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RE: Ancestral BDSMers? - 9/18/2007 9:01:24 AM

SlaveSuru

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My Mother and Father when I was growing up had some interesting toys in their closet. I suspect my mom was the sub because she's always been very submissive to her husband and served him. My Master's Father owns a BDSM club and his brother is a dom as well. My brother I recently found out has a profle on here and is submissive. I think on a subconcious level you notice these things as a child and xhibit them later on in life in your own relationship. I think we inherit certain personalities through our genes.

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RE: Ancestral BDSMers? - 9/18/2007 2:02:09 PM

Missokyst

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I do agree there are subliminal patterns we can pick up along the way. I know my dad was kinky. I know my mom was frigid. I suspect my sister spent some time as a phone dom (she is both horny and money needy). But I would never say that I am "X"th generation dom or sub. Why? Because to say that implies that I was taught to be what I am, directly. Or that the household I grew up in was open about their sexual activity. And dang.. I cannot imagine my parents generation being that open about anything!
The acquaintence I know who was openly presenting himself as a master while his young daughters were around did influence them, helped form their ideas into dominantion and submission. Classified his eldest daughter as a dominant, and his youngest as submissive.
If they continued on with that as they became adult, I would say yes, they are "X"th generational ds'rs.
The rest of us just may found something familar and went with it.
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