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ORIGINAL: CreativeControl

I am fairly new to the site here, but your question caught my attention.

I sat and read most of the posts, why are we all here? Isn't it self advertising? You want to meet someone. If you don't want to listen to people asking these questions, then you would be locked in a room, and you wouldn't be online. There is a need to connect, to be accepted...some people don't know why they are not accepted, or picked to be someone special.

Think of it when looking for a job...if you were to go on an interview, and be rejected for the position, did you ever ask someone, why didn't I get it? What did the other guy have that I didn't? I believe it is more of that sort of thing most of the time. Then again, there are those people who are just very dramatic...and love the drama of life. They are the ones that continually need the attention of someone reassuring them they are good enough. Make every effort to sort it out before condemning them. You might find the perfect mate, or slave, or sub in one of the real people trying to find those answers.

I hope this makes sense to some of you out there...it is just my opinion to the posted question. I am just trying something new here, I am not one for the chatrooms, or message boards, but I am trying to become more involved in the site here.

Let me know if you feel the same or differently about what I just posted. I look forward to reading it.

CreativeControl