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slaveluci -> RE: Sub jealousy (9/7/2007 1:47:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: HelenaTroy
How do subs express their feelings of jealousy to a Domme/Dom
Well, this slave just tells Master about it.
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what types of things make subs jealous
The only thing that could make me jealous is thinking about/any mention of His former subs. Not His ex-wives, not His former slaves (since I am His first), but His former subs. I've done much soul-searching about why this is. It's not because I've ever met any of them or feel threatened that they are still part of His life. This is not the case. They are long ago and far away.
It's just that, coming into our relationship never having had a dom/master before, I was always pretty sensitive about all that I didn't know. I guess I had these former subs of His built up in my mind as being perfect and knowing every thing I didn't. I now know better but it took awhile to come to that knowledge. I was an utter newbie and, to me, they represented all that I wasn't yet. That made me sensitive about and jealous of them. That is no longer the case.
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how do the subs deal with these feelings?
I was totally open with Master about them and we talked at length about them. It's very odd to me that I have no feelings of jealousy about other women that we may meet today or from here on out. I am secure enough to know I am not going to be "replaced." We seek out and enjoy other female subs/slaves. No feelings of jealousy at all. It was only the ones before me that I didn't know that caused those feelings. Now that I am secure enough to know that they are in the past and won't be coming back, they don't bring those feelings of jealousy about either. For me, the jealousy really did come from a feeling of not being totally secure. Once that security was established, no one can shake it[;)]. Just my take on it................luci
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