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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/3/2007 8:01:40 PM   
SweetSarijane


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I see nothing wrong with it. Sounds great to me. If it works and feels right for you then that's what matters. No one outside your relationship has the right to tell you how it should be or that you are doing things wrong. They are not in your relationship, you are. Ignore those who think they have the right to tell you how things should be in YOUR relationship.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 3:30:24 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Sounds like the perfect way to end a day, in my opinion.  I have other evening rituals, however, which bring me to a peaceful and content state of mind at the end of each day. 

Some people can only think of situations from their own point of view, rather than someone else's.  To voice it as right or wrong for someone else without fulling understanding the situation lacks tact, in my opinion. 

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 4:37:20 AM   
anastasia07


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Status: offline 		Greetings,
  The ritual of daily spankings is one that Master has with this girl, however, it is in the mornings, as others have said too.  It most definitely keeps a girls' mindset where it needs to be and starts the day out better than any cup-o-joe ever could!   *laughs*  While it did not start out to be a routine of Masters, we have now incorporated spankings upon a girls return Home from work... again, it helps switch back into the proper mind set and clears the head from the days' issues, putting her focus back onto Him... where it should be.
Blessings,
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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 6:01:06 AM   
servantheart


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Status: offline 		Hi nephandi,
 
If nightly whippings are what works for you and your Master, then by all means keep it up!  Don't worry about what some mean-spirited jerk says or thinks.  I know other slaves who receive regular "beatings" as a reminder of their place as well as for stress relief.  As long as the two of you are happy, that's all that matters.  

Best wishes,

Taryn
 


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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 6:44:56 AM   
RRafe


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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 6:57:16 AM   
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Sometimes there might be a welt or two but usually the skin is just a bit red and the redness is gone by the next morning. we do keep health in mind.

i wish you well


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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 7:01:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I generally ignore people who come out and say that 'what you are doing is disgusting, revolting or wrong", no matter if they understand it or not. If you enjoy the whippings; and your Master enjoys the whippings...that is all that matters. There is no right or wrong about it.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 7:02:27 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Hi arayofsunshine

You are very right about that. One can not base what on do on what other pepole think. my mother always told me that, i remember when i was a little girl and i did not put my dolls away before i was 15 and all the other girls had long since out grown them. my Mama told me that you are not hurting anyone and can not base your life on what others think. i agree completly whit that.

And me and Master do live our own way. i was just curious as to why some had a big problem whit this. Some i have asked said it to them became a giving the sub what she want all the time thing. And i agree for some relationships that might be wrong. But that is not the reason we do it, and besides every relationship is different.

i wish you well.


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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 7:05:22 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Hi Anastasia

We tried it in the morning but often we have to bustle out of the house and all of that and it became a hassle to have it done. It would be a good way to start the day but for us it had to be nights as things are more relaxed then.

Thanks all for your replies. It is very kind of you.

i wish you well well


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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 7:08:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		It does not strike me as stupid or wrong.  it works for you and you Master as long as it makes you happy and it works for you, you should not worry about what other people say.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 12:04:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi

Hi Celeste

Sometimes there might be a welt or two but usually the skin is just a bit red and the redness is gone by the next morning. we do keep health in mind.

i wish you well



I assumed this but I bet if you question others they'll be making the assumption that the whipping involves more than redness, it involves breaking the skin. Because a lot of people do daily spankings (sighing enviously here!) and they don't get a totally negative reaction.

Ask the ones who say this to you next time why they think it's a bad thing when it's something you both enjoy.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 1:28:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing wrong with that---I however do ritual whippings in the morning---but no one is to say if yours is wrong.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 1:37:47 PM   
Msagain


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Status: offline 		I find a spanking in the morning to keep his mind focused and a whipping at night to put him back in the mind frame is just the thing. Who cares what others think its what works for the both of you that is important.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 1:43:31 PM   
MistressGayle


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Status: offline 		"someone" will always have a problem with something you or anyone else does; it's none of their business. You have clarified that these are not bloodletting events, and that's good for health reasons; the rest is only the business of your Master and you.

I have found that evening "spankings, whippings, beatings" are better for Me and My household -- it does just what you and the others here have said -- it reminds us all of our places in these D/s relationships, and also builds the bond that we try to grow daily. The activities between Myself and My boys are intimate, loving, nurturing, reinforcing and caring. What a way to live :) 

Mistress Gayle

edited to say: and that's why I don't do random play; these activites are reserved for those I care deeply for, and for those with whom I want to spend My precious time.

< Message edited by MistressGayle -- 9/4/2007 1:45:39 PM >

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 3:48:08 PM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		i'm not sure why some people can't understand that just because they do not enjoy something, it must be wrong. If you and your master enjoy the ritual, then you should continue it and enjoy it. Don't let some idiot, especially someone on the internet, tell you how you should be living your relationship.

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 10:06:52 PM   
AEslaveM


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Status: offline 		i think that is a wonderful idea!  What someone said about it resolving some of the small issues that might have occurred during the day, and starting out with a clean slate in the slave's mind really makes sense to me................i might bring this up to my own Master, as sometimes i feel as though a little correction might make it easier to sleep when i don't feel settled about something i perceive i might have done wrong that HE doesn't feel warrants absolute discipline..............Thank you for sharing this!

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 10:43:58 PM   
michaels4evr


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Status: offline 		if only we could muster up the energy and the sound proof room..we would duplicate your ritual for sure!

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/4/2007 11:46:39 PM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i don't think they are stupid or meaningless...and now i am even more jealous...you have an intelligent Master AND he whips your every day...lucky girl...
chelle

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/7/2007 8:11:39 AM   
asianslave2002


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Status: offline 		My former Master did that as well. Help Him relieve tension and a good reminder for me to be good at night. So how can that be stupid?

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RE: Evening whippings. - 9/21/2007 9:14:35 AM   
SlaveSubtoserve


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....i've enjoyed and appreciate daily whippings also to reninforce my place with M.--- so am much in tune with your practice also.

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