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leatherette -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:08:39 PM)

I am so stupid. [:(]  I might as well humiliate myself right here.

I check watersports as a like. D'oh! I'm suppossed to be smart - but I am soo dumb! Why the hell didn't I ever think of water when people talk of diapering?  duh..oh boy...dumbass me 

Don't think I should say too much... but .. one fantasy I have always had ( and rarely told anyone, close to never) was to be made to pee outside.
In a semi discreet place, with the boss watching guard. Most especially a dim city ally while wearing a short skirt with no panties.. or right through panties, cotton I imagine.. then walking home, as it cools..  or something of the sort.

D'oh!   There is more. But enough from this critter for tonight. [:o] 

I thought this was a troll post. oh god. and i thought a LTR ( the fever lusting guy, i mentioned a while back) i had had was vanilla too. ( he got me to play with myself in the car and exposed - as he pulled alongside 18 wheelers - often)
Damn!



Bearlee -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:10:07 PM)

 
<blinks>    Oh yeah...    [&:]
 
 
<giggles wildly>  This has been a colorful thread!  Thanks, RRafe...and all the rest, too!
 
(though I still have not figured out what tmif is...)
 
beverly





naughtytoddler -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:14:07 PM)

Ok..I dont normally post here but I have too on this issue. I dont see anything wrong with Diapering. I'm an AB..I always have been. Some like the humiliation. I do not..I refuse. For me..My "ABism" is a security blanket for me..its not sexual. I've looked through TONS of CM Dommes profilesand A l o t list Diapers as a hard limit for them and thats fine but its hard to find Dommes on here that are looking for a DD relationship & willing to accept the full abism at the same time. I wish they wernt so damned picky..



Bearlee -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:15:15 PM)

 
awwwwwwwww, leatherette, don't be so hard on yerself (unless you are trying for a diapering or something!)
 
Lots of people, both on the WS side and on the diapering side; do not equate such play as....both!  To each their own...it's all in the mind's eye, huh?    <grinz>
 
PS... I pee outside all time.  Does that make me bad?
 
Okay, your fantasies are so normal, they are nearly vanilla!  ...but what does playing with truckers have to do with it?
 
<giggles>
bearlee



RRafe -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:18:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtytoddler

Ok..I dont normally post here but I have too on this issue. I dont see anything wrong with Diapering. I'm an AB..I always have been. Some like the humiliation. I do not..I refuse. For me..My "ABism" is a security blanket for me..its not sexual. I've looked through TONS of CM Dommes profilesand A l o t list Diapers as a hard limit for them and thats fine but its hard to find Dommes on here that are looking for a DD relationship & willing to accept the full abism at the same time. I wish they wernt so damned picky..


I feel for you. Are you willing to be a part time AB then? It may be that they have encountered the selfish sorts of  AB's
who want a mommy-all the time. It's really more about what you have to offer-overall.



RRafe -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:19:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: leatherette

I am so stupid. [:(]  I might as well humiliate myself right here.

I check watersports as a like. D'oh! I'm suppossed to be smart - but I am soo dumb! Why the hell didn't I ever think of water when people talk of diapering?  duh..oh boy...dumbass me 

Don't think I should say too much... but .. one fantasy I have always had ( and rarely told anyone, close to never) was to be made to pee outside.
In a semi discreet place, with the boss watching guard. Most especially a dim city ally while wearing a short skirt with no panties.. or right through panties, cotton I imagine.. then walking home, as it cools..  or something of the sort.

D'oh!   There is more. But enough from this critter for tonight. [:o] 

I thought this was a troll post. oh god. and i thought a LTR ( the fever lusting guy, i mentioned a while back) i had had was vanilla too. ( he got me to play with myself in the car and exposed - as he pulled alongside 18 wheelers - often)
Damn!


Just smiles..........................[;)]



Bearlee -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:22:59 PM)

nt, it is not quite as unpopular (at least here), as you make it out to be.
 
Have you seen this thread that it current tongiht:  http://www.collarchat.com/m_1286606/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1287662
 
Yeah, what RRafe said, too.  Plus, I'm wondering just how many people really understand it.  You might use the search function here on Cm and find the Domme who's husband is an AB.  If you start, or participate, in such a thread...you might enlighten some of us as to really what it's about...
 
bear



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:29:28 PM)

Im trying to wrap my head around  NaughtyToddler's contribution.  You wish there were more who could accept fulltime AB even if they had diapers as a hard limit?
I know I am working towards making Angel my baby.  However, it is at home only. It just doesnt work for me to have him as an AB, diapered and dressed and whatnot all the time.  Im still interested in the diapering, just not constant.

Most people with the diaper kink are into it for the humiliation. It IS sexual, for them. I enjoy it for the power and the surrender, giving up the choice to help himself and depending on me to do it for him. The surrender is highly sexual for him.  The humiliation is part of it, and will be moreso when he actually has to be cleaned.

