Kelika
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Joined: 4/25/2006 From: Cincinnati Status: offline
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LuckyAlbatross, That is what I was saying though...she doesn't get to -choose- as she has only the choice of begging out of her collar; that is my understanding of slavery. My ex kept the checkbook, and I know a lot of submissive men and women who do keep the checkbook, but I know a lot who don't too. It all depends on the preference of the person you are collared to of course. This was the observation of a Dominant man who knew both me and my ex. That I probably have a fear of someone not taking care of the bills in my name. I am sure I am not the only one with college loans or money that goes to my retirement fund. I have had a man in my life (consideration) that completely empowered me in taking care of my finances correctly. There was a special situation in which I ended up having power of attorney over someone and so he was there to help me figure out the best way to make that transition. So I know there are dominant men out there who are very good in that aspect. Please don't get me wrong in saying it's a fear and thinking I might be saying dominant men take advantage. I know there are some wonderful...WONDERFUL men out there. *most of the ones I like are taken...but...lol* Each relationship is different...*smile*. Thank you for the wonderful comment btw. Kelika
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I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. ~ Anais Nin
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