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Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 11:52:07 AM   
dizzi


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Status: offline 		i have been in the lifestyle for several years, met lots of wonderful people so why is it ...

Some Doms expect you to accept a collar from them on line within 2 minutes of talking,
and if you say no thank you then you are not submissive at all.
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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:07:01 PM   
Gemeni


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Status: offline 		I dunno exactly.

Maybe they are in a hurry-because mommy will be coming home from work soon,and find out what they are doing on her computer?

And if she DOES,that's IT! They are SO going to be grounded and lose thier tv and skateboard privileges!

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:07:59 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


Posts: 3645
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Cuz that's what Ds is to them.

Trust me, subs have just as quick notions of how doms should act right off.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:14:30 PM   
Gemeni


Posts: 255
Joined: 2/19/2005
Status: offline 		Rolls his eyes.........Tell me about it Emerald.

Some seem to feel that if I don't metaphorically thrown them down,jump on thier neck while beating my chest, and doing a "Tarzan Yodel".............

I'm not a WEAL DOM!

Can you say, "Living in fantasy worlds"?

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:23:35 PM   
Faramir


Posts: 1043
Joined: 2/12/2005
Status: offline 		Well at least there is cosmic balance - for every dim dom there is a woefully stupid sub.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:30:34 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gemeni

I dunno exactly.

Maybe they are in a hurry-because mommy will be coming home from work soon,and find out what they are doing on her computer?

And if she DOES,that's IT! They are SO going to be grounded and lose thier tv and skateboard privileges!


ROFL Thanks for the good laugh. So true, so true!

Cin


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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:39:30 PM   
perverseangelic


Posts: 2625
Joined: 2/2/2004
From: Davis, Ca
Status: offline 		My favorite thing, ever, is someone who believe that I should do what he says -regardless- of my partner.

I think that my favorite conversation occured between me and someone who believed that submissive people should be available to -all- dominant people.

Me: My partner prefers I am not sexual with anyone that isn't him.
Him: He's wrong.
Me: Huh?
Him: Slaves should be available to anyone who wants to use them.
Me: Well, regardless these are his rules and I don't break them.
Him: Fuck that I want to view your cam.
Me: I'm not allowed to. How would you like it if your girl/boy broke your rules just because you didn't have to be there at the moment?
Him: It wouldn't be a problem if she was being used. She is there to be used, and bring someone pleasure even if it's breaking my rules.
Me: Ah. Can't say i understand that, but it isn't how my dynamic works, in any case.
Him: Then he isn't a REAL dominant. He would want you to be used if he was.
Me: He wants me to be used as -he- sees fit. Which includes obeying his rules.
Him: He isn't a good Master then. A real master knows other's pleasure should be his slave's first duty.


and so on and so forth.

Anyway, just ranting a tad.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 12:45:33 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		LROD needs to file that one away for future use.

quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Me: Well, regardless these are his rules and I don't break them.
Him: Fuck that I want to view your cam.


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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 1:11:52 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic
Him: He isn't a good Master then. A real master knows other's pleasure should be his slave's first duty.



ROFL Bad slave, Perverseangelic...You obeyed your master!! Bad, bad slave!!

Cin ::rolling her eyes and remembering countless similar conversations::

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 1:13:33 PM   
plantlady64


Posts: 755
Joined: 5/19/2005
Status: offline 		Hello There,
My advice to you would be to consider the source, tell them they are not being realistic, tell them as they haven't met you they don't know if you're a real sub or not, and that they must not be a real Dom to take collaring so lightly.
If you don't want to be that foreword you could ask them what a collar means their responsibilities to you would be if you accept. That usually shuts the request to collar you off at the pass.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 1:30:11 PM   
stormsfate


Posts: 849
Joined: 2/1/2005
Status: offline 		OMG...where do you guys find these people???? (laughing hysterically)




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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 2:18:28 PM   
pinkpleasures


Posts: 1114
Status: offline
quote:

Some seem to feel that if I don't metaphorically thrown them down,jump on thier neck while beating my chest, and doing a "Tarzan Yodel".............

I'm not a WEAL DOM!

Gemeni


i have to admit, i'd love to hear that yodel, Sir.
From my emails, i swear to God:


This man sent me a naked picture of himself, and i asked him not to contact me again....as soon as i received an email blistering me, i'd block it, only to receive yet another from him under a different nick...so i copied everything and sent it all to ModOne..who has evidentially dealt with him...but what i don't understand is why a simple "please don't contact me again" caused such an uproar to begin with:

quote:

Who cares you shriveled up old pig? Why dont you post a picture of your big fat sweaty twat hole? That should really get them going. Maybe you could really turn them on with your belly fat rolls. It amazes me how you pigs troll for love on the internet and fantasize about naked collar and leash and then get indignant over a naked butt. Drop dead you smelly old pig. Post away. I got more id's than that fat ass smelly ass of yours can shake a stick at. Enjoy your welfare you pathetic old fart.

