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Dolce -> RE: Life Sucks! Yes, this is a negative thread but I need to vent! (12/6/2007 5:30:29 PM)
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I've been dumped by a dom, too. (Sure enough, a week later I found he was trolling for "learning experiences", and using my computer, too! While I was tied up!! Bastard... but that's okay, because I changed his passwords and primary contact email :-) Hell hath no fury like a cheated-on sub[:'(])
Trust me, bawl your heart out. Get all of the crap out of your system...and then find a girl-friend, and go have a "he's a jerk" night on the town. Go out to dinner, hit up the spa, buy a few pieces of expensive chocolate, dress up in something nice and pretty, and GO HAVE FUN WITHOUT HIM!! :-) Prove to yourself that your happiness doesn't revolve around him!
Then go out and find ways to keep yourself occupied! Volunteer, join a local Ladies groups (a lot of towns have them), take some crafty-type classes at the local fabric store, take a class or two for fun, get into a water aerobics group (hanging with little ol' ladies at 7am is a BLAST!), or other activity to keep you OCCUPIED. Boredom/lonliness is your worst enemy.
Don't lose hope in the trade! Now all you have to do is find a totally hot vanilla guy, seduce him with your charm...and the first time he pins your arms in a tickle-fight, whisper in his ear about how much you enjoy him being in control. [:)] Win another one over to our side! [:D]
::hugs:: Hang in there!
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