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RE: a question please - 9/7/2007 5:15:22 AM

goalie62

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

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ORIGINAL: Justagrrl

how long do You wait until You arrange to serve or set up play date with "Master/Dom" how many in person.email, phone conversations before You play/serve Him/Her or whomever ?

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I am curious as to why you would think there was a magic number.

If you don't like him, the answer is "never".

If you like him and feel safe enough to meet, the answer is "now".

If you are unsure about whether you like him and/or feel safe with him, the answer is "not yet".

Well said.

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RE: a question please - 9/7/2007 8:43:45 AM

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Well dang, and here i was told that a BJ was mandatory by the second meeting, and full out restrained heavy play with in the first week. Well I'll be damned. silly me

I'm sorry I just don't understand questions like this. Would you let someone else tell you when you're supposed to screw some nilla guy you met at church or at the bar?

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RE: a question please - 9/8/2007 5:05:06 AM

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Thats an Easy answer. Till you fell right.. If you can't answer these question then its not time.
Do you want to be with him? Do I trust him? Do I feel safe around him?
And I saved the best for last. If your heart and your mind can't give you the same answer. Then its not ment to be.

I know it was a short answer but I guessed the OP woud abe to tell for hersef when it felt right.

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RE: a question please - 9/9/2007 9:52:10 AM

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Every situation is different, but I tend to be cautious when proceeding with strangers.
My Master and I talked on the phone and online for several weeks prior to meeting.
Then we went out on normal vanilla dates for several weeks prior to any "play" taking place.
I had to be able to totally trust him before I was comfortable engaging in play.
My Master respected this, and he took his time with me.
We have been together for 9 months now, and we hope to be together for life.

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