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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

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ORIGINAL: Justagrrl

how long do You wait until You arrange to serve or set up play date with "Master/Dom" how many in person.email, phone conversations before You play/serve Him/Her or whomever ?
 
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I am curious as to why you would think there was a magic number.

If you don't like him, the answer is "never".

If you like him and feel safe enough to meet, the answer is "now".

If you are unsure about whether you like him and/or feel safe with him, the answer is "not yet".

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ORIGINAL: LordBeast

Thats an Easy answer.  Till you fell right..  If you can't answer these question  then its not time.
Do you want to be with him?   Do I trust him?   Do I feel safe around him? 
And I saved the best for last.  If  your heart and your mind can't give you the same answer.  Then its not ment to be.

I know it was a short answer but I guessed the OP woud abe to tell for hersef when it felt right.