basque48
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Realize rule number ONE.
Should you choose to play the "silent card", (can also be played as the "dismissed card") you have sealed your fate.
I would not count on that only being known locally, either. We women tend to tell others about this card being laid out by you men. Why? This one is so fundamental, wastes more energy and time than any of us really have to bother with, so if I get asked about you, and you have played it, I WILL tell the truth about you, period. It means you go back to square one, the network of us can be very, very strong on this issue.
All the carp, about having taken Anthony Robbins training classes, public speaking, knowing Elise Sutton through and through, and this one I love, "I trained under her assistant Katherine do you know how much Ms, Sutton's Assistant charges? (and he learned what again?), but then dismissed me after I politely said this is not working out - learn to LISTEN, you cannot be dismissive, its disrespectful, impolite, and unacceptable. The second method of total silence, after serious intent, is just a fine means of being noticed, you are correct, we NOTICE all right, and we network too. We know for CERTAIN no one teaches this as an "effective" means of communication (see above posts - know what you want before not after, know your limits, do your homework- silence after intent draws attention alright - the kind you do not want following you around!).
So learn rule number one, I see this could go on several other forums right now as well...
If you cannot take the advice that is already posted here, do something positive with it, then have a rationale and reasonable discussion with a woman. Perhaps even more with a potential partner, even if it does not work out, and it remains polite and non-hostile, and end it on a positive note - avoiding going silent or dismissing us, you have no business "getting noticed" in the first place.
< Message edited by basque48 -- 9/18/2007 10:55:31 PM >
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