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babygirl005 -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:29:57 PM)
I found my Master here on collarme. We have been together for 3 years now. He answered my pathetic little email that just consisted of the word Hi, because i was to shy and scared to say more. i read a lot of peoples profiles and posts here and they have so many limits on who they will respond to and not respond to, that i wonder if sometimes the baby is not thrown out with the bath water. i do realize that there are some things that you want and must have to make a relationship work for you. If my Master had not taken the time to respond to me (and without a picture), we would never have met. He is the best thing that has happened to me besides my wonderful children and grand-daughters. Oh dear, maybe i met Master on the "other" collarme? The one where all the jerks are!

iammachine -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:30:20 PM)
Congratulations on your being accepted into the One Twue Way club. You will find your welcoming package with your official Twue Submissive card and Twue membership handbook at the door, which will tell you everything you need to know about the One Twue Way. Thank you for choosing to be Twue! [;)] Compatibility != Sincerity (!= means does not equal for the non-geeks out there) Do not confuse lack of compatability if not being genuine. So you had a notion of what you wanted, and in three months time you were unable to fit a square peg into a circular hole. Imagine that. There is no one size fits all, and when it comes to people, there is no such thing as a perfect fit. Instead of zeroing on an idea of what you want someone to be, why not take the time to just learn people for who they are and letting relationships develop however they will naturally? Trying to fit someone into a preconceived mold never works. We're human, not cookie cutters. Keep in mind what you like and what you want, and maybe you'll meet someone that gels. Comparing someone to a fantasy archetype that doesn't actually exist ain't gonna do it.

RCdc -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:33:55 PM)
Darcy and I met online, but not via this site. Still, CM rocks. I have met lovely people from here, one of whom I consider one of my best friends. I think if a pattern is repeating, one needs to look at themselves and why they are making the same 'mistakes' and not shift 'blame' onto others. Peace the.dark.

subtee -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:36:08 PM)
quote: Anyone that walks out my door because they were unsure wether or not I was as cool as I know I am.........they are NOT coming back in it. capiche? Kinda makes me shiver to hear you talk this way...oooohhhh

iammachine -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:36:13 PM)
quote: I think if a pattern is repeating, one needs to look at themselves and why they are making the same 'mistakes' and not shift 'blame' onto others. QFT

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:37:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I am going to take a stab at answering that from MY perspective. Anyone that walks out my door because they were unsure wether or not I was as cool as I know I am.........they are NOT coming back in it. capiche? Oh I do understand. but you see we had/have a "relationship" and discussed all sorts of things and options prior to my leaving and even when I asked to return. But thanks for explaning that.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:39:47 PM)
I tend to follow the same logic as LaT. It is not wisdom to alow your slave to look. To prove how perfect you are because she cant find someone else is rather pathetic in my eyes. But thats my opinion. The moment a slave of mine expresses a interest in leaving to look and see if they can find something mising, they are released. They are NOT welcomed back and I sure as hell wouldnt allow myself to be considered a safe haven and a fall back plan for them. Thats insulting. My pets serve me because they want to, and becasue in their eyes I am the perfect owner for them. The second they questioned that devotion, they would be released to go find what they wanted. That might not be what works for HIM, and if it makes you two happy then be happy you have him still and go back to him. However, dont expect us all to be awed at your relationship, or to agree with your views. I have met many friends on here. Face to face wonderful people, not trading a keyboard for a drink, as you put it. I have had some of the boys I met here serve me, others have just been friends, some Dominants are close friends now. It can take ages to meet someone worthwhile. It took me nearly 6 months to meet Angel, and even then I didnt know what I had until after we had been talking onine for a few months more. If you cannot be patient, and you are so concerned with the passage of time, then you shuld ot be looking online AT ALL. It is not necessarily safe to jump offline and meet right away. I have taken more time than you have put into your entire search just to get comfortable enough with someone to meet them face to face. But, as I said, this is just me. What you said is you. Putting it up on the forums, is asking for opinions, and if you dont really want those opinions then you shouldnt be on here. Dont get al bent out of shape when we dont embrace your ideas, since obvously you dont embrace ours either. You may have not had the luck you were hoping for, but it isnt the sites fault. DV

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:39:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FullCircle We need a new section on these message boards entitled “I’m going to tell you about my personal story because I’m tired of no one reading my profile.” It will be a great success, just a thought.[:D] OK another puzzle. I went to look at this posters profile (I always look to see what is there) and it is "no longer available?" But as for posting to get my profile read? NO WAY I just truly was sharing.

domiguy -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:42:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shysub23fake It's funny how a fake like slave2behis can toss around how he/she hates it here. Seems to me that if you come in as a fake you should take the licking (no pun intended) as it cums (again no pun intended!! I know that you can report people's profiles like this one....It does seem that of late I have seen a growing number of these types of profiles on CM.....It would be nice to see them disappear.

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:42:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: slave2behis quote: ORIGINAL: stef Wow, a whole three months. How did you manage to stick it out for so long? ~stef You know Stef, I read your profile (as I did almost all the letters I got) and I see why you are happy here, it IS good for forums and you like that, but three months was more than enough to show me that this place is filled with those who aspire to be Masters and many who are confused about who and what this is all about. Look missy, you come out here and suggest that everyone is full of shit but you and your old goat....How can that be?...Maybe the problem is YOU! That seems to stand to reason since you are obviously incapable of finding someone to meet your needs...Either you utilize very poor judgment in choosing who to meet....Or you might be so wacked that everyone who might be able to accomodate your wants, senses that it would simply be wiser to keep their distance from you. You know, you may very well be right about that. I never thought of myself as "incapable of finding someone" or as having poor judgement, but I will take it under advisement

Jeffff -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:42:53 PM)
How can anyone doubt your coolness..:) Jeff

FullCircle -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:43:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave2behis OK another puzzle. I went to look at this posters profile (I always look to see what is there) and it is "no longer available?" No puzzle, just personal choice.

