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The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 12:23:36 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		As i was getting ready for work i stumbled upon a body cream i have not used in a longgggggg time.  It was one my ex loved and i used often when i would go see him.  The scent brough to the surface memories of our time together, and i found myself responding in a physical way (getting aroused), with the combo of scent/memory.  i have thought about him before, obviously i will think about things in my past, but i don't get aroused.  Has anyone ever had this kind of experience with a scent, or maybe it was something else that when linked to a past memory gave that memory some kind of life.  

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 12:26:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Angel and I both have the same reaction to the smell of baby oil. We use it when we play EVERY time we play, and thats really the only time we ever use it. The smell can put him in my head, or me in his, every time.
For him, its planned, and he has to actually make an effort to be around it for the most part. For me, I work in a store and if I stock the baby aisle, sometimes I get a whiff I hadnt planned. Thankfully, I am not male and no one knows quite what it does to me.

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 12:33:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kiehl's "Forest Rain."  It's the lotion I massaged my ex with.  Luckily it's a Special Edition.  But my ex-roommate loved it so much he went and bought a ton (since it was a special edition).  So I smell it and get wistful (and turned on, lol). 

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 1:39:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: velvetears

Has anyone ever had this kind of experience with a scent, or maybe it was something else that when linked to a past memory gave that memory some kind of life.  


Ah yes....olfactophelia....mmmmmmmmmmmm
I have fallen in love with the smell of underwear and have often exghanced underwear in the post as a kink....no chance of that at the moment as the Post Office are on strike here....
hoever I can dtect the smell of a dominant male....YUN...I spent some of yesterday buried in his arm ppit....there's pherenomes I am sure that are subconsciously smelled...
I once took pasrt in a fascinating expeiment whilst majoring at Universisity. it was held in the Psychology department and it was a series of control tests to see which participanys reported they liked the scent of a piece of gauze and which ones they liked the most
salthough I thought I could not smeel any difference conscoiusly i did seem to smile and giggle and say I liked some gauze (for some unknown reason0 better than others....at the de-briefing i was told it was male hormone...........
can sense it a mile away lol....
well whale, frogs and butterflies travel miles for a scent don't they and so do the dogs around here....for my sweet little bitch

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 1:51:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are quite a few scents which trigger memories and strong emotions for me.  I don't think it is at all unusual.  The memories and feelings induced by scent run the gamut of the emotional spectrum, too.  For me, at any rate.  YMMV
 
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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 2:08:18 PM   
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Rubber or latex.

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 3:10:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think of my mother any time I smell orange sherbet.  She used to buy me a scoop of it every Saturday when we went on our weekly shopping trips.  Old Spice makes me think of when I turned 19 and got my first apartment (my very hunky neighbor wore Old Spice daily).  Oh, and anytime I smell the ocean, I am reminded of a trip I took to Galveston at 2 in the morning.  Good times...

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 3:21:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Memory centers of the brain are closer to scent processing centers relative to any of the other sensory inputs.  This is why scents triger such vivid memories, more than sound, touch, or sights that remind you of past experiences.  Of course the other senses can triger memories and responses too, but scent is the easiest, because of the structure of the briain.  Who knew, working towards a degree in developmental neuroscience can be useful!

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 3:27:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		"Hospital smell" evokes a feeling of comfort in me....Ok thats really weird, and i don't wanna know why that happens...

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 3:35:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dunno why, but i just love the smell of my Master. His natural smell is just pure heaven to me. I love doing laundry..hows that for wierd..lol.

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 3:38:06 PM   
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Dunno why, but i just love the smell of my Master. His natural smell is just pure heaven to me. I love doing laundry..hows that for wierd..lol.

OK...*blushing*...I totally put a pair of my Master unders in a ziplock bag and took them home and slept with them....so let me aboard the freak train.....WOOO WOOOO


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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 6:15:52 PM   
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Rubber or latex.

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you have one of those too cool gots to love latex yep yep :)

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 6:30:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Latex and lately leather scents get me aroused. The scent fills my head ,my head starts the image projector and the next thing you know I am all randy.....seductive big ole cat ,I go on the prowl looking for my boy to pounce on......poor boy!


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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 7:51:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		hehe...weekend before last at the event i went to....there was this big guy i met and on sunday he wore a leather shirt...with lacing! and my inner kitty escaped every time i saw him...and he let me rub against his stomach (face height for me) and he laughed when i caught his lacing with my mouth...until he had to tuck them inside cause had to get back to his booth to vend....yes...leather is a good smell...and for my inner kitty its like catnip...

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 7:58:43 PM   
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I've heard such nice things about the experience.

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 8:01:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can get aroused via several kink related scents: leather, rubber, hot wax... Currently, my Domme is wearing an essential oil, a scent called "Arabian Wood." It mixes with her natural scent the way fruit and berries mix with that of freshly made waffles. She's given me a small vial of the scent, which I use for those moments when I'm thinking of her, in private. Suddenly, I feel the need to go to the local Waffle House... LOL

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 8:19:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		just the perfume and the natural smell of my man do it for me...makes my eyes rolls by themselves when i smell him....putting his clothes on for some time are the best when i want to *wear him* during the day

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 10:09:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

Memory centers of the brain are closer to scent processing centers relative to any of the other sensory inputs.  This is why scents triger such vivid memories, more than sound, touch, or sights that remind you of past experiences.  Of course the other senses can triger memories and responses too, but scent is the easiest, because of the structure of the briain.  Who knew, working towards a degree in developmental neuroscience can be useful!


Thank you everyone for your responses. This i found particularly interesting, i never knew that about the brain structure.  i have had scents evoke memories before but this was a first to  have a scent evoke arousal before i even consciously made the connection to what the scent was and what i associated it with. 

i have always had an odd  fondness for the smell of skunks.  weird i know.  my um's - both love the smell of gasoline - they did not get that from me . 

i also associate a certain flowery scent - with precognitive experiences. 


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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 10:26:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Absolutely, scent is a huge memory trigger for me. 

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RE: The Scent of Domination - 10/9/2007 11:02:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Floridian air.  Maybe it's the pollen, the heat, or perhaps all of that humidity.. but it makes me feel alive again.

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