual encounters than typical and have discovered those who are more "bottom" oriented are not so great at delivering sexual pleasure. Definitely has been an education for me. And has reinforced for me that the relationship D/s dynamic is really critical to me and is not something that I can accomplish with a "playmate", kink buddy" or more casual encounter. Which is kind of a bummer when one is in the earlier stages of their exploration.

As to the G-spot with oral...a good example of what works for me won't for someone else. I like both at once. shrugs.

Oh and I had a boyfirend in college who insisted that all the best things in life are sticky. He was a good boyfriend and yeah I had him completely whipped.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 3:34:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

and i thought it was with a knife, fork and a large bottle of bbq sauce...
but honestly...this dude would have had me bored after the first 5 minutes...sure g-spot stimulation is hot and all...but after that, you are gonna have to bite my clit to get me going...but i am a maso-kitty...so...umm yea...but umm yea...i don't recomend that for the general population...in fact that will generally get you a knee to your nose...but its my juicing button...so be prepaired to get a mouth full of girl cum if you do do it to me

edited to add: oh and from my experience of making other girls cum on my face...the whole...treat it like a mini-penis thing really does work...well mini-blow jobs plus g-spot stimulations equal a wet face almost all the time in my experience...maybe i am just lucky

note to self, when eating chelle's pussy bite the clit

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 3:39:21 PM

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One thing for me... do NOT push the hood back and attack the exposed clitoris.. it's a sensation not unlike fingernails on a blackboard... ewwww.

I find this varies from woman to woman. Most that I have been with like it once they have been warmed up properly.

I have been told, by basically every woman I was ever with, that I am the best they have ever had at oral. I had one girl say "Oh my God, X Person has got to try this, and then want to call all her friends. My ex still refers to me as "The God of Oral", and Phoenix has said many times that she can not imagine that I am not the best oral someone has ever had. That is what other people say. I am decent at it. There are probably much better out there, and there is always something to learn.. Over all this is 90% how I do things. The differences being:

1. Most woman I find get MUCH less pleasure from a flicking motion, and a LOT more from the flat of the tongue. I will try it with a new woman, but it usually has little to no result.

2. Massage for an hour before tends to kill her mood, and put her to sleep. I enjoy every part of a woman. I touch and caress everywhere. I get just as much pleasure from kissing and stroking her shoulder or back, as I do her breasts or other naughty bits. Phoenix says I am also the most sensual person she has ever met.

3. I never thought of putting my pinky against the ass. I had an ex who was violently against it, and I just left it out. Phoenix is very much for ass play, so I will have to try it with her. On the other had I have had a finger in both holes, and if done right it is a great thing. I do find it takes away from concentration and you loose a bit in the oral department.

4. I can't multitask as well. Frequently my hands stop moving and caressing. Personally I think I need a seconded person there to take up that job, so I can focus on what I am doing.

5. While I would LOVE to spend 2 hours doing this, after 15 minutes most women demand I fuck them, regardless if they had an orgasm or not. A person who says they can't get off from oral at times has taken 30-45 minutes to get make them cum.

6. Tongue fucking the entrance works for some people, not all. I have found it boars all my partners with the exception of my current one.

All women are very different, and you have to use more of one technique on someone, and less of another. Listening to the breathing and sounds gives great direction. The last person I did this to other than Phoenix was deadly silent. I though I was screwing up until the end when she finally had enough. Apparently she had already had four orgasms, and was squirming violently with her fifth. So be patient and keep up the good work, always ask about preferences before hand for a little direction, and take direction when it s given while in the act. If she screams harder, for God's sake lick harder, she is ready.

Hope it helps.
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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 3:40:27 PM

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Obviously, the guide was geared to the regular guy that doesn't have a clue about how to handle a pussy orally. While this might not be the perfect presciption for every little pussy out there, it's a whole lot better than what a lot of them do, or more importantly, don't do. Consider it a Pussy Primer.

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 4:34:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

while it's nice erotica, it's impractical. Not all women Ike oral sex, nor do all women like the same tactics, so any man going in with a pre dreamed script of how to do it for ALL women, regardless, would fail horrible, at pleasing an individual when he based his efforts off a script.

OK I am no woman but I have eaten my share of pussy over the years and I know first hand every woman is different and every woman likes something different. If you are in touch with her reactions you can adjust your actions.. It is not un domly to say you like that don't you when you are trying something new on her, your not a mind reader Ask her... now if you don't get a reaction or answer your looking for change it up... There is no "eating pussy for dummies" book. It is true this has some good points in it but lets face it as someone who enjoys eating pussy and has been told I do it well. It takes years of practice and learning to truly become Master (sorry for the pun) at eating pussy and to understand how to do it well... The same can be said for giving head to a man but then that is another thread

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 5:59:55 PM

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What about the woman with triangle, vertical AND horizontal hood piercings?? lol

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RE: How to eat a woman... - 9/2/2007 7:32:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

ummm ya'll have to pull the hood back to expose your clit?

tries to come up with a new yoga position to make sure shes built right cause shes pretty sure her clit is exposed all the time...well...its covered by my labia...but..nope no hood covering it...its more like a ball cap sitting way back on things....hehe

edited to add: tries to imagine the guy following the script exactly then imagines smacking the fuck out of him for trying to pull back something thats not there.....

Not all women are alike. Remember? And women who aren't built like you are aren't "built wrong".

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