HollyBlue -> RE: Bottom vs submissive (9/23/2007 8:04:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RRafe People are entities in constant flux. I get a bit pissy when folks seem to think they can be classified as constants-that's just irrational. And ignores the reality of humanity. well.... I was Male when I was born... me thinks I will be Male when I die... that is pretty constant I think...... oh yeah... when I was born... I was alive ... and you know what... I am still alive after all these years... hell there is another constant. mmmmmm well taxes seem to be a constant thing too........... Yup it's all just irrational stuff... Hmm, so your personality now is the same as when you were born? [;)] Why don't you ask a gay person how long he or she has been gay, and whether this gayness is in a state of flux...are they gayer some days than others... I am submissive and masochistic, and have been since I before I was even sexually aware. Although I have grown in my awareness of my sexual orientation, and the expressions of it have changed, the orientation in and of itself has not changed, and is definitely not in a state of flux. Some parts of us are changeable; some are not. Believe me. I tried to change my sexual orientation for a long time, because I detested it. Been there, done that. It doesn't work. We are who we are. Some people take longer than others to discover who they are, but in general, I think those of us who lean strongly in one direction or another always have, and always will.
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