I
quote:

couldnt resist sending you one last message. I sent you that picture without my head to show I wasn't fat. Not to try and make you all warm and wet. What is unbelievable is you dumb cows advertising for pony girl training, cages, and naked collar stuff and then acting like a nun when you see some guys naked butt? Piss off you shrivled up oinker!!


quote:

Are you joking? It was simply toshow I am not fat. I left my head off for that purpose. Good god you women are fullof yourself. You advetise on here about this lifestyle and you are offended by a mans naked butt? Fuck off you dumb cow
.

This man's profile says he is not looking (but does not say why he's on-site) and chastises me for a paragragh (since removed) in my profile in which i make it clear i am financially stable and not in need of rescue.

quote:

Do you believe mentioning money and your former occupation might attract most of the fakes on this site to contact you in hope of landing some of that money, rather than a true interest in who you are and a genuine relationship? You may wish to edit any mention of money....for it draws those who are not in your best interest.


quote:

You are wise enough to figure such things out on your own. Being submissive does not mean you lack intelligence. It is just the opposite, a submissive is one who merely does what is natural in life. The mentioning of money on a profile attracts the greedy, the con artists, the smooth talkers and many others who do not have your best interest in their hearts. Why would you have to discuss that with anyone? You are a former attorney, what I wrote should be common sense. Protect your heart, your assets and all else valuable to you in life. I have seen many lose all their money by being conned out of it. Don't make the same mistake.


The man objected to my response, in which i indicated i planned to ask a trusted Master or Dom friend for His impressions of my profile.

quote:

Trust me, it bothers me not. If you need counsel on something so simple as not bragging about money on your profile, then seek all the advice you require. You obviously need the help.

This shall be my last contact.


Now, i will say, yesterday was a bit unusual...i do not normally receive so many emails from nutty men...but it's not entirely distinct either. i do not know whether all submissives receive this much crap or i have written a profile that attracts nutters. i'd be interested to know the answer.

pinkpleasures

< Message edited by pinkpleasures -- 7/22/2005 3:01:56 PM >

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 3:05:32 PM   
cumslutcockwhore


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Status: offline 		pink pleasures.....

are you sure it wasnt LRODANDMDASTER i mean LRODANDDUMASS?

whats it to ya

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 9:37:15 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Gemeni

I dunno exactly.

Maybe they are in a hurry-because mommy will be coming home from work soon,and find out what they are doing on her computer?

And if she DOES,that's IT! They are SO going to be grounded and lose thier tv and skateboard privileges!


Bloody hell !!!!!!


quote:

Rolls his eyes.........Tell me about it Emerald.

Some seem to feel that if I don't metaphorically thrown them down,jump on thier neck while beating my chest, and doing a "Tarzan Yodel".............

I'm not a WEAL DOM!

Can you say, "Living in fantasy worlds"?


ROFLMFAO

quote:

Well at least there is cosmic balance - for every dim dom there is a woefully stupid sub.


That did it..... Thank gawd the dog likes eating the steak n kidney pie I was eating.....

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/22/2005 9:45:35 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		I do remember one girl telling me that she had a problem with a Dim Dom at one function who accused her of not being a sub because she refused a collar after about 30 minutes of chat.. Well him doing the talking anyway.. she simply told him in no uncertain terms that he was not a Dom’s arsehole and grabbed the collar from his hands and locked it about his neck and handed the leash to a friendly and laughing Mistress near her…….Sheesh I’d love to have seen that.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/23/2005 7:35:38 AM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		I'd have loved to see that one too...to say we have our dumba**s amoung us is a understatement...but as it goes..they sure do seem to find someone out there willing...lol


Fury

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/23/2005 8:48:47 AM   
dechala


Posts: 114
Joined: 2/20/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dizzi

i have been in the lifestyle for several years, met lots of wonderful people so why is it ...

Some Doms expect you to accept a collar from them on line within 2 minutes of talking,
and if you say no thank you then you are not submissive at all.

i've found that many deal with rejection in different ways.By telling you that you are not submissive because you will not accept a collar after a short amount of time is simply thier way of getting a jab on you because you rejected them.Just my opinion anyway

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/24/2005 2:10:32 AM   
Focus50


Posts: 3962
Joined: 12/28/2004
From: Newcastle, Australia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

My favorite thing, ever, is someone who believe that I should do what he says -regardless- of my partner.

