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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 8:16:06 AM   
ThorsHammer


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Status: offline 		Interesting question?

Right after "babes" and I decided to start our D/s relationship, I looked over her entire wardrobe. Much of what she had was not acceptable to me and very much out of date. After having her "colars" done, we started rebuilding her wardrope in the colors the complimented her auburn hair and her fantastic copper colored eyes. Early on I picked out her clothing for her. Now, I allow her to pick out clothing subjuect to my approval. I must honestly say that "babes" likes the changes we have made. So do I!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The clothing I have "babes" wear is determined by the occassion, location, and purpose. However, regardless of the occassion, I have her wear clothes that compliment her figure, her natural coloring, and her comfort level. For example, if we are going to attend an outdoor concert by the local smyphony, usually she will wear a blouse with just a bit of clevage showing, nicely fitting slacks, and farily low heeled shows. Reason is simple. Most of the time, the audiance will have lots of children in attendance. I don't feel it is right or proper to expose them to "slutish dress." If we are attending something more formal, then she will were a long dress with a bit more cleavage showing, high heels, etc. In summary, I have her dress to fit the occassion, wearing clothes that compliment her, she is comfortable wearing and will not bring any undue attention to her or our lifestyle.

At home, it is different. she always wears her collar .... may be in different stages of dress or undress but always wears high heels. she has become used to and very comfortable wearing 3 1/2" heels and we are now working of 4 and 5" heels. "babes" is required to be "sans" panties except when she is having her period.

If we are "out of town" where the odds of us meeting anyone we know, I have her dress much more provocative. Blouses and tops showing much more cleavage, shorter skirts, higher heels, etc. We both enjoy those times ......

In summary, when "babes" is on my arm, I want everyone to know that I am proud to be seen with her. Likewise, I want her to be proud of herself .... knowing she looks the best she can! Not just for me .... but also for herself.

Donn
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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 8:25:20 AM   
Superman42280


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My requirement for a slave would be pantyhose or thigh highs at all times, as well as heels (unless she's out gardending or something)

Skirts or shorts. Nice makeup always, hair up.

As long as her nylon covered legs are available for my groping, all is well.


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 9:04:40 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Forget the pantyhose …. Stone the Crows! .. Stockings and suspenders, very sexy. Knickers (if she wears them with side clips for ease of removing and unless there is a good reason, no bra. That way she is available for me at any time. It’s not to hard to have a female dress well and be a stunner even with these requirements and not look like a whore.

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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 9:21:23 AM   
tinkJH


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Status: offline 		Just a wondering question.. Personal Experiance. What happens when she can no longer wear the heels? If she wears 3+ inch heels all the time.. or anytime but when gardening (I am pictureing Stepford Wifes when they were working out in heels and in makeup). What happens when her knees or ankles are damaged, she has to have surgery and is told she can no longer wear heels? I know Master likes heels, but the most I can get away with is platforms. Im not allowed heels :(

*Cries* I miss my heels!!!

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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 9:26:23 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		At home, I prefer bare feet. However the important factor is her safety. If she cant wear high heels then we find suitable compromises. I want her looking good and feeling good about herself and not making herself a cripple to try to please me.

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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 9:44:39 AM   
tinkJH


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

At home, I prefer bare feet. However the important factor is her safety. If she cant wear high heels then we find suitable compromises. I want her looking good and feeling good about herself and not making herself a cripple to try to please me.




Thanks for the response IronBear. Im often feeling rather upset I can't wear heels, Master wont even allow me to tempt it. I end up barefoot at home, tho I've grown very accustom to likeing open toes sandals.

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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 10:01:26 AM   
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If you were my slave, I wouldn't make you you or allow you to walk in heels either. Only when you were vertical, I'd let you put them on, but never to stand up in them -- if that made you happy.

A healthy and safe sub is more important than a sub in the particular fetish outfit i ask.

Superman


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 10:27:08 AM   
tinkJH


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Superman42280


If you were my slave, I wouldn't make you you or allow you to walk in heels either. Only when you were vertical, I'd let you put them on, but never to stand up in them -- if that made you happy.

A healthy and safe sub is more important than a sub in the particular fetish outfit i ask.

