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RE: displeased owner - 9/22/2007 5:29:49 AM

SirCache

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Okay, having read some of your follow-ups, he was the one in the wrong on this. I'd definitely take a little time to reflect on things, and put them behind you before jumping into a new relationship. He doesn't even sound like a respectable Dom--more like a guy trying to vie for a threesome.

You're cute, and you have good inner strength--I have no reason to believe that you can't find a more worthwhile man in the future.

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RE: displeased owner - 9/22/2007 6:25:10 PM

SexyBlackMan2

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Wow. If he indeed is a true owner, things are pretty final. Releasing a slave is pretty much the end of things. Plus, you must have really pushed some buttons.

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RE: displeased owner - 9/22/2007 6:59:25 PM

Pyrrsefanie

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ORIGINAL: dyangirl

once again thank you for your reply's. I too feel as though a game was played, I did not mind the other sub. I enjoy it, but, he doted on her and waited on her. I did not know how to feel or react to this.. So I thought best to leave.
and then later told me she had belonged to another owner and was on loan to test me. Because He thought I was the one and wanted declaration of a bond already set. And told me that I should have been willing to just be there and not be pleased or touched .. so confused..

Okay, this guy sounds WAY too much like my first physical relationship with a Master. I wasted three years of my life putting up with "tests" like this which ended up just being an excuse for him to sleep around with other women behind my back.

I know I'm not a Master, so I don't know if I get to answer questions in this section, but just reading this made my teeth clench. If he wanted to test your devotion there were other, much less heartbreaking and traumatic ways for him to do it.

You can do better. Way, way better.

(Also, DD's of the world unite!)

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RE: displeased owner - 9/22/2007 7:06:35 PM

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Releasing someone to me is usually your final answer. To me if someone is released alot more happened than displeasing. Maybe you should think about why you were released.

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RE: displeased owner - 9/22/2007 11:46:30 PM

deliciousmorsel

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When you feel like it is the right time. And you can do better, too. That wasn't a test- it was about as plain rude as possible. Totally inapropriate on such an occasion.
But stop groveling. That feeds his ego and keeps him stringing you along. Nothing will get his attention like your sudden deafening silence. And just delete his mail without reading- you can do better.

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RE: displeased owner - 9/23/2007 9:57:51 PM

Celeste43

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Bring in a third without talking about it beforehand? That's asking for problems.

What you should do is thank the powers that be that you didn't contract a std from this unknown. And decide for yourself if you need monogamy or if you're open for more. And then talk about it before you commit to make sure you're on the same page.

Any guy who would do something that would guarantee you getting upset, like in this case, is someone looking to end the relationship and without the courage to be upfront about it.

You deserve better than this.

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RE: displeased owner - 9/24/2007 3:06:09 AM

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rule

thank you so . i can not began to tell you how when i came home with my new glasses and saw how i have stack thing to crazy i wonder how they stood up and not fallen, it is so wonderful to see again i could not cook or walk without falling on everything i could not see i was almost blind this means so much to me that you took the time to tell me you see the difference wow it is o great thanks rul so much

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RE: displeased owner - 9/24/2007 3:19:38 AM

mons

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greeting to all

why are some of you just missing the point she did nothing wrong not one thing!!!!!!! some of you have made it a point to say" wow you had to do something to make him do this? no he is a young mind ass excuse me! to put her in a position of catching something bad and to bring a woman home to just say her take her and play is cruel when he know she loved him so this is not a master a true one would have more balls and be a man about what he wants from her. this man makes the true master look so bad. i know many master who respect their submissive and desire only them and have a great time with what they do. so cool it on blaming her for all he has done oh hell so what if she did tel him "hey asshole i do not want to sleep with another woman with you where is my respect where is the love we had " i would get him when he is asleep with a golf club , then leave and let see if he is manly enough to call the police i bet he would not. he is a cruel fool and i hope he does not catch herpes from this woman he dumped her for. he is not a Master he is a pimp the worse kind of male. i know i sound so mad but stop blaming her she did all she could to be the submissive he wanted so sadly she was not enough and stop blaming her or are some of you just doing this to really hurt her ? i think this is what many of you are doing blame him or are some of the slaves and submissive so door mated they do not see right from wrong ( now that i have my glasses i will be hear more and wow can see all now )

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