spankmepink11
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I've always hated when some one automatically shortened my name, mostly because i dislike the shortened version more than the full name itself, and my mother always told me if she wanted me to be called by the shortened version she would have named me such. (My name is Cynthia, and it's like nails on a chalk board to be called Cindy) Because of this, i generally refer to a person with the name they introduce themselves with, ie....Michael as opposed to Mike...Joe as opposed to Joseph etc. If i am asked, i will give my own shortened version that friends and family use. (Cyn) In the case of my son, my husband at the time wanted to name the boy after him, not only did he have a middle name i didn't like, but he was a Jr. I finally agreed on the first name (James) but broke the Sr, Jr, and the dreaded III cycle. Also, as another poster stated, i had an aversion to him ever being called Jimmy or Jim, so naming him James was contingent upon us calling him Jamie. Now, only people who see his drivers license know that he's actually a James
< Message edited by spankmepink11 -- 10/7/2007 4:29:32 AM >
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