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RE: Finding Balance - 9/29/2007 5:32:31 AM

YesMistressIrish

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ORIGINAL: flowspen

i feel like i have two sides to me within this lifestyle. A part of me yerns for the more physical, the pain, degregation, humiliation and the other part of me wants to be adored, valued and more of a power exchange. i find it extremely difficult to find balance within a Dominant Woman were i can experience both it always seems to be that i have to chose between one side or the other. Is it possible to have both sides at once? and When so many constantly tell me that this lifestyle is all about the Dominant how does a submissive get what he/she needs in this lifestyle?

I go back and forth depending on my mood. Sometimes I do it in a split second, keeps things more spicy.

Irish

“Don't keep a man guessing too long--he's sure to find the answer somewhere else.”
Mae West

< Message edited by YesMistressIrish -- 9/29/2007 5:38:41 AM >

(in reply to flowspen)