DrkJourney
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I would suggest that you focus on simply and clearly stating what you are looking for, what type of situation. Actually "read" profiles here and find one that matches what you seek. In this lifestyle, it is the submissive that caters to the Domme. All I see is you YOu YOU...if you are honestly reading profiles and searching I can't believe there is not one single solitary Domme out there that isn't after your bank account. Or is it that you think that's all that you have to offer someone? If you actually read profiles, I can't believe that during TWO year of "extensive" research, all you've run into are money Dommes.
Check your approach. I've dated gentlemen, that were your size, and I thought they were delightful. So out of all the Dommes here, if you present yourself in a respectful manner, I can't see someone out there not finding you attractive, to them, so Domme's being vein is not a good excuse. Maybe it's you that is not happy with the way you look? If this post is any indication of how you approach women here, you can point the finger in their direction all you want, but it's not going to solve your problem.
Just focus on what you're supposed to focus on, being clear about what you want, and stop dicatating what you want, has to be bisexual?...hmmm...doesn't sound like you stating anything that you will bring to the table for your Domme, just sounds like something for your own personal entertainment.
If you are impotent, what difference does it make to you any way? she can't have sex with you, so you want to blast her for liking sex? sweetie, you can't blame a woman that turned you down because of this....she is human, and has the right to want sex, doesn't make her "all about it". She was honest with you, would you rather she lie? You gravitate towards women who you find attractive don't you? why does this make her a bad person if she does this? At least I think this is what you meant by your last paragraph....it was written kind of all over the place, so I"m not sure.
There are plenty of Dommes out there that want service only, which usually means no sex. Come on, you have to give her "something" to get what you want. You want pain? again, what do you bring to the table in exchange for what you want? Did you think you just walk in whenever the spirit hits you, get beat for a few hours then go on your merry way until next time? Yes she might have asked what can you do for her, but it doesn't mean she meant financially.
don't contact anything with tits and expect her to collar you just because you deemed to write her
I'm not trying to be mean, but you asked...so I answered. Again, focus on what you bring to the table, and what kind of situation that you are looking for, and do not put it in some knuckle dragging context......you will get further
I wonder just how much you are focusing on your actual search. I mean you talk to a Domme, and you both decided you are not right for each other, then you spend THREE months out of your life to "track" her? Shouldn't you be putting that effort elsewhere?
I wish you luck on your search, but remember, to attract a Domme, you must be "attractive", and I am not even remotely refering to looks.
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