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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Toservez,

It is refreshing to see your posts here among all the predictable "ews" of everyone else.  Thank you for your contribution, and I very much feel the same way as you - degradation, humiliation, extreme intimacy and caring, and something treated differently than more "acceptable" things that have the same result for others.  I am always hesitant to write about the subject, and I appreciate your courage in stepping up and sharing your point of view. 

I remember him looking down at me once, with more pride in his voice and face than I have ever seen before, saying, "You are an amazing girl.  I am forever touched by what you are willing to go through for me."  The profound effect some of my uses has on us has propelled us into a bond deeper than I could have ever imagined.

This is something I never would have imagined myself doing.  And it is something he said he had no interest in.  But together we explored it, and found new channels within ourselves, and in our relationship as a result.   Definitely not for everybody.  But it creates a connection so powerful between us that I've become grateful for the opportunity to experience it whenever he wants.

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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

Hm, this got me wondering something.  Okay, I'll start out saying that water sports and scat don't appeal to me whatsoever, never done them, but I suppose I don't consider them a limit assuming safety concerns are adressed.  But as far as a dom using a sub as a toilet, especially for #2, that kind of seems to me that it would be degrading to the dom.  Does anyone else feel that way?  I mean, we're raised taking that as a very private, not-to-be-discussed and certainly not-to-be-observed thing.  If someone walks in on you while you're taking a $hit it is humiliating.  I read a war story about it being totally un-honorable to snipe a soldier while they're taking a poo.  They had to wait till their pants were up.  It is such a vulnerable and icky moment, I assume for most people (but I suppose only speaking directly for myself) that even your own poo icks you out, so to me, letting someone else contact my poo would be especially humiliating.  This is all from my pov as a sub, but I think contacting a dom's scat would either be some kind of intimate bonding (maybe, hard to see that), but would in no way reinforce his dominance, possibly even detract from it, because I'd have witnessed his most vulnerable moments and that shameful social stigma of having someone witness/contact it (as in shameful for him to let that happen).  Insert your own genders/titles wherever, just using my own pov.

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ORIGINAL: toservez

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Toservez,

It is refreshing to see your posts here among all the predictable "ews" of everyone else.  Thank you for your contribution, and I very much feel the same way as you - degradation, humiliation, extreme intimacy and caring, and something treated differently than more "acceptable" things that have the same result for others.  I am always hesitant to write about the subject, and I appreciate your courage in stepping up and sharing your point of view. 

I remember him looking down at me once, with more pride in his voice and face than I have ever seen before, saying, "You are an amazing girl.  I am forever touched by what you are willing to go through for me."  The profound effect some of my uses has on us has propelled us into a bond deeper than I could have ever imagined.

This is something I never would have imagined myself doing.  And it is something he said he had no interest in.  But together we explored it, and found new channels within ourselves, and in our relationship as a result.   Definitely not for everybody.  But it creates a connection so powerful between us that I've become grateful for the opportunity to experience it whenever he wants.

Thank you for your kind words. Normally I also stay away from the topic as it becomes a series of ick comments and safety concerns. Safety comments on topics or as the topic is one of my pet peeves that unless someone really irks me I tend to just try to ignore but I felt this time there was a more mature and accepting level of posts that I stuck out my neck.

I could not agree more to you that there have been times that being a toilet to an owner is an extremely intimate moment between us that few things ever in my life have approached and the look in my owner’s eyes and the confidence you can often see how much it can free them makes me never think of never not doing it. Also though in my more hubris times I help feed some insecurity by thinking try to find another woman who will let you do this to your hearts content. ;)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Toservez,

It is refreshing to see your posts here among all the predictable "ews" of everyone else.  Thank you for your contribution, and I very much feel the same way as you - degradation, humiliation, extreme intimacy and caring, and something treated differently than more "acceptable" things that have the same result for others.  I am always hesitant to write about the subject, and I appreciate your courage in stepping up and sharing your point of view. 

I remember him looking down at me once, with more pride in his voice and face than I have ever seen before, saying, "You are an amazing girl.  I am forever touched by what you are willing to go through for me."  The profound effect some of my uses has on us has propelled us into a bond deeper than I could have ever imagined.

This is something I never would have imagined myself doing.  And it is something he said he had no interest in.  But together we explored it, and found new channels within ourselves, and in our relationship as a result.   Definitely not for everybody.  But it creates a connection so powerful between us that I've become grateful for the opportunity to experience it whenever he wants.

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ORIGINAL: toylet
From time to time on this board, the topic of toilet servitude or slavery arises.  Some people indulge in it one way or another; most do not.  my question is why do you do what you do (or don't why you don't)?  Something either encourages you (exercise of power, pure sadism, lust to degrade extremely, desire to be totally "accepted", unparalleld intimacy, etc.) or repels you (health concern, aesthetics, innate revulsion, etc.).

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from chellekitty

...and assholes (the orafice not the thing its attached to)...

*ROFLMAOOL*

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ORIGINAL: BDsbabygirl
My Master has, however, mentioned pissing on me while I'm on all-fours in the bathtub. While golden showers have always been a 'take it or leave it', that does sound interesting and fun, just because it's with the man I love.

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ORIGINAL: Satyr6406

I'll put a "tick mark" on the "why I don't side"...
 
I just derive no pleasure from it but, more importantly, I would never ask a submissive to do anything of a humiliation/degradation type thing unless I felt they had something to learn from the experience. As a matter of fact; there are lots of activities in which I see no point.
 
I have no need to "test the submission" of a submissive because, if I doubt it, I will definitely speak with her about it and either clear it up or move on.
 
I try not to judge people based upon their choice of kink but, there are a few that truly make me question the psychological reasoning behind why some people engage in WIITWD.
 
Peace and comfort,

Michael