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LadyAngelika -> RE: Forced m/m - subtle and blatant (7/27/2005 4:41:49 AM)
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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold
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ORIGINAL: imtempting
No way ill have sex with another male. Ill end the relationship before that happens.
Just make sure that you discuss that as a hard limit before you begin any actual relationship. "Getting to know you" doesn't count as "relationship". If She insists on m/m play, then you know you shouldn't even begin the relationship. This is the exact instance in which BDSM activities can and should be discussed. Not as a horny "what will you do to me?" conversation, but as a serious discussion of compatiiblity in these important areas.
I agree with Dusty. I'd also add that you might want to say that it is a limit for you now to be rediscussed when you have a stronger bond/more trust.
I have met so many men who said "no way" in the beginning and that is totally a limit I can respect. Then later on in the relationship they asked me why I wanted that and I explained. When they realised that doing this was just another way to make me happy, then it became something they wanted to do.
Oh yes and remember boys.... never say never ;)
- LA
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