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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/26/2005 9:39:28 AM

rarestlilsub

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i agree with you sultry. i am soon to be 49 and its hard. i am also into harleys and most either take that to mean im switch or domme which im not. so what i seek seems to be even harder to find. the younger men....hey if mature enough.....go for it! some have alot to offer.

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/26/2005 9:50:18 AM

arryshanna

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Hi there sultry;

I am a commited slave who is owned by a Master that is 6 years my senior, by the by i am going to 60 in October.

We share many things and it is his sense of proportion and good judgement that he has gotten from 50 years in the life. As he puts it he was a sadist from a young age just didn't know what it was, hehe.

I have served younger Masters and it seems that they can be shallow at best but that is only my experience.

What ever the man is that you choose to be sub too do so proudly and with style my dear, you are a dynamic looking woman and it sounds like you have a sense of yourself, that speaks much that you have to offer.

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/26/2005 5:15:18 PM

wolfsprincess

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ORIGINAL: sultryvoice

I would like some input on those of us that are getting older and are looking for a Dominant. I am 50 and it seems to be more difficult for me than someone much younger. I know I have gotten much better with age, but I am not that pretty and pert young thing. I do have to say, on my behalf, I have really gotten myself together. I have also found this to be true with others in my age group. One thing i do find is that there are more younger men interested in older women. Thoughts? Reflections? Anything?

Respectfully,
sultry

sultry ...

Not E/everyone is looking for those "pretty and pert young things". i think that the maturity carried by many of us older subs/slaves speaks volumes to the Masters who have experienced dealing with all ages.

My Master is 7 years my junior - something i'd never have thought of happening in the past.

And every time my knee creek, my back goes out, or my arthritis starts acting up, He always reminds me that my "slave heart" has weathered the "age" storm well.

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/26/2005 5:35:58 PM

sultryvoice

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Y'all have made me see that what I am doing is the right way. I am highly involved with the community here. I get around to other areas. I am going this weekend to the grand opening of Paradox in Louisville. I have never been to something like this. I am so excited. I am being as visable as I can be. Something will pop when I least expect it. Isn't that the way it always is?
Again, thank you all for all you have said..

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sultry

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/28/2005 5:47:01 PM

LadySonelle

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I actually very much enjoy older subs/slaves! The oldest I have played with was in his 60's and I would gladly play with any aged sub (over 18!) with hno hesitation.

I used to do geriatric nursing, so I understand the differences in skin strength and healing times etc, between young and older subs. Some care must be taken WRT bondage positions, gags, impact play etc, and a more thorough medical history before play are required, but certainly these are no limitation for an imaginative Domme.

Older subs or slaves? bring 'em ON! :)

Lady Sonelle

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/28/2005 7:35:17 PM

sultryvoice

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I am great at many things.. In fact, my age is an advantage over the younger submissives. Any Dom would be lucky to have me...and that is not conceit, that is self-assurance..

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/29/2005 12:14:40 AM

brightspot

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My Domina and myself have been together a year and a half.
Her Ex, whom she was with for 5 years was 12 years younger than her.
My Domina is 48 and I am 46.
She has told me on numerous occasions how much nicer it is being with someone close to her own age.
That it is easier to communicate with someone from the same generation, having had similar things we lived through in childhood, music, politic's, the cold war, etc.

I personally, have never gone out with some a lot of years younger, and most of my relationships have been with older women close to my age.

I have no doubt you will find someone, your attractive and intelligent....

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RE: Older, mature subs - 7/29/2005 9:34:33 AM

zaynab

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"...it seems to be more difficult for me than someone much younger. I know I have gotten much better with age, but I am not that pretty and pert young thing."

I worry a lot about getting older too, sultry... I know there are tons of young, fresh subs out there that are fantastic...

but if I were a Dom or Mistress, I personally would prefer an older sub.... being a sub, I prefer an older Dom (or possible future Mistress).

I place high value on the specific awareness, maturity, practical and well-rounded personal growth accomplishments that hopefully a person who is older has acquired. This is more valuable and enjoyable to me than things such as how tight someone's skin is, or how low their boobs hang.

It may be helpful to you to try changing your paradigm about what you determine is most valuable. Did you ever notice that the word "Senior" is actually a term of honor?

I hope my message helps you feel better.

By the way, if I was a Dom, I'd snatch you up in a second. *wink ~ zay

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