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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 9/5/2007 8:33:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: Satyr6406

I'll put a "tick mark" on the "why I don't side"...

I just derive no pleasure from it but, more importantly, I would never ask a submissive to do anything of a humiliation/degradation type thing unless I felt they had something to learn from the experience. As a matter of fact; there are lots of activities in which I see no point.

I have no need to "test the submission" of a submissive because, if I doubt it, I will definitely speak with her about it and either clear it up or move on.

I try not to judge people based upon their choice of kink but, there are a few that truly make me question the psychological reasoning behind why some people engage in WIITWD.

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But those are your beliefs and what makes you tick but you have made your preferences and beliefs into moral judgments which I find to never be a thing that is good in the world and especially frustrating to people in this life.

So humiliation and degradation are things you are not into and/or your type of dominance requires your submissive to have to learn or get something out of it. That is just your way, nothing wrong with it, but only your way and nothing more.

But as arayofsunshine55 mentioned the things you enjoy and would do are frowned upon by a majority of the population and you would not wished to be judged even if it is judged with a clichéd disclaimer.

It is never the ick, no way in hell or tunneled safety concerns that get me when people talk about kinks that are limits to them, but the people who for some reason need to somehow explain to the world why they do not in some noble way that they consciously or subconsciously judge others who do that play. Why not just say “not my thing” and be done with it.

No one called these things a test that is just your own words to twist what people like me have said. I do these things and enjoy them done to me not as a pass/fail of my submission but because I take great pride and pleasure in showing my submissiveness to my Master and this is no different then another couple engaging in SM or something vanilla that both like, they are both getting something out of it.

Is it a test if a wife of a vanilla couple gives an blowjob without expecting anything in return because she feels very close to her husband and has the desire to show him at that time. Or is it a test for a husband who buys season tickets to the opera even though he hates it but knows his wife does not and enjoyed showing his love through a sacrifice? These are not test and either is what this topic is about or anything else you do with your one. The only difference in any of these things is you find this topic icky.

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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 9/5/2007 8:44:29 AM

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Now what about changing that avatar?

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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 9/5/2007 8:46:26 AM

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Very sorry but I do not see that happening anytime soon. ;)

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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 6/27/2008 10:38:30 AM

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Hi there...
A very interesting subject.
Scat is 'ewww' to me too, which makes it a lovely device for torture.
Since i am addicted to female sadism, i love to fantasize about being subjected to her perversities.
I'm not into the classic sub-dom relation, i am a masochist craving for abuse, NOT for serving the mistress. I don't idolize her and i don't feel the need to serve. I want to be overpowered and to struggle and fight her. I want to refuse her orders, be subjected to her anger and recieve the pain and repulsion. and In that sense i'm no average bdsm-joe. The trouble is that my craving makes it impossible to act out on my fantasies, because it's quite unhealthy and harmful. But that's another discussion.
Back to scat. Scat disgusts me, like pain frightens me. It's the abuse that makes me so hot.
Let me be clear: i have never done it for real. My craving for being abused has lasted for years. The effect of this frustration turned out to be quite surprising. Because i couldn't get what i wanted i started to like the tools of torture. So now i like scat, i like pain. They've become objects of desire in themselves.
Apart from all that, i like the sight of a large solid turd emerging from a womans ass. That's because i love female asses and female assholes and there's no better way to enjoy her ass than by watching her spreading buttocks and dilating her anus IN MY FACE. But then of course, videos and pics still lack smell.
What would happen if smell could be transferred through the internet. I'd be the first to apply for the subscription! I'm just too curious.
I can imagine medical workers not to be so keen on scat as a sexual object. But i don't think they should generalise the object because it's all about context and setting. For this reason gyneacologists can still make love to their spouses.

This whole craving of mine reminds me of movies like Hellraiser. I know i shouldn't touch the secret box. I know i've been warned for the consequenses of pushing the buttons, but i still will do it, because there's a part in me that wants to take a trip to hell.

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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 6/27/2008 10:41:26 AM

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Fast reply;

It's not something I'm interested in, and (thank God) He is not either. Hence, we don't.

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RE: A simple question about a complex indulgence - 6/27/2008 2:23:10 PM

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Watching a sub dying from eating my crap would be rather distressing.

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