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Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 4:22:02 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		After an interesting conversation (among vanillas) about whether anyone has or would sleep with their boss (current boss in specific or just in general), I was just wondering how many of us BDSMers have done or fantasized about this.  Also include any authority figure or person with influence on your future/career.  Oh, and any bosses out there fantasizing about or nailing their minions?  What was your motivation?  Your own sexual gratification?  Career advancement?  Or is that like cake and icing ;)?   Of course I'm sure it could come around to haunt you too though...

I know I've always had a huge professor complex and will admit to having fantasized about almost every relatively attractive prof I've had in college and grad school.  The power, intelligence, charisma...  Mmmm.  I would never come onto them, but, well, if they came on to me I'd probably go for it!  Not if they were on my thesis committee though.  Well, okay, no way I'd turn down Dr. Pasquinelli, she can have me any day, even though my future probably will be in her hands. 

I just figured this might be fun to gossip about since there are lots of D/s underpinnings to this concept, and I'm also interested in people's thoughts and experiences on the ethical issues involved as far as career influence.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 4:26:41 PM   
therealboss


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Status: offline 		i got more than i wished for,and i did not have to sleep with the boss


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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 4:31:57 PM   
Prinsexx


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Status: offline 		Everyone I sleep with becomes the boss

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 4:42:04 PM   
came4U


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Everyone I sleep with becomes the boss


omfg Prinsexx lol, that the funniest thaaaaaaaang I ever heard.

I chased a boss once, a hot Italian hunk of man-meat MMmmm.  I was addicted to him.

It didn't effect my position at the company (yeah, everyone knew because I was sooo young and stupid and obvious with my eye-ball humpin' lol).  No one outright said anything, just grins, even the company owners. 

My hottie (who was about 20 yrs older than me) changed locations within the company because we were too much distraction to another.  We remained friends after that. The sex was just too volitile and HOT that it would just be dangerous to ourselves and everyone around us.

Tony? where r YOUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu???  lol

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 4:54:05 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

quote:

Everyone I sleep with becomes the boss


omfg Prinsexx lol, that the funniest thaaaaaaaang I ever heard.



It would be funny if it wasn't true; ex husband number one; rock star, ex-husband number two..Who's Who of business and a multi-millionaie, ex husband number 3 owns a string of gyms...i wouldn't mind but that was just the vanilla ones.......all of then great at dlegation but total submissive between the sheets which is why they turned out to be ex husbands
nevermind I pressed onwards....and upwards...or bore down whichever.....
most dominant males are shy folks happy to leave me to be powerful in the world and only interested in power wher it matters.......

edited because i spelled them ex husband number 1.....
ex husband numbest 2


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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:01:03 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Ewww...ick ick ick ick ick
But you don't know my boss  

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:02:23 PM   
came4U


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husband numbest 2


I can take that two ways sublimally hehe

husband dumbest 2

or best 'piece of number 2'

lol,

its funny. Why do men tend to end up sucessful AFTER it is over?  I feel responsible for the success of a few (because of the ego boost of a gal being submissive maybe??). Who knows.




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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:28:10 PM   
Aimtoplease101


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Status: offline 		I am the boss at work, so I've never been able to take this past the point of hypothetical fantasy.  But as a sub, the idea of having a female boss-- a dominant authority figure-- and having to serve her in every way, including sexually, is a powerful fantasy.  Her control over my career, and livelihood, and the ability that leverage gives her to command me, create an exciting D/s scenario.


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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:28:25 PM   
astarri


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Status: offline 		I will admit to having a crush on my strict psychology professor. I do not, however, develop a crush on all my teachers ...there was just something about him.  

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:44:15 PM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		I fantasize about having a boss.  Its been a long time since I've had the kind of job where someone tells me what to do rather than leaving it up to me to decide.

I've been around academics too much to see professors as the stuff of fantasy.  I just cant suspend disbelief with that idea.


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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:51:03 PM   
kyraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlebitxxx

Ewww...ick ick ick ick ick
But you don't know my boss  


My sentiments exactly.

My boss is physically attractive, but his personality makes him incredibly unattractive to me.  I have very little respect for him and have a hard time thinking of his as "the boss".

Now, if my Lord would allow me to practice a little CBT on him... that might have a little promise  *eg*

Knight's Kyra

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:54:36 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		Never actually went through with it..............but there was one job I had where my supervisor was this cute blonde who I wanted to sleep with...........and there were two co-workers there as well who I wanted the same thing with.  The boss never knew, but I think one of the co-workers knew I wanted her - never sure about that though.  I don't think the other one did.  And I had a professor who was hot that I would have slept with in a second.  For the boss and prof, I would have done it if it helped me at work/school, for the hell of it, or both.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 5:56:46 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		Okay, I have to defend myself in that I'm not going to fantasize about any short, fat, bad breath, ogre prof!  I have taste!  They do have to be attractive, and know how to comand attention for me to go there.  Guess I've been lucky enough to have a lot of attractive, charismatic profs.   

Haha, to all, thx for the laughs and comments!

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 6:02:58 PM   
ChicagoSwitchMal


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Status: offline 		I've fantasized about having sex with both female superiors and female subordinates but haven't done either. The saying don't eat where you shit fits nicely.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 6:17:57 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		um ok for um those who do not like drama and law suits and other things that fallow down the path of having sex with coworkers or bosses BAD IDEA BAD BAD BAD  this has been a public save your butt announcement

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 6:19:28 PM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tigrita

...Also include any authority figure or person with influence on your future/career...



this slave's job is pleasing Master.  He allows, nay, requires this slave to sleep with Him every night.

quote:

What was your motivation?  Your own sexual gratification?  Career advancement?  Or is that like cake and icing ;)?   Of course I'm sure it could come around to haunt you too though...


motivation?  serving and pleasing Him.  neither a career, personal sexual gratification, nor cake (with or without icing) were or are the goal.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 6:28:21 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I am the Boss and NO I never have nor ever will sleep with any of my employees.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 6:55:29 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I never slept with the boss.  She was a very prim and proper older lady.
I did have a lot of fucking sex in the old workplace during off hours though.
That was a fun time in my life.  Very fun.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 7:10:03 PM   
barefootprincess


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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Now, if my Lord would allow me to practice a little CBT on him... that might have a little promise  *eg*

Knight's Kyra

Kyra
Bet you got in trouble for that sentiment, didnt you???...*s*
princess

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 7:18:45 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I thoroughly fantasized about being raped and/or having sex with my teachers since high school.  It was mostly a father figure/intellectual turn on approval type deal.  I have not fantasized about any of my bosses, but often fantasize about being whored out to clients in exchange for their business.

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