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RE: candle play questions - 9/3/2007 2:31:26 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

"Jesus candles and sex"

That is hilarious.  I too, am forever cursed now, thanks Aquatic.


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RE: candle play questions - 9/3/2007 2:34:35 PM   
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Yes, those candles from the grocery store work great. They are inexpensive, you can really load up on them, keep them lit as you switch colors and such, they make a great sparkly display...I love pretty! But I would refrain from the religious ones as well.
 
I've also had that paraffin hand wax used on me. It is softer and no threat of serious burning.

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RE: candle play questions - 9/3/2007 2:57:56 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_154985/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#155014
Wax Play

Wax Play
This is my general wax play design, easily modifiable if you want to
include multiple people.

Supplies: wax, long tip lighter, sheet or tarp, baby oil, knife,
baby powder, blindfold, (if using a crock pot, ladle, spatula,
paintbrush, any other spreading toys that look interesting)

Get the wax: Either two blocks of paraffin and two glassed church
candles melted together in a crock pot, or just the church candles
for easier transporting. I haven't noticed much temperature
derivation using these types of candles, but white wax is harder to
see where it falls and green tends to just look black on a person.
Start prep at least 2 hours before the scene by lighting the candles
or starting the wax to melt. If the candles are cold, it will take
longer and the wax won't melt as evenly

Prep the area: Flat surface is necessary, a bondage or massage
table usually works fine and is padded. Outside is nice because you
don't have to worry about getting wax on anything. If you are on
the floor, put a flannel sheet or comforter down first to keep
things from being too cold. Cover with an old sheet or tarp, and if
you're off the floor, cover the area nearby as well. Wax will get
everywhere! Lay out all supplies beforehand, you don't want to have
to leave burning candles or naked person alone too long. Also, make
sure your area is well-heated. Even though the wax will get them
warm and give them a nice shell, when it comes off they will feel
the cooler air.

Prep the people: Don't wear your good fetish gear! Again, wax will
get everywhere. For the waxer, wear throw away clothes and/or an
apron. For the waxee, get them naked and blindfolded. I like to
have their focus totally on the wax sensations and you don't have to
worry about wax splattering into eyes. Lay them down on the
surface, starting stomach down usually works best.

Start the scene: Start to connect with the bottom by massaging
their skin, letting them relax into position and get used to your
touch. Massage the baby oil onto their skin. Not only does this
feel yummy, but prevents wax from painfully sticking to hair and
makes it much easier to peel or scrape off. Once you're fully into
the scene, you can get into the wax.

Waxing: I start generally about 18 inches above the persons skin.
Get a good full layer all over their body. Be careful about
dripping on the sides as the skin is more sensitive. Once you've
established an initial layer, you can have more fun with sensations,
bringing the wax lower or higher to build heat (the higher the wax,
the more the splatter). You can paint the wax on, let it drip
slowly or just wash it over them with a ladle. The feet are also
lots of fun. On the stomach, be careful of the belly button.
Sometimes it's good just to put a plug of wax in there or cover it
with a cotton ball.

Removing wax: Wax is likely to still be slightly soft and pliable.
If you're peeling the wax, getting as much in one motion is a very
awesome feeling for the sub. Slowly start at the edges and pull up,
gathering the wax as you go. If you scrape, just press down gently
and pull towards the wax and down. There's always a few drips and
splatters to scrape off. If you've used oil, it should come off
fairly easily. Don't try to get off every piece of wax- a good
shower will do the best job at that.

After the wax: Once you've removed the wax, I sprinkle babypowder
all over the skin. The skin is very sensitive at this point and the
cool softness of the powder feels like rose petals just falling
down. You can rub the powder in and smooth over the skin. This
will help dry off some of the oil as well.

If you want to reuse your sheet, put it in the freezer to freeze the
wax, take it outside and get as much as you can off by shaking or
pulling it. Then toss in the washer and drier to remove the rest.

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RE: candle play questions - 9/4/2007 12:56:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin


quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Jesus candles and sex.

that statement will be stuck in my head for quite some time, I am going to hell...


no you're not...i am pretty sure that if Jesus were here he would have hung out in that NC dungeon that got busted for castrating dudes....so....melting candles in jars with pictures of him on them to drip on people that enjoy it and then pleasure eachother...would seem very mild...all about perspective...

chelle...bed time...really...is it double posting when you see two of these while you're still typing?

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RE: candle play questions - 9/4/2007 3:48:01 PM   
Phin


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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

is it double posting when you see two of these while you're still typing?


if it is we will forgive you this time... dont let it happen again

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RE: candle play questions - 9/4/2007 3:54:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin


quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Jesus candles and sex.

that statement will be stuck in my head for quite some time, I am going to hell...


It's OK, I have a CDL so I can drive the bus.


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RE: candle play questions - 9/4/2007 4:23:07 PM   
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I have engaged in wax play since I was 8 yrs old. Back then, we thought of it as fun, but it turned me on, even back then. I don't have much to add to the great posts on here already, so I'll share a memory that popped up in my mind while reading what you all wrote instead...
 
I remember a sunny ca beach day at around 11-12 yrs old. After swimming all morning I came in the house with a wet swim suit and wanted to warm up and get dry.
I was lying on a large cedar chest under our huge bay windows, the warm sun and the smell of the wax layers on the cedar chest lulled me off to sleep. Dreamed of a guy I had a big crush on in school. It caused my first wet dream and when I woke up, I felt intensely horny for the first time I can remember. I had a really bad ache, down there..........

< Message edited by YesMistressIrish -- 9/4/2007 4:36:26 PM >

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RE: candle play questions - 9/6/2007 2:34:12 PM   
teamnoir


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Wherever. I've used a wide variety of candles. Never ordered them mail order, though. Always found them at discount stores, $1 stores, magick stores, hardware stores, IKEA, etc.

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RE: candle play questions - 9/6/2007 2:41:00 PM   
LaMistressa


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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

lol.  Aquatic...I forgot about those....you find them in the ethnic foods sections at grocery stores...it would freak me out too. 


You can usually use a bit of acetone or nail polish remover to take the prayer messages off of the outside of the prayer candle glass, if that stuff bothers you (important note: thoroughly wash the acetone off of the outside if you do this - flammable!) I love the colors, and the price can't be beat.

I also have a small crock pot that I got for $10 that I melt wax in, and it keeps it perfect temperature for fun.

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RE: candle play questions - 9/6/2007 2:41:54 PM   
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i think my dom got his at a adult store. But yea you can buy them anywhere you want.

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