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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/11/2005 2:33:41 PM

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Like many here, i think it's a preference. Myself, i would never put a limit like that on a relationship. But then again i'm talking about me! Until you open your mind and let new ideas in, you'll never know what you're missing. Some people are narrow minded, never knowing the uniqueness it is to find a dominant or submissive that you can not only open your heart to but even more.
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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/11/2005 2:41:19 PM

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I'm just not attracted to black men. It's nothing racist or sinister, only a personal preference. I usually don't limit my relationships to only people I find physically attractive though.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/11/2005 3:24:14 PM

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I've dated quite a few really nice black guys, and was always treated very well by them.

Some of their friend, and some of my friends ... were a completely different matter. Excuse me if I just don't want to put myself through that.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 2:13:54 PM

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I've dated quite a few really nice black guys, and was always treated very well by them.

Some of their friend, and some of my friends ... were a completely different matter. Excuse me if I just don't want to put myself through that.

Through what, exactly?

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 2:34:22 PM

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I responded in an email ...

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 8:13:55 PM

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Like many have stated here, I have my own personal preferences. Also, like many women have admitted, I prefer tall men. Now, being as I'm 5'4", tall is a bit relative. Are there reasons for that preference? Yep, but I won't go into them here. However, I WILL say that, statistically Asian and Hispanic men tend to be shorter, so while I have dated the exceptions to the statistics, as a rule they simply aren't my natural preference.

As for the scenario of "Look who's coming to dinner" and living in the south, my older sister took care of that quite nicely more than ten years ago when she started dating a black man. Surprisingly, my parents took it well. And I say well because during our highschool years we(I have three sisters) were told repeatedly that if we ever brought a black boy home we should be prepared to pack our bags and move out. Suppose they had mellowed or were by that time more concerned that she be happy than with what color a guy was. Unfortunately none of us liked him. And nope, not because of his color but because as a human being he was a dud and treated my sis poorly.

Sooo, while I may have hesitated because of family issues when I was younger to date a black man, I wouldn't and don't now. These days it's all pretty much about making the connection and hmm a certain chemistry.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 8:32:26 PM

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You make an excellent point, so much depends on the environment you were raised in and how willing you are to step out of your comfort zone. As far as I'm concerned, the difference are only what people choose to see and not necessarily real differences.

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i spent all my "formative years" in Tanzania, E. Africa.
i dated mostly black nilla guys, many from Africa ~ Zimbabweans, Nigerians, etc.
i was in a serious relationship with a white guy who had incredible blue eyes and an awful scar on his face from an accident due to heroine useage.
i prefer a certain stature of a man....but he definately HAS to be taller. I prefer HAIR on his head rather than bald. i prefer an accent.
i am color blind.... but when i opened my eyes, what stood before me was character, integrity, dignity and a man who some women find a wreck.
i believe in Him, He has my support, encouragment and strength as i have His.
Some folk are so blind they cannot see the forest for the trees.
We bumped into each other as we backed up from another.
i know His heart pumps out red blood after its entered into His smoke filled respiratory system. His veins run wild with blue blood just like mine.
i dont know what color He is, He just is.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 8:45:08 PM

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Yet, hardly anything has been said other races mix that reach national attention. It truely is interesting in researching the reasons as to why an inter racial couple involving a White and Black person is so unique, different, and perhaps more odd than any other couple. Does anyone have thoughts on this?

This is a TRUE story. i worked in neonatal ICU and a definately black baby was born to a white couple, prematurely. Within a week the man had left the wife/woman. Since the baby was a premie, it lived with us for about 3 months.... the parents got divorced, the man moved on...he accused the wife of sleeping with a black man. Before discharge, praternity tests were done. The baby belonged to the man. Later the MD told us the couple had blood testing and the man had definate black heritage he knew nothing about. They ending up getting remarried.

Its so sad how our society prejudges, judges and refuses to live without color barriers.