EbonyPhoenix68 -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:44:01 PM)
In my journey as a Dominant, I have found my experiences on CollarMe to be some what of a mixed blessing. While I have made some friends in the midst of seeking my one, I also have had the displeasure of encountering some undesireables (mostly fake subs/slaves looking for a quick score, financially speaking) who had no more of an idea as to what BDSM or for that matter, what submission nor slavehood (not slavery) was about. Since that time, I've gained some valuable insight and real time experience by networking with some real time lifestylers, some of whom I consider as good friends that I can thank enough for their advice and teaching. I don't know the whole story of what you have been through, but know that in finding you Master, it will take patience and time, which when one thinks about it, is the key to a successful D/s relationship. While it is true that we all want someone to love, cherish and protect us, it is important to learn to love yourself for who you are as a person first, and then as a Dom/Master or sub/slave. Best wished to you in your search.

slaveluci -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:44:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: babygirl005 I found my Master here on collarme........ He is the best thing that has happened to me....... .maybe i met Master on the "other" collarme? The one where all the jerks are! Just snipped this out to say "Ditto! Same here." I know everyone's experiences vary but I just never had the negative experiences so many claim. But, then again, I didn't answer "every letter no matter how idiotic" as the OP did and I didn't travel around the country at my own or others' expense trying desperately to make something work just because it was suggested. I think if one uses some wisdom and discretion, this site and others like it can be wonderful resources. I know meeting Master here has been the best thing that's ever happened to the both of us. OP, the fact that your master is willing to have you back says alot about him. Maybe you should look into appreciating him a bit more instead of searching the world over trying to find someone younger or better. Just a thought.............luci

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:45:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire I tend to follow the same logic as LaT. It is not wisdom to alow your slave to look. To prove how perfect you are because she cant find someone else is rather pathetic in my eyes. But thats my opinion. The moment a slave of mine expresses a interest in leaving to look and see if they can find something mising, they are released. They are NOT welcomed back and I sure as hell wouldnt allow myself to be considered a safe haven and a fall back plan for them. Thats insulting. My pets serve me because they want to, and becasue in their eyes I am the perfect owner for them. The second they questioned that devotion, they would be released to go find what they wanted. That might not be what works for HIM, and if it makes you two happy then be happy you have him still and go back to him. However, dont expect us all to be awed at your relationship, or to agree with your views. I have met many friends on here. Face to face wonderful people, not trading a keyboard for a drink, as you put it. I have had some of the boys I met here serve me, others have just been friends, some Dominants are close friends now. It can take ages to meet someone worthwhile. It took me nearly 6 months to meet Angel, and even then I didnt know what I had until after we had been talking onine for a few months more. If you cannot be patient, and you are so concerned with the passage of time, then you shuld ot be looking online AT ALL. It is not necessarily safe to jump offline and meet right away. I have taken more time than you have put into your entire search just to get comfortable enough with someone to meet them face to face. But, as I said, this is just me. What you said is you. Putting it up on the forums, is asking for opinions, and if you dont really want those opinions then you shouldnt be on here. Dont get al bent out of shape when we dont embrace your ideas, since obvously you dont embrace ours either. You may have not had the luck you were hoping for, but it isnt the sites fault. DV First, thanks for taking the time to give me such a long reply. Second, I am learning from what has been written here. (like female dominants seem to have more luck than I did) Last, you ARE RIGHT, I was blaming the site for people's failures and dishonesty. I guess maybe the whole internet way of life is one that I may not understand...which is odd for I have been on it for most of my life.

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:47:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveluci quote: ORIGINAL: babygirl005 I found my Master here on collarme........ He is the best thing that has happened to me....... .maybe i met Master on the "other" collarme? The one where all the jerks are! Just snipped this out to say "Ditto! Same here." I know everyone's experiences vary but I just never had the negative experiences so many claim. But, then again, I didn't answer "every letter no matter how idiotic" as the OP did and I didn't travel around the country at my own or others' expense trying desperately to make something work just because it was suggested. I think if one uses some wisdom and discretion, this site and others like it can be wonderful resources. I know meeting Master here has been the best thing that's ever happened to the both of us. OP, the fact that your master is willing to have you back says alot about him. Maybe you should look into appreciating him a bit more instead of searching the world over trying to find someone younger or better. Just a thought.............luci Thank you luci... I think that both having had my Master, leaving him (with his permission) and going back into his strong sadistic arms is the very best of all possible worlds

domiguy -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:51:08 PM)
He is still going to die....How many rings does he have round they old twat tickler? Maybe you should get away from the dying dude and find someone a bit more on your level? it might be better...Old people do smell funny.

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:51:16 PM)
WOW! Neat story. I am happy for you and your Master. But I also see that you too have encountered the many difficult people.

Mstry -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:52:13 PM)
my Mistress has complained to me about getting insults form complete strangers.

slave2behis -> RE: My Personal Collarme Exprerience (9/24/2007 1:53:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy He is still going to die....How many rings does he have round they old twat tickler? Maybe you should get away from the dying dude and find someone a bit more on your level? it might be better...Old people do smell funny. Over 65. But his father lived to 103 and drove his car till about six months before he died. His family is all long lived. "smell funny"? Now that is something I never noticed at all. But soon I'll be able to sniff him out [:D]

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