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Play time frequency....


Every day.
  11% (3)
Several Times a Week.
  29% (8)
Weekends.
  7% (2)
Once a Month.
  11% (3)
Several Times a Month.
  3% (1)
When My busy Life Allows.
  29% (8)
People Actually Do This Stuff in Real Life?
  7% (2)


Total Votes : 27
(last vote on : 2/4/2008 2:53:08 AM)
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Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 2:38:20 PM   
LDRandAstarte


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Status: offline 		play/scene/practice BDSM?

We had a sub who was under consideration, for about a month now. We had met face to face. A play date was being considered for a future date. And the sub in question brought up that she expected to be "used" several times a week at the least. This kind of frequency is not what We are looking for in a prospective playtoy anyway. We have each other and are looking, as Our profile says; an occasional sub for both of Us to use once in a while.

So that brought the following question to mind.

Now I know there are folks here who live the lifestyle 24/7, We do as well. So I am not talking about the D/s dynamic of the relationship.

What I am looking for here is, how often do you drag out the toys and or implements of pain, pleasure and/or tease and torture and actually get down to the nitty gritty of BDSM action?

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 2:53:15 PM   
SunNMoon


Posts: 1058
Joined: 3/18/2007
Status: offline 		Well ideally for me it would be several times a week, but right now I'm single so... zero.

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 3:10:48 PM   
Joseff


Posts: 505
Joined: 6/2/2007
Status: offline 		When we started out together, I had to force myself to untie her and go to work. Now we're down to about once a month, terrible how life gets in the way.
Joseff

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 3:16:56 PM   
softpjOS


Posts: 398
Joined: 6/7/2005
Status: offline 		Almost clicked "people actually do this stuff"  lol

If:

The dog has been fed
let out to potty
cats amused
teenagers gone/sleeping/engrossed in the latest video game
phone service interupted by an act of god (cuz we never turn it off ourselves)
extended family otherwise entertained and not beating down the door
personal book keeping/filing caught up
housework/laundry done...
vehicle maintence/washing is complete

THEN we can get down to looking for that darned key to the toy truck........and if we still have energy after all that......



(F) when our busy lives allow it


To "expect" anything else is nothing short of living in a fantasy world OR your single/no family and independantly wealthy.  And if thats the case...where were you when i was single?  kidding!!!!!!

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 3:37:43 PM   
fairerthanshe


Posts: 3035
Joined: 1/18/2007
Status: offline 		We get to spend weekends together as we both work, he's in school, i have dance classes, life in general keeps us apart.  During the 2 days we get without other obligations, we scene 3-4 times and more if there are play parties.  We also do regular hypnosis sessions, but unless they are intertwined with other play, I consider it more like "training" than like "playing".

well wishes ~ fairer than she


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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 6:31:13 PM   
lonlyrossInNeed


Posts: 3144
Joined: 10/8/2005
Status: offline 		I try to meet someone to play with when ever i go to a play party ;) usually twice a month sometimes even more

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 6:37:54 PM   
earthycouple


Posts: 4462
Joined: 2/19/2006
Status: offline 		hey ross, where ya been? 


and whenever time allows.

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 6:51:05 PM   
YourhandMyAss


Posts: 5516
Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		No it's not. You just have to be not to busy to do play several times a week.  To expect to play or even to do so several times a week's not fantasy if you're not to busy to do so.  Or if you make it a big enough priority to schedual time for yourselfs. 
quote:

ORIGINAL: softpjOS


To "expect" anything else is nothing short of living in a fantasy world OR your single/no family and independantly wealthy.  And if thats the case...where were you when i was single?  kidding!!!!!!


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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 6:52:50 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		I would go to play parties every other day or so if I had transportation to go to them with, or money for a cab, as for play with my partner, I'd expect to play every week.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LDRandAstarte

So that brought the following question to mind.

Now I know there are folks here who live the lifestyle 24/7, We do as well. So I am not talking about the D/s dynamic of the relationship.

What I am looking for here is, how often do you drag out the toys and or implements of pain, pleasure and/or tease and torture and actually get down to the nitty gritty of BDSM action?

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 7:02:57 PM   
SweetSarijane


Posts: 3788
Joined: 10/7/2005
From: KC area Missouri
Status: offline 		I average play once a month, occasionally 2-3 times a month, sometimes (though rarely) skip a month.

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RE: Play time frequency.... - 9/8/2007 7:44:51 PM   
adoracat


Posts: 1779
Joined: 2/16/2007
Status: offline 		when hubby's work schedule allows me time to have company
when Sir is able to visit
when i'm able to be alone in the house (no imp imping about)
when i'm able to take it, physically
when all the stars align perfectly

yes, then i take great pleasure in submitting, and being allowed playtime.

kitten...who hates waiting

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