I think that my favorite conversation occured between me and someone who believed that submissive people should be available to -all- dominant people.

Me: My partner prefers I am not sexual with anyone that isn't him.
Him: He's wrong.
Me: Huh?
Him: Slaves should be available to anyone who wants to use them.
Me: Well, regardless these are his rules and I don't break them.
Him: Fuck that I want to view your cam.
Me: I'm not allowed to. How would you like it if your girl/boy broke your rules just because you didn't have to be there at the moment?
Him: It wouldn't be a problem if she was being used. She is there to be used, and bring someone pleasure even if it's breaking my rules.
Me: Ah. Can't say i understand that, but it isn't how my dynamic works, in any case.
Him: Then he isn't a REAL dominant. He would want you to be used if he was.
Me: He wants me to be used as -he- sees fit. Which includes obeying his rules.
Him: He isn't a good Master then. A real master knows other's pleasure should be his slave's first duty.


and so on and so forth.

Anyway, just ranting a tad.

Excuse me, but just WTF do you mean by "and so on and so forth." ???? That's the funniest thing I've read in years and you cop out with "and so on and so forth."!!!!

Talk about an anticlimax! You should rant more often....!

Focus50.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/24/2005 2:25:53 AM   
MadameDahlia


Posts: 2021
Joined: 8/11/2004
From: SoCal aka Hell
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Me: My partner prefers I am not sexual with anyone that isn't him.
Him: He's wrong.
Me: Huh?
Him: Slaves should be available to anyone who wants to use them.
Me: Well, regardless these are his rules and I don't break them.
Him: Fuck that I want to view your cam.
Me: I'm not allowed to. How would you like it if your girl/boy broke your rules just because you didn't have to be there at the moment?
Him: It wouldn't be a problem if she was being used. She is there to be used, and bring someone pleasure even if it's breaking my rules.
Me: Ah. Can't say i understand that, but it isn't how my dynamic works, in any case.
Him: Then he isn't a REAL dominant. He would want you to be used if he was.
Me: He wants me to be used as -he- sees fit. Which includes obeying his rules.
Him: He isn't a good Master then. A real master knows other's pleasure should be his slave's first duty.



-giggles- When I'm in a deviant sort of mood I enjoy this sort of banter with the less than gifted in the intelligence department. They get so bloody riled up I nearly fall out of my chair with laughter. I remember one such conversation...

Him: Do you domn8 guys?
Me: No.
Him: But ur a Dominate!
Me: Nope!
Him: Y does ur profile say "dominate"?
Me: It doesn't. Read more carefully.
Him: I did & it does.
Me: Nope again. I'm a Domme - who will sometimes "dominate". There's a difference.
Him: Wot do u mean?
Me: It's a matter of using basic English.
Him: Y? R u from englan?
Me: Yes. You've figured it out. Even though I'm listed as living in California I'm actually from England. You win today's prize.
Him: Wot? WTF? Y wold u put cali if ur from england?
Me: I think that one went right over your head.
Him: wat did? Wat r u talkin abot?
Me: You have an irrational prejudice against the words What, About, You, Are and What. I cannot tolerate such bias.
Him: i'm not! i like all colors...
Me: There's just no saving grace is there?
Him: wat?
Me: Never mind.

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RE: Dim Doms - 7/24/2005 2:34:28 AM   
Focus50


Posts: 3962
Joined: 12/28/2004
From: Newcastle, Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia

-giggles- When I'm in a deviant sort of mood I enjoy this sort of banter with the less than gifted in the intelligence department. They get so bloody riled up I nearly fall out of my chair with laughter. I remember one such conversation...

Him: Do you domn8 guys?
Me: No.
Him: But ur a Dominate!
Me: Nope!
Him: Y does ur profile say "dominate"?
Me: It doesn't. Read more carefully.
Him: I did & it does.
Me: Nope again. I'm a Domme - who will sometimes "dominate". There's a difference.
Him: Wot do u mean?
Me: It's a matter of using basic English.
Him: Y? R u from englan?
Me: Yes. You've figured it out. Even though I'm listed as living in California I'm actually from England. You win today's prize.
Him: Wot? WTF? Y wold u put cali if ur from england?
Me: I think that one went right over your head.
Him: wat did? Wat r u talkin abot?
Me: You have an irrational prejudice against the words What, About, You, Are and What. I cannot tolerate such bias.
Him: i'm not! i like all colors...
Me: There's just no saving grace is there?
Him: wat?
Me: Never mind.

This is the best thread I've come across forever!

Edited because I apparently can't write one line posts without screwing them up!!!!
Focus50.

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