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RE: pain - 7/25/2005 5:32:44 PM

MstrHellsFury

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my forte is bondage..this above all gets mine super wet...add a little flog flog here and a paddle paddle there and they go wild...but as I'm not so much into the heavy pain..it's not as much a turn on for me...the immoble body is..woohoo...oh well..I hope they're not missing something as they both seem to have low pain thresholds...I may push limits but if I go to far it would be abuse in my mind...anyway...I've never had anyone who was able to take extreme pain so I won't even go there...pass the blindfold and get on the rack..it's time to do your stretching excerise...

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RE: pain - 7/25/2005 6:25:10 PM

gretchen

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ORIGINAL: Superman42280

What women here like pain? Why does it turn you on? Does a slap in the face make you wet...?

I don't think is the pain what makes me wet, but rather the feeling that someone I love and trust is harming me.

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RE: pain - 7/25/2005 7:57:20 PM

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I enjoy pain oftent imes to much....lol I am into extreme play. The rougher the better to me.

Pain is erotic to me. I love the snap of the whip, or flogger. The feel of a sharp blade on my skin. Yummy. I love to bite, to draw blood and to be bitten. I like to have my pain threshhold pushed and to push that threshhold for my Owner as well at times.

However, a slap in the face. Typically stops me dead in my tracks. To me slapping in the face a sure sign of disrespect. I have not had an owner push that limit to any major extremes because of the state of mind it puts me in.

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RE: pain - 7/26/2005 7:10:47 AM

Fawne

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Interesting answers.

I can be excited by moderate pain. Face slapping is not neccessarily painful. I've had it done and was suprisingly OK with it. BUT, I consider it more humiliation play than anything.
For it to be really painful: You'd likely have some 'splainin to do as to why your girl's face was black and blue. May not be.... a good idea!

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RE: pain - 7/27/2005 10:18:37 AM

arryshanna

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quote:

What women here like pain?
Why does it turn you on?
Does a slap in the face make you wet...?

Pain can be part of pleasure, as so many have said it depends on who is giving and what level of space i am in.

Master knows me well and he regulates what goes on. A good Master should not only question but be observant of his property/lover/bottom/what ever the situation is.

I have only been hit in the face three times, i damned near killed the first person who did it because it was so unexpected that i pushed them through a glass wall.
The second time was by my favorite aunt and that ruined my relationship with her from then on, (if you really want to disrespect me slap me) i am not a dog to be treated roughly and with anger or without cause.
The third time i was hit in the face was by one of the first men i ever served, it broke my heart that he would do something so cheap and evil to me, i went cold and stopped responding ( i was in a tied up situation). He wa smart enough to realize that the fire in my eyes was no longer a fire of desire it turned into cold hatred. He let me up an i never spole to him again.

I know that their are amny out there who will read this and say that i did not give him a chance, but it is the one thing that will imediately show me that you are a person without grace or style and that your pleasure is not worth my pride or honor.

I am putting away my soap box now .

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RE: pain - 7/27/2005 11:32:53 AM

nenakajira

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I like a moderate degree of pain but mostly in the guise of foreplay or sex. We dont scene.. so the S&M style play is not part of our relationship.

As to face slapping.. well... that was the one thing I told him I couldnt handle when we got together. Well.. that didnt last long. He did it only in the context of sex and lightly at first to the point where I would equate one with the other. Now when he does it I tend to cum. But, its not really about the pain.. its about the power or lack thereof. Knowing that he can and will do as he wishes no matter what I say is intoxicating all on its own.

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RE: pain - 7/27/2005 11:33:41 AM

wednesday

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I know that their are amny out there who will read this and say that i did not give him a chance, but it is the one thing that will imediately show me that you are a person without grace or style and that your pleasure is not worth my pride or honor.

I actually just want to know if you told the guy ahead of time how you felt about being slapped.

There are enough of us out there who LOVE it that it can't really be taken for granted that a guy will know it's considered disrespectful to YOU, you know?

I just think it's the kind of thing that needs to be discussed. For example, many people I talk to hate face slapping but enjoy spanking. I love face slapping, but if someone spanks me they get one polite warning and if they do it again I break all the fingers on that hand. I figure, if I told them ahead of time and they don't listen...

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RE: pain - 7/29/2005 4:58:30 PM

katerinagirl

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i enjoy pain as well. i love when my Master uses the flogger, slapper, Her hand or anything else during a sexual scene. It actually intensifies the scene, causing me to move and beg for more harder and harder. Recently i was reading an erotic story to my Master and She began fondling my nipples and pulling and twisting them and i actually become so excited i can hardly hold back. She knows my body so well. Master has said She is going to just use erotic pain (spankings, flogger, ect) to watch the pleasure it brings to me. i am so looking forward to the event.

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RE: pain - 7/31/2005 2:32:37 AM

subD4master

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I for one like pain... in my training my Master taught me to turn pain into pleasure..its a great feeling..My master will not slap me in the face.. if it would happen I would turn it into to pleasure .its a mind over matter..if anyone else would slap me in the face..My Master would give you a beat down and I would kick your ass...i endure the pain my Master places on me..I enjoy the pleasure of pleasing him

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