AS with everything esle... to each their own. For somen, its a way of life and a necessity.  For some an emotional security blanket. For some a strictly sexual kink. And for otehrs, WAY way up there on the squick meter. Whatever works, right?

DV



naughtytoddler -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:33:19 PM)

Ok..Maybe all of you misunderstood..I'm not an Ab ALL the time..I do have a vanilla life outside of the closed doors..you got the wrong idea. but behind closed doors? I "can be" all the time. doesnt mean that I am..



RRafe -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:36:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtytoddler

Ok..Maybe all of you misunderstood..I'm not an Ab ALL the time..I do have a vanilla life outside of the closed doors..you got the wrong idea. but behind closed doors? I "can be" all the time. doesnt mean that I am..


I think that I was wondering about your versatility. Would it be less difficult if there were other things you had of value?



Bearlee -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 7:38:53 PM)

 
I doubt any of us are what we enjoy 'all the time'.  Not bowlers, not surgeons, not ABs, not even sex addicts! 
 
<grinz>



MstrssScarlet -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 10:17:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtytoddler

Ok..I dont normally post here but I have too on this issue. I dont see anything wrong with Diapering. I'm an AB..I always have been. Some like the humiliation. I do not..I refuse. For me..My "ABism" is a security blanket for me..its not sexual. I've looked through TONS of CM Dommes profilesand A l o t list Diapers as a hard limit for them and thats fine but its hard to find Dommes on here that are looking for a DD relationship & willing to accept the full abism at the same time. I wish they wernt so damned picky..


I MIGHT know of someone who would meet your criteriea.  Check your messages on the other side.
Mistress Scarlet
And no, it's not me guys.



denika -> RE: Diapering (9/19/2007 10:31:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

But Knight is such a NICE guy................He doesn't make you keep the diapers there?

In a place where you can look at them all the time?



Lol   now that would be just down right cruel... Oh, trust me he has far worse ways of showing how nice he is lol.... (Thankfully)     :)


denika



LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 12:04:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

I remember reading a profile on another site a loooong time ago about this.  The dom offered to take girls out and let them drink all they wanted, including alcohol, and he would buy.  The catch was that they had to 'hold it' and if they wet their pants, he would put them in diapers and take them out in public.  I assumed by the wording used (never asked) that the diapers would be put under the woman's clothing.  I thought it was unusual at the time, so it caught my attention.  This thread reminded me of it again.  I can easily see by the discussions here how someone into humiliation would enjoy this.
Mistress Scarlet


everytime i hear humilation play. I think more of the lines of generic fetish cause it can be anything vs a more focused fetish



lucern -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 1:16:36 AM)

I like diapers from boths sides of my switchy perspective, but mostly within a D/S, caging, or humiliation context. Diapers have the bonus of having a potentially humiliating process of putting someone into them, followed by the additional bonus of bulky appearance, noise, and restricted access.  It's one of those 'constant reminder' techniques.  They can make me feel very submissive or very dominant. 

I say this without judgement, but for me there's nothing worth cleaning up the consequences of #2 lol.  Like many things, I like diapers part of the time.  I'd hate to get used to them or have a sub simply come to accept them as routine.  It should be a uncommon but heightened humiliation to be sent to the corner in a diaper, put in a cage in a diaper, doing light housework in a diaper...and so on...



naughtytoddler -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 1:19:35 AM)

Cages..-shudder-..Not me..huh uh. The Corner? ok..I can live with that. =)



RRafe -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 6:53:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtytoddler

Cages..-shudder-..Not me..huh uh. The Corner? ok..I can live with that. =)


A crib is a cage for a baby.[:D]



leatherette -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 6:58:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee
awwwwwwwww, leatherette, don't be so hard on yerself (unless you are trying for a diapering or something!)
 Lots of people, both on the WS side and on the diapering side; do not equate such play as....both!  To each their own...it's all in the mind's eye, huh?    <grinz>
bearlee


Thank you Bearlee.  No, I am not trying for a diapering  <laughing> oh no..
 
 I don't equate AB s with this. I don't think I could handle, much less enjoy ( or inflict) being an AB.
Its just funny that I never associated wet..with ..wet. Seems I am not alone.
 
BTW:  no bowling for me either!  
[:D]
 
 
 



Bearlee -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 7:58:38 AM)

 

"BTW:  no bowling for me either! "

ROFLMAO...  



kyraofMists -> RE: Diapering (9/20/2007 3:56:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

But Knight is such a NICE guy................He doesn't make you keep the diapers there?

In a place where you can look at them all the time?


If I hadn't forgotten them at my house, he might have.

The part she left out... or has conveinently forgotten  *eg*  is that the Depends were originally purchased for him because of a smart ass comment that she made; something about him being old.  He thought is was funny as hell and then figured turn-about was fair play, so I was required to torment her for several weeks. 

Knight's Kyra



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