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MadameMarque -> RE: how to NOT find a Mistress (9/14/2007 11:41:05 PM)
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Two points:
I would say, do not open with griping and animosity.
Sometimes, this takes the form of faint praise: "I can tell, from your profile, that you're not like all these other awful people...," and then they're off and running, more invested in their anger and defensiveness, than any other emotion.
Even if you think you're complimenting the dominant, by comparing her favourably to all those other money-grubbing, game-playing, psycho women you keep coming across...ya know? You begin to get the flavour of that? It's not appealing.
Also, have a little faith, that the person you're contacting may be as fine and good a person, as you or anyone you know and admire. If you think it's not likely, then please don't contact them.
Good people have sex, too. Fine, respectable people, even heroes and geniuses (genii?) have sexual fantasies and their own perversions, and want to share them with someone worthy. How 'bout you? Aren't you a good person, a respectable person, a real person? Or do you feel bad about yourself, for having your BDSM urges?
My point, for heaven's sake, don't look down on the very people you want to dominate you. Don't think that there's something wrong with them, for wanting to do the same things that you want done to you!
Poison circulates
It's going to your head now
Do you want to stay
the way you are
today?
- from Hideaway, by HYDE
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