At the toddler tball game the other week i saw a blonde hair blue eyed man with a very dark skinned black woman....they had 4 kids, 2 played on the team. One child was incredibly beautiful...softy curly black hair and blue eyes, with skin as dark skin as his mother's.
Damn it was so good to see such diversity.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/13/2005 8:56:55 PM

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I've kinda stepped back from this post since coming out with it but..you'rs is the type of response I was hoping to see...I know all the we have preferences and to each his own ..been there done that...it's old I wanted to hear about why or why not...something along the lines of..it's to taboo and that troubles me so I avoid it..or damn if I ever brought a person of another race home I'd be disowned...and I know there's those out there that feel this as I've heard it just today in a e-mail...I was looking honesty not cliques...I want the unbound thoughts to be heard...I'm looking to find answers to resolve views I've had which may or may not be valid...everyone boasts of their honesty here...so get past the simple answer...go for it...enlighten us...say what it's like for you...(I don't like dark colored skin)...(I don't like the corseness of the hire as it rubs me)...(I love the corseness of the hair as it makes my skin tingle)...whatever...maybe you don't like think lips...or (for the guys) maybe you love thick lips on your johnson...lots of ladies today are going for the thick lip look...I know I'm reaching here but I'm just trying to get more from everyone...and yes I also know wanting to get more out of anyone should be from my own first...but I have their responses...

Master had me serve a white attorney guy who only would be with black women...he loved a black womans ass and the courseness of their lily hair. Why did he allow me to serve him since i am white and my a$$ isnt round and i am shaven? It was a dare. i am the only one who EVER took his nine inch all the way up and all the way down.
But he didnt care...loved it yes...but prefers his black gals. He did tell me tho, his attorney freinds would unfreind him if they ever knew his perference. Such a sad commentary on prejudice.

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 8/14/2005 3:14:55 AM

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Master Fury,
I wanted to answer this post so many times but I have stalled until now... I will be frank here and I hope I don't pay for it.... for my particular case.... this is how it is...

I am a white woman who was raised in a very racial town.... the racial hate for my entire childhood was very high.... I learned that black people are very dangerous and well... you know the rest (total prejudice things)....

as I matured, moved away, observed racial issues around me and etc. over the past 25+ years... I have learned a hell of a lot.... the most important thing I learned about race is this...

It was not black people that I was prejudiced with.... it was the crime that was going on in my hometown city that I was prejudiced with.... I'm sorry but it appearred to me that the crime was caused predominantly by the black folks that lived in our area. but I may be wrong, who knows? As I've also learned how crooked and bad white folks can be and still are to this day.... (in my town).

I believe that about 20 years ago, I got over this childhood impressed prejudice.... an interesting event.... I got a ride to the store from my spanish neighbor who looked like he was a black man... I had my 2 year old white daughter with me..... I have to say, I was shocked with the prejudice attitudes of the white folks who were around us....

This black looking neighbor was doing me a big favor to give me a ride.... he was very kind.... and the white people who just looked at us and assumed we were a couple were so prejudiced, with sneers and mutterings, I actually was afraid of them... that's how strong their messages were!

I was enlightened.

I want to say that today, at the ripe old age of 43, I have learned quite a lot and I am not prejudiced.... I am angry at white people who are.... but I am also not judgemental against them because I know that they were probably raised as I was... in a town that had a lot of racial hate and racial violence...

only a few of us are lucky enough to escape that way of thinking but the sad thing about that is..... even if we did escape, and we are enlightened.... if we would ever hook up with a person of the opposite race.... we would reap havoc upon ourselves from our own folks.

Many can handle that.... and deal with it to be with the love of their lives.... but most people are weak... .and even though they may not be prejudice themselves... the backlash they would receive from their own race, that they would have to put up with for the rest of their lives is too intimidating to handle....

sad, but true...... at least from this white woman's point of view....

(hey, that rhymed!)

hope this sheds some light. zay

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RE: Black Master/Dom/me...White submissive/slave - 6/8/2006 12:16:31 AM

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i would only serve a Black Master or white Mistress who loves to do Black only......i would lick her white ass out after my Black Master had been there and allowed me to.....i would be sick if the master was white instead of Black and had to do that..... i am such a Black Worshipper that i would not let the only white boi with 99 Black Masters use my white girlfriend...it would have to be 100 Black and noooooooooo white worms thank you

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