LadyLynx
Posts: 1098
Joined: 7/24/2007 Status: offline
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kind of reminds me of just after deciding I wanted a Mistress not a Master, (and wrote that in my profile.)a guy wrote to me with a"Hi are you,How is life?" type of email, we began emailing back and forth, saying right from the get-go that I wanted a Mistress. At first he seemed to be cool with that, just wanted to talk about general stuff. then he began asking to meet, I said "sure, why don't meet for coffee?" he says no, he wanted me to come to his house. I said nuh uh, no way was I going to come to someone's house that I didn't know. He was like well I don't like playing in public so you will have to come over. **groans** I said, I don't remember agreeing that I would play with you. This is making me very uncomfortable, I would appreciate it if you don't email me for a while. A few months go by, and he drops me a note,long time no talk! What have you been up 2? I mentioned that I had been talking to a Domme in Jackson who might work out. He asked what did I want from a relationship, I only remember one part that I told him I want someone who understands me, my desires. He wrote back saying I understand you, here is my address, I want to see you on friday at 8:00 pm. *head hitting the wall* Argh. I wrote back saying "you are blocked. No you don't understand me. I have told you right from the getgo that I have no interest in a Master! At any rate good luck in your search. There was also a guy who when hearing that I was bi and looking for a Mistress, he couldn't seemed to understand. I asked him, do you ask a bisexual man why he would choose to have a Mistress over a Master? Or vice versa?
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Our community maybe openminded as a whole, but it is still made up of individuals who bring in their own opinions,baggage and agendas! Known as SwitchWitch in my local community,and on IRC Bondage. I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.
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