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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/19/2007 6:30:05 PM   
wannabesub67


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Status: offline 		Well, as one without much experience I can only say I read the posting as extremely racist, closed minded, and prejudiced, not just agians Mexican's by the way, but against female submissives and male dominants. If they are all using abusive assholes and we are all such stupid, naive, used unintelligent pieces of nothing, then why are you here and why would you associate yourself as being a submissive?

You have your way, I have mine, and others have theirs. None are right or wrong, they just are. Years ago I had a man hater attitude and I can say from personal experience, from what you have said here and in your profile, you have the same attitude. Please I am not throwing rocks, but don't throw them our way either. Most submissives are extremely proud of how they identify and the ways in which they make their Doms/Masters pleased!

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/19/2007 6:35:15 PM   
mmb1


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Status: offline 		LOL @ chiaThePet, I think she took a break from this one for obvious reasons.....

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/19/2007 8:03:52 PM   
SolarAndViolet


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Status: offline 		Like my little girl says, someone needs attention. Somehow, the only response I can conjure is...

"WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHH"

-Solar


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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/19/2007 10:07:07 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		It's nice to be remembered.  I'm pretty sure I'm female, but take no offense at being considered a male.

Anyway, I find being invisible can be really hot sometimes, but really cold other times.

I find that my partner is doing wonderful when it comes to the whole co-dependency thing, so when two people are co dependent on eachother it can be a truly wonderful thing :)

I find it sad that a lot of subs really DO get sucked into the notion that submission = martyrdom and suffering and endless toil.  I think it tends to go in hand with them feeling their whole lives like they don't deserve happiness, that they need external approval, as well as needing to feel "different."

Such is life, viva la submission!

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 2:04:31 AM   
steamynotraunchy


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Status: offline 		You collectively resemble to me a shoal of starving Piranhas in a teeny weeny fish bowl and every post is a little morsel of flesh which you all go nuts over when it hits the water. Fascinating. Hello "Lucky"

< Message edited by steamynotraunchy -- 9/20/2007 2:05:06 AM >

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 3:42:40 AM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		Oooh I don't wanna be a piranha, can I be a gold fish instead? I think goldfish are pertty, I especially like the ones with litte reddish markings.  Yep, I see myself much more as a gold fish, and I think I'd like to be named fluffy.  Fluffy the gold fish.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 4:34:19 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		you remind me of a spoiled child in the toy store kicking, screaming and rolling on the floor because mum and dad won't buy you that special toy. 

you're more of brat than submissive ...no dom in his right mind would want an offensive, foul mouthed, bratty, uncouth, demanding, etc submissive such as yourself. you may know what you want however you don't know to act like a lady in getting it.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 8:55:23 AM   
steamynotraunchy


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Status: offline 		Sorry about that Lucky. It was your picture that threw me off. I can see now upon further examination that you could be a woman. My bad.

Keep those cards and letters coming!


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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 3:28:27 PM   
NLitendLady


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Status: offline 		I seem to remember that attention seeking behavior, especially when willing to settle for negative attention rather than none at all, is a sign of mental illness. I wonder if that applies here ? Regressive, childlike behavior, projection, denial, failure to take responsibility, antagonistic/aggressive action, and an undeniable seeking of attention at all cost. hmmmmm something to think about

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 4:16:03 PM   
cautiousiasub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NLitendLady

I seem to remember that attention seeking behavior, especially when willing to settle for negative attention rather than none at all, is a sign of mental illness. I wonder if that applies here ? Regressive, childlike behavior, projection, denial, failure to take responsibility, antagonistic/aggressive action, and an undeniable seeking of attention at all cost. hmmmmm something to think about


I agree with your comment on the attention-seeking behavior. I am sure she is basking in all the negative attention she is getting on here. It's a 2-year-old brat throwing a tantrum and saying "look at me." Pretty sad for someone who is how old? 40? Not only is she insulting female submissives as a whole, she is also attacking individual people. She can't attack LA's post, so she feels the need to attack her appearance...how shallow and pathetic. When someone resorts to insulting someone's appearance, it is often because they can't carry on an intelligent discussion.


quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

Sorry about that Lucky. It was your picture that threw me off. I can see now upon further examination that you could be a woman. My bad.

Keep those cards and letters coming!



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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 4:36:06 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

You collectively resemble to me a shoal of starving Piranhas in a teeny weeny fish bowl and every post is a little morsel of flesh which you all go nuts over when it hits the water. Fascinating. Hello "Lucky"


And yet you are so arrogant that you can not see how rude you were - but you still can not dispute any the points we have made nor do you care about the fact that your statements have been proven false. You take pot shots at LA when she hadn't even commented on the thread.

I really don't think we are the ones looking bad here.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 6:21:34 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		And where's Mod 11 when needed? Because somebody's being a bad forumite and should be given a time out.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 11:20:13 PM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

Sorry about that Lucky. It was your picture that threw me off. I can see now upon further examination that you could be a woman. My bad.

Keep those cards and letters coming!




What a perfect example of someone wrapping up an insult in something that is supposed to look like an apology. Why bother waste your time and energy joining a site like this when you obviously have no interest in the lifestyle at all.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/20/2007 11:23:50 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		edited to give no credit to stupidity and racism

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 9/20/2007 11:33:34 PM >

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 2:08:42 AM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		Aaah now look that's just wrong.  LA is a very beautiful woman and her picutres show that very well.  I find it sad that someone would stoop so low.

You can hate what being a sub or slave is all about, you are allowed your own feelings on the way you preceive submission.  What you should never do is try to boost yourself by trying to make another feel low or try to make someone look lesser in the eyes of others.  All you've mamaged to do here was make us all think better of LA and worse of you.

I am sorry that your feels so down about something or yourself that you'd try to pick a fight, I hope you get to feeling better.

~dancer


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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 3:39:08 AM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		Edited 'Cause once again I decided that if I didn't have anything nice to say, I should keep it to myself.  

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 4:21:41 AM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		lulz.

srsly.



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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 5:23:44 AM   
twistedkytten


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Status: offline 		Time and again the Op has shown the same type of behavior patterns... to me it screams Oppositional Defiant Disorder..  just a guess, if this be the case however.. one of the greatest thrills for someone with ODD is confrontation... they feed on reactions.. the more violent. the louder it is the more they get off on it.
Or could be someone who has absolutely no where else to go, and no one left that gives a sh**.
Either way.. honey it's time to wake up ... you're dreaming.

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 5:31:10 AM   
desertdancer


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Status: offline 		Well, I TRIED to edit myself...and it looks like I needed to, not only for not being nice but for spelling too. * Sighs*

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RE: to submit or not to submit, that is my question - 9/21/2007 6:04:03 AM   
xoxi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: twistedkytten

Time and again the Op has shown the same type of behavior patterns... to me it screams Oppositional Defiant Disorder..  just a guess, if this be the case however.. one of the greatest thrills for someone with ODD is confrontation... they feed on reactions.. the more violent. the louder it is the more they get off on it.


That's why it's so funny.

There was even that sentence about the Mexican which as far as I'm concerned was covered in big blinking lights that said "Get Angry At This Judgemental Post".

Seriously now, this is one post to NOT take seriously.  Just laugh. Cuz it's funny.

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