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defiantbadgirl -> older and larger subs (10/1/2007 4:05:11 PM)
Right now there's a thread in Ask A Mistress about male subs preferring older bbw Dommes. It seems to be generating alot of positive responses. I was wondering how many Doms out there prefer older bbw subs?

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 7:24:38 PM)
Wow, several hours and not one single response. Apparently, older bbw women are only in high demand with male subs, not male Doms. Sadly, it appears there is a huge double standard.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 7:59:33 PM)
I was going to post here earlier. . For me, the size isn't important, I have been with a fair share of BBW girls, and skinny girls. Both have something to offer the other doesn't, even in experience. BBW girls offer lots of fun and are really cuddly. :D As for age, I do sometimes like older, they can prove to be wiser, and mentally more mature (not always), and I've run into a lot of younger subs that just aren't ready or stable enough mentally that do something to prove their immaturity.

FangsNfeet -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 8:54:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Wow, several hours and not one single response. Apparently, older bbw women are only in high demand with male subs, not male Doms. Sadly, it appears there is a huge double standard. You did post this on a Monday. Don't forget that many are only here on the weekends. Weekdays are cramped and that having to get up early for work kinda sucks. Anyhow, finding an older sub who wants to serve a younger dom can be tricky. Starting with child hood, we're told to respect elders and take charge or care for those younger than us. By the time we reach adult hood, calling someone yonger than you "Sir" or "Maam" out of service and truely meaning it can be a challenge. This is not the case for every one but I hope you see where I am comming from. I've had my cases of being with people older than me. The main problem with these enounters is that they belived in wanting to be the teacher or showing me what I should or need to do. It was more about "Let's see what my experience and age can do for you. I bet you never had anyone do anything like that before?" I'd like to see a Male Dom try a little experiement. Find a female sub who is younger than you. If you can look it, lie about your age to make her think she is older. See how she acts and how much advice she offers for the next scene. Reveal your true age and see if you get less advise and more respect. Let us know how it turns out. For most of us, it's hard to belive that a younger person can and should be in controll of you. Let's say your a lady in her early 20's and you wish for your guy to be in his late 20's or early 30's. Ten years later, you wish for a guy in his 40's or early 50's. Why is that? What stops you from thinking that a guy around 30 is no longer experienced or mature enough for you? Most Jr High girls wanted HS guys. Most HS girls wanted College Guys or the cute coach. With age, it all comes down to dealing with a mental block in coded from how we were raised. After all, "older" has been assimilated as athourity. It's a hump that may take a little time to get over.

Alumbrado -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 9:04:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Wow, several hours and not one single response. Apparently, older bbw women are only in high demand with male subs, not male Doms. Sadly, it appears there is a huge double standard. Since you are talking about two different groups, it should come as no surprise that they might find different qualities in their partners appealing.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 9:50:52 PM)
I can see where you're coming from with the age dynamic, but what about the weight factor?

obis -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 10:06:22 PM)
I agree 100% with FNF on the age thing. As far as weight, I don't think it's very difficult to understand, either. The vast majority of women desire men who are taller than themselves, this is simply the flip side of the same equation. Size = dominance. I want to be able to genuinely, physically control a woman that I'm dominating. I want to be able to pick up a woman and toss her over my shoulder.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 10:44:04 PM)
So basically, the majority of older bbw subs are screwed while the majority of older bbw dommes have it made.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 10:59:35 PM)
Yea, I don't believe in what obis said. Women now-a-days are generally bigger than what the public says about them. Sure you can find skinny women, but what lengths did they go to, to become that? Make themselves sick? Who knows. Don't get me wrong, skinny women aren't bad, but this is a new age, a new time, they're not as common as they used to be. Enjoy what you get.

xoxi -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:18:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl So basically, the majority of older bbw subs are screwed while the majority of older bbw dommes have it made. Nah just find a bfg (or whatever the euphamism is for 'big fat guy') who can pick you up and toss you around. I guarantee no matter HOW much you weigh there's a guy somewhere who has 50 lbs on you. At least.

Estring -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:20:09 PM)
My slave is 51 and short and petite. Perfect.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:25:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi I guarantee no matter HOW much you weigh there's a guy somewhere who has 50 lbs on you. At least. That's so f'in true! lol Just look at the biggest guy in the world news. . Yet he's happy with some girl that's smaller than him (though one would consider her a BBW). Getting married and they even have 'relations'. . somehow.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:41:47 PM)
Wow, I didn't know that. I may be overweight at 5'4 208lbs, but I'm far from breaking any world records. Glad he has someone. Overweight people need love too.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:53:39 PM)
They do, it just so happens that most overweight woman have more of a soft side, as well, from what I experience, and more skinny girls like to be upstraight rude. I love me a plushie. :D

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/1/2007 11:56:05 PM)
I like Doms with dark hair and tattoos. Everyone has their preferences.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/2/2007 12:07:07 AM)
So very true.

Hottiegurl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/2/2007 12:13:21 AM)
I have been told that my ass draws attention and not in a bad way either. I am on a diet and many of the men I know are telling me that I should not take off all the weight and that their subs tell me the same. Guys seem to like something to hold on to. Go figure. The age thing is also good for me I have guys on both sides, older and younger looking to me for fun. I am happy just being me. If i lose the weight don't worry there is still enough to hold on to. I was born with curves.

girlygurl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/2/2007 12:44:12 AM)
It's frustrating for me... I mean the whole weight thing. Sure, if I could get myself in a size 9 I'd be extremely happy, but I don't see that happening anytime soon. At 45, I've never felt more sexy and desired by both men and women... I guess what pisses me off is when men go out of their way to address the weight issue, when in reality, they themselves need to lose a few, and aren't that easy on the eyes. I know, how about we get passed the barbi doll shit and start looking at real women... what a concept. But then again, I suppose we all could stop eating, become rail thin and become *most* mens dream. ha! but then we'd all die off. Who ya gonna fuck then huh??? Oh I know, THEN you'll get around to viewing us bbw's for possible subs/slaves. Too late, sorry charlie... we don't want your ugly asses anyway. Ok, so I'm laughing at myself for going off like that. No disrespect intended, just a hot button I guess. I suppose I could delete my response to this thread... but I'm feeling brave.... Lets see if I get in trouble for this one. [:D]

defiantbadgirl -> RE: older and larger subs (10/2/2007 1:01:39 AM)
Well said. Some women can't look like barbie even with diet and exercise. Take me for example. I had too much amniotic fluid during a pregnancy and my skin is horribly stretched. No amount of diet and exercise will fix that, only expensive surgery. I used to obsess over my appearance when I ran over a mile a day. Now I expect people to accept me for who I am.

PsychoticWolf -> RE: older and larger subs (10/2/2007 1:07:07 AM)
You should always look at things that way "being accepted for who you are" because in reality that's all you will ever be. You can't be any of the other people here on the boards, or anyone anywhere else. You can try, but you won't ever get that exactly. Perfection is social standards, takes about $100,000+, person trying for perfection has had over 20 surgeries and STILL counting. Getting rid of everything a person calls 'ugly' at one point during their lifetime. Wrinkles, stretches, misaligned eyes, small breasts, too large of a breast. . etc the list continues.

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