Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

post-anal play


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> post-anal play Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
post-anal play - 9/27/2007 2:38:41 AM   
bigtrouble1


Posts: 8
Joined: 8/24/2007
Status: offline 		 

so i'll be having my first session in a few weeks and i'm interested in being played with anally. i understand things will have to go very slow. my (serious) question: what will going to the bathroom be like shortly afterwards? (will i be able to poop ok?) any problems/concerns?

i ask because i am a total beginner. please take this seriously  

edit: i'm a guy if it makes a difference.

< Message edited by bigtrouble1 -- 9/27/2007 3:18:17 AM >
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 2:52:17 AM   
pearlmoongirl


Posts: 68
Joined: 12/8/2006
Status: offline
Welcome to Collarme! This is an excellent question - I for one will be waiting to see what people say.

~pmg

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 3:13:03 AM   
SweetDecadence


Posts: 1
Joined: 8/16/2007
Status: offline 		You will be able to poop just fine. It's a little runny, or for me it was...but otherwise, things are fine.  Your butthole will be large for a few minutes afterwards, but that's about it.  A little anal sepage might  happen, too.  But trust me, you'll be fine.

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 3:16:21 AM   
girlkitten


Posts: 3
Joined: 10/20/2006
Status: offline 		Go to the toilet first, else play will be very, very messy, even if you do go before hand it'll still be messy.

You shouldn't have any problems going afterwards, though you might feel a bit sore, depends if how much you get stretched, or if you get torn at all, if you do get torn it'll sting a bit(lot), and generally isn't too good for your health.

If you do get torn make sure to wipe properly away from the wound, shower and clean the wound, ect, see a doctor if it doesn't heal in a couple of days.

You might find your, leavings, will be an odd shape, or you'll have a bit of what looks like a runny tummy if you are played with a lot, though that wont last more than a little while if it happens at all.


If enough lube and care is used you'll be fine, if not you'll be sore. That's the long and short of it.

Have fun.

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 3:17:48 AM   
bigtrouble1


Posts: 8
Joined: 8/24/2007
Status: offline 		 

oh, and if it makes a difference - i'm a guy

(in reply to girlkitten)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 3:21:54 AM   
girlkitten


Posts: 3
Joined: 10/20/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1
oh, and if it makes a difference - i'm a guy


It'll make a diffrence during play, if done right you'll enjoy it a hell of a lot, and possible be weak at the knees and unable to stand for a short while.

Shouldn't make a diffrence afterwards, save pissing might be a little, weird, feeling for a while.

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:24:10 AM   
spankmepink11


Posts: 1310
Joined: 9/28/2005
Status: offline 		Relax and enjoy it,!  You might consider an enema before hand to avoid a mess, sometimes i fast for the day if i know i'm going to be enjoying anal play that evening.....in lieu of an enema.

I't's never had an effect on my ability to "function" properly.

Best of luck

(in reply to girlkitten)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:35:59 AM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline 		Don't believe them...it feels like giving birth. 

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:38:09 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Don't believe them...it feels like giving birth. 


Well quit fucking elephants then.


_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:38:56 AM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline 		Hahaha.  Oh don't worry.  I did.  A long time ago.

(in reply to LaTigresse)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:40:11 AM   
SubJordanTyler


Posts: 268
Joined: 4/16/2007
Status: offline 		I think most everything I was going to say has been said already.  Since this is your first time, it's gonna hurt somewhat - there is no real way to avoid that, even with lots of lube.  But just use a lot to try and make it hurt less.  I would use an enema first to help clean out and avoid messes.

You might feel like you need to go to the bathroom during it, but that's not likely going to happen.  It's mostly just muscle contractions.  You shouldn't have much problem going after, although it could take a little longer than normal to go that first time after.  You'll be sore for sure, but it's a nice kind of sore.  You may tear, which will hurt, so like it's been said, just pay attention to it to be sure it's not too bad and doesn't get worse.

(in reply to spankmepink11)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:40:25 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		I just couldn't resist.....

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:41:20 AM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline 		Bitch!  lol

(in reply to LaTigresse)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 6:42:47 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		You flatterer.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Aileen68)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 7:25:35 AM   
breatheasone


Posts: 4004
Joined: 7/14/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1



so i'll be having my first session in a few weeks and i'm interested in being played with anally. i understand things will have to go very slow. my (serious) question: what will going to the bathroom be like shortly afterwards? (will i be able to poop ok?) any problems/concerns?

i ask because i am a total beginner. please take this seriously  

edit: i'm a guy if it makes a difference.

You may have some residual soreness.and alteast you don't have to worry about getting your ass pissed in after the ass fucking!(actually thats kinda a nice touch really, and i have pissed directly into my Masters ass...i;m SUCH a freak! )...LOL  ENJOY!!

< Message edited by breatheasone -- 9/27/2007 7:33:40 AM >

_____________________________

Romans 10:13,For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Mike posts in black font
candy posts in pink font

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 7:29:15 AM   
MsBearlee


Posts: 1032
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline 		 
My question is...why haven't you tried this on your own...beforehand?  That just makes no sense to me.

B

_____________________________

A must read for submissives! (click here)

This one, as well!

(in reply to breatheasone)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 8:07:57 AM   
masher03


Posts: 1
Joined: 8/16/2007
Status: offline 		practice with fruit 1st?

(in reply to MsBearlee)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 8:14:45 AM   
GabrielleSlave


Posts: 616
Joined: 9/20/2007
From: in servitude
Status: offline 		My Master and i have just started anal play and although i was apprehensive beforehand, i have to say that it is sooo powerful and the idea of Him being able to use me in all holes is just wonderful.  i do get a little sore after lots of use, but as long as He uses plenty of lube i am fine.  Afterwards i can feel a little odd...larger if you will, but it does not last for long.  Toilet stuff seems to be put on hold for me, but even this is fine after a little while.

i really hope you get as much out of this as you can and that you enjoy it as it W/we do.

Gabrielle x

PS Master love it as much as i do, so seeing it from His male perspective, i KNOW you will enjoy yourself lol!

_____________________________

Slave to Master Slayer

~ Host of the Rather Marvelous Greenwich Munch ~

"There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master."
D. H. Lawrence

(in reply to MsBearlee)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 9:23:11 AM   
EclipseAbove


Posts: 220
Joined: 8/11/2005
Status: offline 		You may not be able to get all that you can from this in the few weeks before your session, but there is an excellent book on anal called "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Jack Morin.  I would recomend it for anyone, even those experienced in anal play.  It is especially good for those who are very apprehensive toward any kind of anal play.  My slave went from anti-anal, everything hurts, no-way to someone who now can reach orgasm just from anal sex and absolutely loves it.

As for the OP's questions, you shouldn't engage in anal if you are within a few hours of needing to go to the bathroom (messy and can be uncomfortable).  Optimally, you'll want to engage in anal one or two hours after going to the bathroom (or after an enema).  So, it should be quite a while after your anal play before you need to go to the bathroom.  It should be pretty normal, provided you didn't do any serious damage - that shouldn't be the case if you went slow, stretched and used lots of lube.

(in reply to GabrielleSlave)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: post-anal play - 9/27/2007 9:30:44 AM   
TotalState


Posts: 278
Joined: 9/3/2007
Status: offline 		I heartily recommend http://www.puckerup.com/index.php?section_id=354& for all lovers of anal, experienced or not.  Lots of good advice in there, and the rest of the site is well worth the read as well.


And knowing what sort of fun both of you will experience...congratulations!  ;)


_____________________________

Spanking with a smile, living with feeling.

(in reply to bigtrouble1)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> post-anal play Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.156