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susie -> RE: I screwed up big time. (9/18/2007 12:27:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: xoxi
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I'm confused as to why everyone is saying the guy is the bad icky wanker when he talked about all this stuff, but no one mentioned that not only did that ENTICE Defiant, it made her want and wait and react positively to him as well.
This should say she's at least as much of a wanker as he is- she just stopped playing around before he did.
Defiant is well known to have issues with males and sex- so my only piece of advice os STOP trying to hook up with guys UNTIL you understand them and have decent judgement for yourself. Until then, this is going to keep happening.
That's kind of a really rude thing to say. Someone is "well known to have issues with males and sex" and thus can't ask for advice on the forums? Well I'm kind of new here so I guess I made the horrible mistake of treating her as a person rather than a pariah but even so I think if someone is asking for advice it should be given honestly rather than dismissing them as "unfixable" or "too many issues."
Life is a learning process and some people 'get it' sooner than others. But being rude and outcasting someone because they have made bad decisions isn't going to show them what they *should* do...if anything it will just surround them with other outcasts who make bad decisions.
I don't think LA was at all rude. She was being honest and to the point. As you say you are new here and you have obviously not read some of the many posts that DBG has made in the past. She makes her issues quite clear on these threads and in most cases she is not asking for help but stating her views on what she feels is wrong. No matter how many people point out to her what her issues are she continues down the same road every time.
I have seen LA be more than supportive to people who are asking for help with issues as are most people here. However, there comes a time when you hear the same issues over and over again and they become a case of head banging against the wall.
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