Superman




Not sure how well it would do wearing them only while on my back (which is what I think you meant?). Heels were pretty much an addiction for me. I wore them at all times even through HS, except when I slept. When I got a job that required at least 2.5 inch heels when I was 17 - I was in heaven.. specially since I worked 6 hours shifts where your not allowed to sit down. Hey, I loved it - but, I suffered for it :( and I still do. *wails* I'm afraid if Master even bought me a pair that I could only wear as long as I wasnt walking or standing on them - that it would rekindle that lusting desire I once had for them..

must focus on sandals.... must focus on sandals.... must focus on sandals...

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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 10:50:15 AM   
Superman42280


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What job was this you had where you had to wear at least 2.5 inches high heels?


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 10:52:15 AM   
tinkJH


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 10:54:34 AM   
Superman42280


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Status: offline 		Really? Why the heel requirment?


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 12:20:57 PM   
tinkJH


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Superman42280

Really? Why the heel requirment?




It was just the dress code. Unless we had a medical note. Min req for heels was 2.5 inches. We werent allowed to sit in the chairs those "were for customers" and it would be seen as us being lazy, We had to wear formal clothes to - stockings/pantyhose, appropriate undergarmets, skirts no shorter then the knee with no slits allowed more then 2 inches, and any typ of shirt that showed cleavage was a no no, a button up blouse was what was reccomended, either short or long sleeve - a dress jacket was optional. Even in the winter with an inch of ice... heels were worn. Of course, then I wore sneakers to worn and changed into the heels.

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so why am I ten feet under and upside down..? " (Lifehouse ~ Storm)


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 12:37:03 PM   
Superman42280


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Interesting.

If I were your Master, just saying, you wouldn't enjoy me allowing you to wear heels when sitting down or laying... just so you could enjoy them on your feet? No standing of course, nothing that could hurt your ankles....

I would allow you to do that for your own pleasure.... and maybe mine if we were horizontal ;-)

Just saying :)


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RE: Attire - 8/1/2005 12:50:08 PM   
tinkJH


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Status: offline 		I'd prolly love it, but then I would get really upset, and probably slightly depressed that I wouldnt be able to actually wear and enjoy them. :(

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http://brazendreams.blogspot.com/

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RE: Attire - 8/3/2005 5:17:16 PM   
Superman42280


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thats no fun....

i'd find a way to let you wear heels again....


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RE: Attire - 10/17/2005 6:22:49 AM   
Alostsoul26


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Status: offline 		Its all a matter of personal preference. I prefere my pet in heels, and thigh highs. Usually a short skirt, and some sort of top, all though I have been known to want her topless. I rarely have her go naked, as I like her with something attractive of, and it makes her a little less self concious. Sometimes when I want to make her self concious, which I do on occasion to ensure her submission, I just have her walk around in cuffs, heels, and her collar.

Its also easier on her knees if she has something covering them, even something as thin as stockings.

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RE: Attire - 10/17/2005 6:44:23 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tinkJH
When I got a job that required at least 2.5 inch heels when I was 17 -


Wow, a job that "required" 2.5 inch high heels? That must of been hell on the guys!

I wonder how this company justified such an outragious dress code. What is the rational to make a high heel necessary...to sell jewelry. As an HR professional, this one amazes me, and as an employee, I would've given them hell about this rule.

Now for a Dom to require his sub to wear 2.5" heels...that's actually a low heel, if ya think about it.

K

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RE: Attire - 10/17/2005 7:36:07 AM   
Sensualips


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Status: offline 		Tink, due to a bicycling accident and ankle surgery I can no longer wear heels either. Of course, I never adored them they way you obviously did so it is no great loss to me. However, there are times when I am getting dressed and think, "Damn, I really need black heels for this outfit."

I feel your pain.

However, there are lots of strappy sandals that are fun too, with painted toes peeking out.

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RE: Attire - 10/17/2005 9:29:45 AM   
petwolf22


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Status: offline 		i work as a dancer, and the minimum goes anywhere between 4" and 6" heels...while im comfortable walking around in them, i think anything on a constant basis would make for severe lower back pain and constant sore ankles. i already deal with both.

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RE: Attire - 10/17/2005 11:29:17 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		I had ankle surgery on both legs when I was VERY young & then blew knees about 10 years ago. I really like the look of heels but have learned my ankles & back hate it under normal conditions. I have been able to find heeled boots of varying colors & leathers that get me past this. I think in some cases that they are more fun. It does require that I wear skirts longer than I might have wanted to but they look great & don't require frequent visits to the chiropractor or leg docs...just an idea.

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