LaTigresse
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Now, on a brighter note (for me) I just happen to despise racism. Yet, I find that I have tended, at times, to carry some of the societal conditioning around as an unconcious bit of garbage. Something I don't particularly like, nor am I proud of. Well, that being said, yesterday something happened that brought a great deal of joy to my crusty, hard, black heart. Someone here at the shop asked me who dropped off some copies of a local publication we advertise in. Yes, I was present when the person left them and yes I do remember speaking to them. No, I don't think I have ever met them or know them. Then the person asking said "was it a really talkative black guy?" To which I replied with a blank stare and an "ahhhhhhhh, I don't know.... not really talkative, yeah I think it was a guy, very sweet and unassuming, but I honestly don't know if he was black or not." Now, I have always been annoyed when people use race or certain phrases to describe a person that they would not otherwise use. Example: "We have a new director of sales, a woman, she obviously knows her stuff, kinda cold and businesslike and yet, somewhat personable. Seems like she could be a bitch if you crossed her" OR, "We have a new field engineer, black guy, seems to be pretty smart and well spoken. Went to school at MIT even!" If you cannot see why those bug me....come here and let me slap you. Anyway, the part of this whole thing that made me happy was the fact that I honestly could not remember if this guy was any specific race. I even had to stop and really think about gender. The qualities that did stick out in my mind were the instant perceptions of personality and humanity. And THAT is the way I want to think of people, the inner person they are not the exteriour package.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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