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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 8:43:19 PM   
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When Dom/slave couples walk in public,  should the slave be allowed to walk beside his/her Dom/me, or should they walk behind their One?


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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 9:14:54 PM   
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they always get mad at me when i hunch over and drag one leg behind me and say "yethsss Mathsster" when they tell me to act more "slave like"....

but seriously...theres one subtle thing that makes me go all melty that my first Master did, that i still remember....its holding my hand, fingers inter-laced, his pinky is on the outside and his thumb is on the outside...which means that my thumb and forefinger are against eachother...we had a wax mold of our hands made doing that....the girls that were running the booth looked at us kind of funny when they realized the subtle difference...but they did notice....stops before a chorus of "memories" breaks out in her head....lol....other than that...placement doesn't really matter to me...sometimes i can't walk and i have to roll...then he has to keep up with me...and dodge my backing up....women should not drive....


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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 9:51:54 PM   
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Thank you A/all for your insight. i will leave this discussion between my Master and i now, for us to decide where i will be. prolly at His side like always, just curious. Thanks A/all!

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 10:11:35 PM   
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I liked this one too.

http://dblackie.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/05/02/funny_walks.jpg

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 10:16:19 PM   
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I liked this one too.

http://dblackie.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/05/02/funny_walks.jpg


My Master and I actually did that a few weeks ago, haha.

To more seriously answer the question, we don't worry about it, but I really like it when he offers me his hand or arm, because it makes me feel safe.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/20/2007 10:23:42 PM   
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When we go out walking, i like being side by side...or if i'm in a subby mood a bit behind, but my vision is better than hers, i'm generally in the lead...it's funny, we look like i'm in charge, i'm bigger, more direct when in groups, talk more, ect...but....i guess it's just one of them odd situations. 

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 5:49:36 AM   
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What every the two of you decide to do is how you should walk. Personally for me and mine, we normally walk side by side. We are partners/couple first, then Domme/sub second. If we are someplace crowded, he will normally walk behind me because I have some major back problems and he doesn't want someone either running into me or bumping me.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 5:52:40 AM   
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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 6:00:38 AM   
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OURS walk with body erect ,head up, proud to be in their owners aura as WE are to be in theirs..There  is no prescribe way for a slave to walk, however at very fornal events one pace back and to my right,my left or heart left side is reserved for the love of my life...bounty

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 2:58:30 PM   
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I walk about 10 paces ahead of her, turning frequently to check if she's still there.
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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 3:42:20 PM   
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i walk about a half step behind. Either i hold His arm, or He holds me around the wrist.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 4:48:55 PM   
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i walk a step behind him, to his left or right depending on where were walking...and i open all the doors for him, which i think i should do since i hate it when people open doors for me. it makes me feel embarresed if that happens.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 5:52:03 PM   
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Master is left handed so He prefers I walk on His right side, holding His hand.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 9:44:26 PM   
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When Dom/slave couples walk in public,  should the slave be allowed to walk beside his/her Dom/me, or should they walk behind their One?


Personally, I've of the opinion that the sub should walk 1.5m (1.3ft) behind the Dom, at a pi/4 angle from directly behind, towards the Dom's left-hand side.  The sub should be careful to display her submissive by taking steps with a stride not to exceed half of the Dom's in length.  Consquentially, her stride frequency will be at least twice the Dom's; don't worry about this, it's only expected.  She should be dressed in tones slightly darker than the Dom's, though of the same color, as to avoid calling attention to herself as the Dom rightly deserves to be observed by others first and foremost.  Should a leash be present, it should be of the same color and shade as the sub's garments; it is to be considered part of the sub's clothing.  It should hang loose in a hyperbolic arc, slightly shifted back as appropriate for the system velocity; neglect air resistance.

Of course, this is only for casual walks on week days.  More formal walks, and those on weekends, particularly those containing holidays, are a bit elaborate to describe in this limited space.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/21/2007 11:19:36 PM   
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Personally, I've of the opinion that the sub should walk 1.5m (1.3ft) behind the Dom, at a pi/4 angle from directly behind, towards the Dom's left-hand side.  The sub should be careful to display her submissive by taking steps with a stride not to exceed half of the Dom's in length.  Consquentially, her stride frequency will be at least twice the Dom's; don't worry about this, it's only expected.  She should be dressed in tones slightly darker than the Dom's, though of the same color, as to avoid calling attention to herself as the Dom rightly deserves to be observed by others first and foremost.  Should a leash be present, it should be of the same color and shade as the sub's garments; it is to be considered part of the sub's clothing.  It should hang loose in a hyperbolic arc, slightly shifted back as appropriate for the system velocity; neglect air resistance.

Of course, this is only for casual walks on week days.  More formal walks, and those on weekends, particularly those containing holidays, are a bit elaborate to describe in this limited space.



i take issue with the bold, highlighted part....your conversion is all wrong... 1.5m (4.92125ft)    OR     1.3ft (0.39624m)

as you can see they are no where near each other.....as for the pi/4 angle....i don't think you have any idea what you are talking about by this point because that would be tiny and from what point is the 0 line and omg my head is going to explode.....

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/22/2007 12:17:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

Personally, I've of the opinion that the sub should walk 1.5m (1.3ft) behind the Dom, at a pi/4 angle from directly behind, towards the Dom's left-hand side.  The sub should be careful to display her submissive by taking steps with a stride not to exceed half of the Dom's in length.  Consquentially, her stride frequency will be at least twice the Dom's; don't worry about this, it's only expected.  She should be dressed in tones slightly darker than the Dom's, though of the same color, as to avoid calling attention to herself as the Dom rightly deserves to be observed by others first and foremost.  Should a leash be present, it should be of the same color and shade as the sub's garments; it is to be considered part of the sub's clothing.  It should hang loose in a hyperbolic arc, slightly shifted back as appropriate for the system velocity; neglect air resistance.

Of course, this is only for casual walks on week days.  More formal walks, and those on weekends, particularly those containing holidays, are a bit elaborate to describe in this limited space.



You forgot to consider the time of day and the direction the couple is heading- god forbid the shadow of the sub should ever fall on the dominant and rob the dominant of the priviledge of getting his or her sunlight first.

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/22/2007 1:51:59 AM   
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I liked this one too.

http://dblackie.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/05/02/funny_walks.jpg


crackin up!!

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RE: How should we walk? - 9/22/2007 5:56:59 AM   
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i'm use to walking on the right side whenever i'm with a man (my ex's a Mexican and explained to me the significance of walking on the left and right of a man - left means she's a whore and available while right mean she's taken). i wouldn't enjoy walking behind Daddy and/or SO because it would be hard to hold a conversation with them.


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RE: How should we walk? - 9/22/2007 6:05:05 AM   
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(my ex's a Mexican and explained to me the significance of walking on the left and right of a man - left means she's a whore and available while right mean she's taken)


where i live there are lots of Mexican's by birth and people that are hispanic - who's families came from Mexico....and i have never ever ever heard of this...and i am not doubting that to him it meant that....but it is not by any means universal...


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RE: How should we walk? - 9/22/2007 6:46:11 AM   
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Wherever the (Wo)Man tells them to walk.

Pretty simple.

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