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agirl -> RE: tested by your Dom (1/19/2010 5:39:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: serisa
should have added in case unclear, he says he didnt get drunk. this made up and part of the testing to see if i react appropriately, apparently moral to teach me was 'this type of behaviour long term leads to lack of trust and if one day there is a serious problem and you do this alot no one will care about you as they will think you are messing them about'. this is what told him and hence he said i hade passed test. i guess trying to teach me exactly why i shouldnt do this type of thing (not that i ever would).
However, yes i was still worried sick about him all night that he could have had car crash or whatever which is why i worry so much whats going to happen next,
Don't you feel even slightly insulted to have someone putting you through a ridiculously worrying time to *show you* something that most people have worked out by the age of 10yrs old? The appropriate response to leaving your door unlocked all night, and worrying about someone throughout ...is annoyance at their thoughtlessness.
Come on, even my children would call if they're held up and I'm expecting them. It's called consideration and thoughtfulness.
The testing appears to be *How many lumps can she take?*
Having said that...Are you a thoughtless, inconsiderate person that needed to be taught this *lesson*?. Or ....Are you an emotional masochist that likes the angst of endless insecurity and emotional turmoil?
Any way...... as it's a 3yr old thread ..everything I just wrote just seems amusing now.........lol
agirl
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