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Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 4:13:06 PM   
Oh2PleaseHer


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Status: offline 		It seems to me most on here are fake not to mention men or boys pretending to be Domme. Is there a better way?
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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 4:16:07 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Lots of fake subs here just looking for kinky sex. Are you one of them?


Diane

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 4:33:46 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


Posts: 1898
Joined: 2/10/2005
From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline 		Turn off your computer.   Get involved in your local scene. 

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 5:12:55 PM   
flowspen


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From: Memphis
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Oh2PleaseHer

It seems to me most on here are fake not to mention men or boys pretending to be Domme. Is there a better way?


i have the opposite expereince from you.  i have found alot of real Dominants here.  i have enjoyed the interactions with them.  i use to meet alot of fakes but i changed how i approached others and when i did that i started meeting real people on this site.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 5:20:04 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline 		Do feel free to share your past methods and contrast with your new ones that work :-)

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 5:33:16 PM   
unforegvn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Oh2PleaseHer

It seems to me most on here are fake not to mention men or boys pretending to be Domme. Is there a better way?


OMG ~ fakes ~ on this site, I wondered where they were all hiding. What methods did you use to infiltrate their security system?  How did you break their code?  Homeland Security could you someone like you.


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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 6:17:10 PM   
wewantaslave


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Status: offline 		go local and read lots from the boards. :)

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 6:26:39 PM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

Turn off your computer. Get involved in your local scene.



*applauds*

I have never met a serious potential partner online only. At the very least they need to get involved in my local communities whether I lived in NYC or Indiana. Someone who can't do that, isn't appropriate material for my household.

He/she might be appropriate for someone else.

The point it, if one method is not working isn't it foolish to just continue in that same method and expect different results?

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 6:29:03 PM   
HottLicks


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Status: offline 		I now understand the vanilla cones being given out when you first get here. First post and this real one is dripping.  Chocolate coat yourself and I might consider you real enough to talk to me.  Oh yeah... I'm fake... I confess, I just like chocolate.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 7:12:07 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline 		Can you please clarify what you mean by "fake?"

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 7:45:11 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 7:48:07 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm very quick to tell people I'm fake.  I'm made entirely of plastic.
 
The truth is, even if My initial introduction to someone is by their screen name, it's My intention to meet people in real life.  I'm very much one of those, "I'll believe it when I see it" people. 

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 7:58:37 PM   
Zarine


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Status: offline 		I get so freaking annoyed at people calling me a fake simply because I'm not going to show them my webcam.  I mean honestly!  Webcam isn't the end-all be-all of proving you are who you say you are in any case.  I think to find someone who is real you just need to keep looking and keep talking and avoid the Doms/Dommes that are really pushy right off the bat or people who get easily offended.  It's just like real life, you're bound to meet a lot of people who pretend to be your friend but are really talking about you behind your back.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 8:24:43 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I have. I've met all my current partners upto date online, last one lasted 4 years. The one before him lasted about 2 years. My current one and I have been friends for 2 years and together for one.

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo


I have never met a serious potential partner online only.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 8:27:00 PM   
iammachine


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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 8:28:06 PM   
iammachine


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quote:

I'm made entirely of plastic.


Suddenly I have Aqua's "Barbie Girl" in my head....


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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 9:30:32 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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From: Arizona
Status: offline 		I have decided I am too tired to be real today, so I cannot answer this question.

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 9:46:18 PM   
MistressHolly71


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Joined: 7/4/2007
From: Southern Maryland
Status: offline 		If most on here are fakes, then does that mean you're a fake too?

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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 11:38:26 PM   
littlesarbonn


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From: Stockton, California
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Lots of fake subs here just looking for kinky sex. Are you one of them?


Diane


No, but I can learn!


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RE: Help from real Mistress - 10/9/2007 11:46:58 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zarine

I get so freaking annoyed at people calling me a fake simply because I'm not going to show them my webcam.  I mean honestly! 


Nah there's irony in having the fakes call you fake because you don't send them nude pics after one email.....I enjoy irony.

I guess I can understand someone wanting to see if the person is really a female, but come on be realistic, it's a personals site about sex.  If you expect women to give up their personal information to you right away, the fake is you and you have no regard for people wanting to be safe.

l

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 10/9/2007 11:49:18 PM >

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